u/HeresJohnny26

Hey everyone. Theres something that is actually bothering me.

I've noticed that I'm always genuinely happy and positive. What I mean by this is, I've never felt heartbroken or ever felt desperate for a relationship. Like you know you may see someone beautiful of the opposite sex. You know how people are desperate to find someone. I never felt an eagerness to find anyone like that. I've felt content being single and always remained appreciative of life. I appreciate family, friends.

You know how people say 'oh you missed the boat' and things like that, it doesn't really affect me. I just feel really content being me.

I never felt this empty feeling people talk about when trying to find relationship.

I love art, music and travelling alot, I almost forget about the need of a companion . I never hold any grudges against people either.

Am I normal? I often get scared that I'm like this. I even was in a relationship once and it ended, but I never felt sad or anything. My friend was like "I'm really sorry to hear about the breakup", but it didn't phase me.

Am I the only one like this?

Also I realised when an office is quiet, I often don't get why people are quiet.

I get anxiety because I feel I'm not normal lool.

Not soo interested in a relationship. Am I normal?

I need to know whether I'm the only one who feels this way. I don't get too excited over another woman. It's not like I'm I'm longing for a relationship. I'm really at peace with myself, that I don't even look to dating apps or anything. I never felt desperate. I'm just sooo joyful person who appreciates life. I enjoy reading alot, sports, movies etc. I get soo excited about these things and I often feel women and relationships are SECOND to all of this.

Is that normal?

I dont get bothered by any emotional attachment to the level that my heartaches or I feel lonely or sad or feel I MUST GET THIS WOMAN, SHES THE ONE.

I enjoy womens company, but I've always just been just soo happy, content loud jolly person.

What's wrong with me?

tl;dr: Not interested in relationships

I need to know whether I'm the only one who feels this way. I don't get too excited over another woman. It's not like I'm I'm longing for a relationship. I'm really at peace with myself, that I don't even look to dating apps or anything. I never felt desperate. I'm just sooo joyful person who appreciates life. I enjoy reading alot, sports, movies etc. I get soo excited about these things and I often feel women and relationships are SECOND to all of this.

I love women, I find them attractive and admire their beauty, but I don't feel sad about not having someone.

Is that normal?

I dont get bothered by any emotional attachment to the level that my heartaches or I feel lonely or sad or feel I MUST GET THIS WOMAN, SHES THE ONE.

I enjoy womens company, but I've always just been just soo happy, content loud jolly person. Like getting into a relationship is just for company but not because I'm sad ir anything

What's wrong with me?

What I'm trying to say is, if you have siblings, cousins, aunts who have achieved well in life, or they are handsome or beautiful, do you sometimes show off about them to your friends or work colleagues etc?

Sometimes, people get jealous of their own siblings, cousins achievements, but I always have a sense of proudness. Suppose they look really pretty or good looking, I'd show them off to my friends and just like to follow their footsteps.

What I'm getting at is, I'm not the jealous type. Even if my friends have done well, I'd show them off to other people.

I also get proud or admire the beauty of lets say my aunt or cousin sister, not in a perverted way but just happy to be related to them. Is that normal? .

I don't get jealous.

Am I the only one like that?

Is this abnormal?

= I don't hold many grudges against people and I don't let their actions affect me emotionally. I'm not naive or soft or anything. I do talk alot and can be loud, but I don't ever feel any hate towards people.

- When it's really quiet and serious at places like work, I wonder why everyone is soo serious and I start to overthink why its soo serious. Sometimes I'd go out my way to say hello to everyone but I get confused as to why its soo serious and people just look grumpy or afraid to talk. I start to overthink as to whether I'm abnormal or just like talking to people and get concerned if it's really quiet.

- This also gets me panicky and anxious because I start to overthink about whether I'm abnormal or not. I start to think if I'm capable of being in a relationship because I'm really a happy person, I don't find myself that I NEED LOVE or anything. I'm just hyper and cool. I'm not aromatic or anything, I can surely love someone, but I don't think I would ever feel hurt or heartbroken because I don't find that I needed a relationship to begin with as I'm always a positive person. Like I'm not looking to be loved but mainly the physical intimacy is what I'd be after.

When I see love songs there are couples getting angry and crying, arguing with each other and it confuses me because I'm just a really relaxed happy guy, I already feel fulfilled and I would just get into relationship to have good time and see it as an adventure to start family, but I wouldnt find it the epitome of happiness.

People keep saying that you need a relationship to be happy, BUT IM ALREADY A HAPPY PERSON. I get panicky attacks because I feel I'm different. I find music and other stuff soo appealing, I love the sound of music and I get fulfilled by that.

But it's as if people want to be in a relationship because they feel lonely and need to be loved and I feel that there is something wrong with me because, although I do get attracted to women, I don't feel the need to go out of my way to get them or look for a relationship. I don't even like the thought of online dating or anything.

I'm just soo chilled out, and I wonder if this is a dangerous thing. I don't cry over heartbreaks or anything, I just already feel blessed. I don't understand the drama with people needing to desperately find someone and get married or have kids.

Do you guys understand where I'm coming at? I'm just a very positive person, and I just don't feel an extreme need to find someone. Even if I was with someone, I don't think it would make me more or less of what I am.

I see that people are happy single because of their past issues in relationships etc, but I'm not even like that. I don't get the concept of heartbreak. I look forward to other things. I just get scared that I don't qualify to being in a relationship because I'm a positive person.

Am I the only one who thinks like this?

Am I normal?

Here's the thing. I never felt that I needed to receive love. I'm all down for being in a relationship but it's nothing to do with filling a void or being lonely. It's most likely that the other person is just cool and we click.

I never have this feeling of being lonely or NEEDING LOVE or anything. I'm a genuine happy person. I'm just wondering if there is something wrong with me because I can be just as happy being single and I don't understand the drama of having to NEED someone and all the heartbreaks. I'm such a happy vibe.

.Am I normal?

I don't think I'm aromatic, it's just that I don't feel the need to go to dates JUST TO FIND SOMEONE, and I don't feel any desperation.

Is that normal?

I don't find relationship to be the epitome of happiness, IM ALREADY HAPPY.

Are there any people like me who are genuinely happy just happy but don't mind being in a relationship?

I really don't feel the need to be loved. I'm really confused because people are in relationships and looking to get married. I never felt the feeling to date or to get someone and I get anxiety because I feel this isn't normal. Like people talk about getting someone as if it's the lottery or something special, but I don't find it to be like that and I'm really confused by it. It's not that I'm selfish I'm just soo comfortable single and I really don't feel like I'm missing out. I also feel soo free and just soo happy with music, movies and stuff.

I don't know what it is. I never had that desperation and I get really scared. I don't despise women. If I see someone attractive I I appreciate their beauty and do talk to them but I never get this feeling like I HAVE TO GET THEM OR NEED TO BE LOVED.

I am really worried something is up with me.

I don't even get this loneliness feeling.

I don't know why I dont get this obsession to find Someone and start a family.

I feel like I should do it because everyone else is.

Am I the only one who is like this.

Also I find myself overly happy just being me. I feel that I should be depressed and desperate to find love like every human being.

I don't know if this is normal behaviour but... if I decide to do a number 2 at work, I will try to poop as quick as possible very quickly in a rush before anyone comes in to the toilet as I don't want anyone to know I'm doing a no 2. When I'm done I keep looking back at the toilet to make sure its flushed - I end up looking again to make sure lool.

If someone is already in the toilet I will try to avoid doing no2 and wait for the other person to be done with their business and go again when its empty (work toilets only have 2 toilets and are pretty close together.)

If I'm already in the toilet about to do no2, and someone comes into the toilets and I notice there is someone there too, I will go on silent mode and wait for the opportunity for there to be some distraction/ noise where I can then poop quickly or I would sit there in silence and wait for them to go and then quickly poop.

Also do any of you shiver when you see disgusting toilets where people haven't flushed properly or have kept it unclean?

Lool I think im the only one who is like this. I feel that I have to be a ninja in the toilets lool

I loved playing this, but at the same time that alert noise when my ships were getting attacked scared me. The music was soo beautiful in this game and soo mysterious. I don't know what it was but the music sounded soo sinister and ancient. There were times when it felt like you were exploring the passage of time, there was this discovery sort of music when you build your empire.

What terrified me was the game over music when you are defeated. I got shivers from that. It didn't have to hit that hard.

Did anyone else get a feeling like that?