I still haven't had sex. I did not wait this long to turn 18 and still not have sex. I want to have sex so baddd. I never dated or anything. I see 18yo's getting married and it's like why can't that be me 😩. I was in a rush to be grown so I can have sex and date.
When I say in a rush I MEAN in a rush!!!! I wanted to be grown so bad (ever since 5th grade) so I can date and have sex.
I still haven't had sex. I did not wait this long to turn 18 and still not have sex. I want to have sex so baddd. I never dated or anything. I see 18yo's getting married and it's like why can't that be me 😩. I was in a rush to be grown so I can have sex and date.
So I think I might be bisexual, but a person told me that since im not interested in giving men head, I must not really like men. I told them that has nothing to do with me liking men.
I don't want to give nor receive head from men or women. I was then told I must be asexual. I said I still want sex, just not anything oral.
Does me not wanting to give or receive head from men make me less of a bisexual?
I used to pray and wait for the day I turned 18. I been 18 for 4 months now. Im so much happier now. Ever since I been 18, I ain't been caring about nobody but myself ever since. I literally don't care about NOTHING. All I ever cared about was turning 18. Now that im here, I don't care about anything else. My main goal was turning 18.
That upsets my dad a little because he feels like im not considerate of anyone's feelings. I even told him, "all I cared about was turning 18. As long as God was able to get me to this point is the only thing I cared about." and that really bothered him.
I feel like this is probably why I have a hard time keeping connections (friends, dating). I only care about my needs and no one else's. Its hard to care about other people feelings when yours are never cared for.
I used to pray and wait for the day I turned 18. I been 18 for 4 months now. Im so much happier now. Ever since I been 18, I ain't been caring about nobody but myself ever since. I literally don't care about NOTHING. All I ever cared about was turning 18. Now that im here, I don't care about anything else. My main goal was turning 18.
That upsets my dad a little because he feels like im not considerate of anyone's feelings. I even told him, "all I cared about was turning 18. As long as God was able to get me to this point is the only thing I cared about." and that really bothered him.
My grandma passed away sometime this month. I didn't shed a tear. This lady was no kind of grandma to me and my cousins are mad I didn't cry. They dont want to talk to me because of it.
I need a part two of fan of a fan album version. The vibe Chris and Tyga has is so angelic like omg. I listen to that album like it came out yesterday. The song "Better" and a few others are so nostalgic.
I really hate kids. I cannot explain the hate I have for children. Im sick of people saying "well you were a kid once." Yes, I was. But what does that have to with me hating kids? I myself hated being a kid. Kids are loud, annoying, and talkative.
I'm tired of people saying you're weird for hating kids. No, i'm not. I love being child free. I used to fantasize about the day I turned 18.
Kids bring no joy and nothing but headache.
Did anyone else household shy away from sex? Growing up, I remember my mom never telling me anything about how babies were made. I had to learn in 4th grade from a classmate, lol! I get it, it can be hard to talk to kids about that, but my mom treated it like some nasty thing that should never be done.
Or not being taught about your body. My mom hated using proper words for body parts.
Did anyone else grow up that way?
Did anyone else household shy away from sex? Growing up, I remember my mom never telling me anything about how babies were made. I had to learn in 4th grade from a classmate, lol! I get it, it can be hard to talk to kids about that, but my mom treated it like some nasty thing that should never be done.
Did anyone else grow up that way?
Yall, I remember I was in 6th grade and I used to wear jackets over my tank top. This time, it was unzipped. We were walking to connections (classes like art, band, gym) and i was walking to home economics (I forgot the name of the class, I just remember being taught about cooking, cleaning, handwashing etc.) and there were kids lined up by the wall getting ready to go in the class. This girl who I used to be cool with was lined up. I walked up to her and before I could open my mouth, she grabbed my tank top, looked in my tank top and said "your boobs are small"
Ever since that day, i've hated having small boobs. Has anyone else ever had something similar happen to them? And like, I feel like that would spill over into dating so if anyone has had insecurities like that, how would you handle it not getting in the way of dating?
Yes, I make a lot of posts about dating, i'm just young and curious 🥲
Yall, I remember I was in 6th grade and I used to wear jackets over my tank top. This time, it was unzipped. We were walking to connections (classes like art, band, gym) and i was walking to home economics (I forgot the name of the class, I just remember being taught about cooking, cleaning, handwashing etc.) and there were kids lined up by the wall getting ready to go in the class. This girl who I used to be cool with was lined up. I walked up to her and before I could open my mouth, she grabbed my tank top, looked in my tank top and said "your boobs are small"
Ever since that day, i've hated having small boobs. Has anyone else ever had something similar happen to them?
I really hate how people with children holler "we shouldn't expose our kids to this" when someone is using cuss words, gay people, certain activities, etc. There is no way to protect your kids from the outside world. Kids go to school, kids go to the malls and to the store. They are going to see and hear things. Im all for protecting children, but when it comes to teaching them about the real world... no.
Kids need to know about the real world and not thinking its unicorns and rainbows. This is exactly why I hated being a child because my parents were constantly in "protect" mode and not "learn about the real world" mode. Yes, a child may be 8 years old, but why can't conversations about what happens in the real world be had?
I remember I was watching the news with my mom at around 8 years old. At the time, it was the Larry Nassar case. I asked my mom what did rape mean, and she said "you'll learn when you're older." This was so wrong of her because what if I was to get touched as a kid? I wouldn't have known what it was called in order to tell her what happened to me.
I can't stand parents who feel like teaching their kids about the dangers of the world is "taking away their innocence" because it's not. If anything, it teaches them to be more cautious as they grow up.
This is exactly why I hated being a kid, having my knowledge limited because of my parents being afraid of "taking my away innocence."
I really hate how people with children holler "we shouldn't expose our kids to this" when someone is using cuss words, gay people, certain activities, etc. There is no way to protect your kids from the outside world. Kids go to school, kids go to the malls and to the store. They are going to see and hear things. Im all for protecting children, but when it comes to teaching them about the real world... no.
Kids need to know about the real world and not thinking its unicorns and rainbows. This is exactly why I hated being a child because my parents were constantly in "protect" mode and not "learn about the real world" mode. Yes, a child may be 8 years old, but why can't conversations about what happens in the real world be had?
I remember I was watching the news with my mom at around 8 years old. At the time, it was the Larry Nassar case. I asked my mom what did rape mean, and she said "you'll learn when you're older." This was so wrong of her because what if I was to get touched as a kid? I wouldn't have known what it was called in order to tell her what happened to me.
I can't stand parents who feel like teaching their kids about the dangers of the world is "taking away their innocence" because it's not. If anything, it teaches them to be more cautious as they grow up.
This is exactly why I hated being a kid, having my knowledge limited because of my parents being afraid of "taking my away innocence."
How bad is the finger prick? I haven't had one since I was 12. I don't even remember what it felt like. I knew it hurt, but how bad does it hurt?
How is a 17 yr old legally allowed to donate blood without parent consent? Wouldn't that technically be a medical procedure? 😂 Im in the USA.
I started at 17 and thought it was so cool I can do this without parent consent 😂
I had an erotic dream, does that mean im gay?
I need to have sex like ASAP! Lol. I'm a horny toad 😂. I don't have a partner but I want sex so bad. Is anyone else hormones like this? Even when i'm not ovulating, I be craving sex so bad.
I was in a rush to grow up so I can date and have sex but it's like damn life didn't turn out how I wanted it to. 🥲 I have no partner, but im sex deprived.
I need to have sex like ASAP! Lol. I'm a horny toad 😂. I don't have a partner but I want sex so bad. Is anyone else hormones like this? Even when i'm not ovulating, I be craving sex so bad.
I was in a rush to grow up so I can date and have sex but it's like damn life didn't turn out how I wanted it to. 🥲 I have no partner, but im sex deprived.
Yes, my title. Im not dating yet, but i've always been into older women. Maybe like, 5 years older. When I see couples online with their significant other, they are usually within the same age range like 21 & 22 or 20 & 23. I barely see age gaps. Why don't older women seem to entertain younger women?
I've only seen ONE couple where one of the women was 25 and the other was 38.