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Like sure you have cousins, friends etc…but your cousins are most likely gonna be at separate schools than you, not to mention friends are fake, phony, and real ones are hard to find ESPECIALLY during school years. Lots of the times you really have to fight your own battles and basically take on the world by yourself. And kids are MEAN and they love to gang up on and bully other kids, and you have to fight them all off by yourself. Vs having the luxury of saying ”leave me tf alone before I get my big sisters/brothers to fuck you up”. Even during adulthood, it still would be nice to have siblings that you know would have your back and stand up with you when the time comes and vice versa…It really shaped me into who I am today and why I always have my guard up and I’m quick to go on defense mode, cuz I’m not used to anyone having my back so I always had to have my own back. I made a post similar to this not too long ago but just wanted to refresh it i guess….But yea as only children, I really think we all learned that we have to have our own backs.

It’s like as an only child I’m so used to being alone and not use to people having my back often….so when I feel I’m being confronted especially by more than one person I tend to damn near fly off the handle…like a wounded animal that’s backed into a corner. Are any of you guys like this?? I realize this maybe due to trauma of loneliness and isn’t always the appropriate way to respond to confrontation. Its just when its been only you having to fight your own battles a lot thru out your life, you’re just always in defense/attack mode.

like I end up having the biggest crush just to find out he’s straight and has a whole wife and kids in real life like UGGGGHHHH!!!! (Yes ik even if he was gay the odds of me having a chance with him would still be slim to none lmao). like i said ik this is so silly and stupid but still😩😩😩😭😭

Like omg…I remember when this girl hit TF outta me from the back….i felt frozen in time like wtf just happen??? It happened cuz the people infront of me came to an abrupt stop so of course I had to do the same, and the girl behind me couldn’t stop in time. I laid my beluga whale ass on the ground like a fat ass sea bass. The girl that hit me was also laying on the ground with her wig on the fire hydrant….The people infront of me were also laying down. It was a hot mess but thankfully I was okay and everyone else was too. All this cuz of some fucking asshole stopped and turned abruptly infront of the person infront of me.

Imagine losing your mother before you turn 30, deadbeat dad you haven’t seen since you were 10, along with no siblings. Also unmarried with no kids of your own yet. AND if you do manage to get married and have children, your mom won’t be able to attend your wedding nor ever see her grandchildren. Your children also won’t really have any aunts/uncles on your side of the family. Sorry you guys ik this is so dark to talk about but it’s real life and it happens. People take this risk by only having one child.😩😔Least I can do is make sure I have more than 1 child myself tho when/if the time comes. Atleast my potential children will have each other.

miserable, no life, bitter, and angry. that describes the average Reddit mod in a nutshell. I’m sure there’s some mods who aren’t like that and are normal people, but they’re FAR and FEW in between I imagine.😩😩

Ngl I get annoyed…this is supposed to be a safe space for us and here comes Chad and his crew…like not even tryna be mean but why TF are yall here??? Theres like a gazillion straight clubs and bars yet yall wanna invade the few gay ones that we have. Tbh straight women are partly responsible because of course I don’t mind straight women in our spaces, but when some of them invite their bfs and the bfs invite their friends then it’s no longer a “safe space” for us gays and it’s annoying. Like imagine tryna mingle with a guy in a GAY club and he says “sorry bro I’m straight” lmao okay WTF are you here???🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️. Like don’t gimme wrong, I don’t mind 1-2 straight dudes that were invited by their gay friends or something but when it becomes 10-20+, it becomes an annoyance. Like we as gay men deserve our privacy and safe spaces.💯💯