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In den letzten 2 Wochen habe ich es 6x erlebt dass so ein Schweinderl einfach mit der Hand in die Backbox gefahren ist. Beim Spar/Hofer/Lidl/Billa.

Egal ob der österreichische Opi oder der Ami Tourist oder der Nahost Migrant.

Habe jeden darauf angespochen was sie doch für Säue sind und siehe da, plötzlich hat jeder den Handschuh/Zange verwendet.

Es kostet 5 Sekunden mehr "Arbeit" und ist für alle angenehmer/hygienischer. Also bitte die Handschuhe/Zangen verwenden und auch andere die das nicht machen darauf ansprechen.

EDIT: Ernsthaft? So ein Beitrag wird Downgevoted? Was für Schweinderln sind hier denn bitte unterwegs?

People will deny overpopulation because people have been saying we are overpopulated for the past 200 years and nothing happened.

Yeah, because we used Kaioken/every cheap trick in the book to temporary boost our abilities.

- Kabul/Teheran and 100 other cities/countries are running out of ground water because their population is too big.

- 1/3 of countries on the planet rely on food imports from abroad because they cannot feed their own population.

- Soil erosion and depletion in combination with water shortages and fertilizer shortages means we have reached peak yield/farmland.

Yet people are oblivious to this and will claim that technology will save us. Or that we have not used every possible avaliable space for food production.

And if we have to use desalination plants - does that not mean that we are using up natural drinking water faster than it can regenerate?

The economy is allways super well until a recession/depression. Human population will always be "perfectly managable to supply" until a sudden collapse.

A trained Psychologist with years of experience would need perhaps 2-3 hours to create a first, rudimentary, psychological profile of a person.

Interviewers and HR people think they can play pseudo psychologist with their ridiculous questions and assess a candidate after like 30 Minutes to 1 hour.

Its ridiculious. No Karen by asking "what animal would you be" or "why did you take that seat" or "tell my why did you apply specifically with us and what was so great in our job application" for a random secretary position in some office, will tell you exactly 0 about the candidate.

People will lie and try to be extra sweet and just make up some positive bs answer. Because they need money/a job. But for some reason this is no longer enough of a reason and frowned upon.

Also why are Interviewers and HR people treated as some superior creatures?

"You couldnt answer their super revealing questions. That makes you a bad candidate!"

Because It just couldnt be that the Interviewer or the HR person is unqualified. Trying to be a pseudo psychologist with their ridiculous trick questions. Right?

Especially not some HR person/Interviewer who got there by being bosses niece.

Most of the time they give the job to the candidate they like the most anyways. So why even bother with these bs questions? Just talk about the work experience/skills and the hobbies. Would save everyone so much trouble.

And Im not saying that all Interviewers/HR are bad. But a lot, lets say 2/3 are unqualified arrogant morons thinking they are the next Sigmund Freud by making the candidate "sweat" with some BS question they found on google.

A trained Psychologist with years of experience would need perhaps 2-3 hours to create a first, rudimentary, psychological profile of a person.

Interviewers and HR people think they can play pseudo psychologist with their ridiculous questions and assess a candidate after like 30 Minutes to 1 hour.

Its ridiculious. No Karen by asking "what animal would you be" or "why did you take that seat" or "tell my why did you apply specifically with us and what was so great in our job application" for a random secretary position in some office, will tell you exactly 0 about the candidate.

People will lie and try to be extra sweet and just make up some positive bs answer. Because they need money/a job. But for some reason this is no longer enough of a reason and frowned upon.

Also why are Interviewers and HR people treated as some superior creatures?

"You couldnt answer their super revealing questions. That makes you a bad candidate!"

Because It just couldnt be that the Interviewer or the HR person is unqualified. Trying to be a pseudo psychologist with their ridiculous trick questions. Right?

Especially not some HR person/Interviewer who got there by being bosses niece.

Most of the time they give the job to the candidate they like the most anyways. So why even bother with these bs questions? Just talk about the work experience/skills and the hobbies. Would save everyone so much trouble.

And Im not saying that all Interviewers/HR are bad. But a lot, lets say 2/3 are unqualified arrogant morons thinking they are the next Sigmund Freud by making the candidate "sweat" with some BS question they found on google.

Über 2 Wochen lang ununterbochen 28-32 Grad in der Wohnung und 33-40 Grad draußen. Jetzt ist es 16:00 und es hat "nur" noch 28 Grad draußen.

Es gibt Leute die behaupten man hat einen "schwachen Organismus" wenn man das nicht packt und einen Ventilator oder Klima braucht, (selber jammern solche schwachen Mimosen aber bereits nach nur 10 Minuten Luftzug/Klima lol) aber wir hatten die letzten 2 Wochen einen Jahrhundert Juni. Ihr warts alle super stark das durchgehalten zu haben!

Genießt die Abkühlung bei schönen, normalen 27-28 Grad die nächsten 5-6 Tage. Dienstag hat es nach meiner Wetterprognose 31 Grad aber nächsten Mittwoch soll es sogar nur 22 Grad haben. Ein Traum!

Bydlím v malém bytě a nemám auto. Naposledy jsem letěl před 4 lety. Jsem docela šetrný, dvakrát si rozmyslím, jestli si něco mám koupit. Nábytek, vybavení, oblečení používám tak dlouho, jak to jen jde. Pak je opravuji lepicí páskou, hřebíky nebo šitím a vyhodím je až tehdy, když už opravdu nezbývá jiná možnost.

Znám ale i lidi, kteří:

- Každý víkend jezdí navštívit příbuzné 80 kilometrů dál. Autem, protože spojení veřejnou dopravou je špatné.

- 4x ročně odlétají na dovolenou.

- 20 nebo 30x ročně létají „služebně“

- Každé 3 roky vymění celý svůj nábytek a pořídí si nový

- Ženy, které mají 40 párů bot a 30 kabelek a stále si kupují další

- Muži, kteří mají příjezdovou cestu zaplněnou 5 auty

- Manželské páry, které každý rok absolvují 2 plavby

Jo, s takovým chováním se to jen zhoršuje. Potřebujeme více recyklace, více opětovného využití, méně spotřeby, méně cestování/CO₂ a především více odříkání.

Místo toho, aby člověk každý týden najezdil 160 kilometrů tam a zpět za příbuznými, mohl by to dělat třeba jen jednou za měsíc a přespat u nich. Pak by měl k dispozici 2 celé dny místo 4 půldnů. Ušetřilo by to 500 km jízdy autem a emisí CO₂ za měsíc.

Místo toho, aby člověk 4x ročně létal na dovolenou, by to možná stačilo jen 1x ročně. Nebo možná jen 1x za 2 roky. Ušetří se tak 20 000 leteckých kilometrů. U vzdálenějších destinací je to 100 000 leteckých kilometrů.

20–30krát ročně létat služebně rozhodně NENÍ nutné. Není třeba létat kvůli dvoudennímu veletrhu někam do Dubaje.

Ani není třeba mít 40 párů bot, 30 kabelek, 5 aut nebo nový nábytek každé tři roky. Při nižší spotřebě by po silnicích jezdilo méně nákladních vozidel a po mořích plulo méně obchodních lodí.

A výletní lodě. Ty by se měly rovnou úplně zakázat, nebo jejich počet snížit ze současných 430 oceánských a 700 říčních výletních lodí třeba na 100 kusů v každém případě.

A pokud se nikdo nevzdá ničeho ani neomezí své spotřeby, emise CO₂ budou stále stoupat a léta budou čím dál teplejší. Voda bude nedostatkovým zbožím, úrody budou selhávat. Ale hlavně, že člověk čtyřikrát za měsíc navštívil Jitku, nebo čtyřikrát za rok byl v Japonsku, nebo má doma už 31. kabelku, nebo že letos už podruhé plul parníkem po Karibiku.

Trump was born into a rich family. Had favorable circumstances 99.99% of the population didnt have. And insane luck/timing.

Guy is at best average in intelligence. He is also not much of a hard worker. Yet he is still POTUS. Much better, smarter and more capable people than him will never come close to getting the position, because they dont have the favorable circumstances on their side. Because they are brilliant but born to poor families, or abusive families, or far away from the centers of political power.

Some people will deny that his success is due to timing/luck/circumstances with the argument: "There are a lot of people born to rich and privileged families. There is only one Donald Trump that became President".

Well wouldnt this prove that rich/favorable circumstances are superior to working harder/smarter?

Because if Trump is average and he managed to do what 10 000 other and better/smarter/superior people with similar advantages could not - then it means that its not superior intellect/skill/abilities that makes people successful, but having the perfect circumstances/timing/luck/chance.

This applies to most other successful people. Bill Gates had advantages 99.99% of the population didnt have. There were a few thousand who had similar favorable conditions.

Many of who were more capable/skilled/smarter than Bill. But he made it because he had the most perfect favorable circumstances of them all. Not because he was superior in any regard.

And Trump and people like Trump being successful and getting into extremely high positions and becoming extremely rich, do so exclusively through the capital of their families/circumstances/luck/timing/chance and not because of superior intellect/skill/abilities.

Change my view.

The Human Armada was waiting in orbit. 412 ships ready to attack. When they finally descended upon the hapless citizens of Brnexis Prime, all Brnexians knew that this was the last day of their world. But no shots were fired. No force fields activated. No opposing fleets mobilized. For to oppose humans, was a futile endeavor.

While some ships remained in orbit, most others took position above the key population centers of the Planet. A dozen, including the Flagship "Aristaeus", steered towards Prahxis, the capital of the Planet.

There, at the outskirts of the city, a small delegation of Brnexians, awaited the human occupiers. At their helm stood Vexis, formerly the Brnexian emissary to Earth and one of the most senior diplomats on the Planet. While he waited for the humans to arrive, he was lost in memories of the past.

Humans were still a rather primitive species and practically children on the Galactic Stage. They had been discovered just 400 of their years ago by the Arzul. During this time, they were in the process of colonizing the Moons and Planets of their own Solar System and still centuries away from developing their own FTL drive.

The discovery of other intelligent life, lead to panic and fueled human fears of invasion. But these fears were entirely unjustified.

Earth and the Planets of the Solar System offered few valuable resources to the races of the Galaxy.

Steel and Titanium were classified as low level metals. Most Planets were gifted with materials 10x stronger, lighter and more elastic.

Uranium and Plutonium, humanity´s main source of energy in what they called "the 22nd century", after Petroleum had run out in the 21st, were laughable compared to Elerium 115. Apparently one could find variations of this energy crystal on most Planets. For the same mass, it delivered 10x more energy than Plutonium and 20x more than Uranium, without giving off almost any dangerous radiation.

Gold or Copper were completely worthless on the Galactic stage. There were conductors 20x more efficient and cheaper to be found in other systems.

With such riches at their disposal, it was no surprise that the poorest citizens of the Galaxy, lived like the richest Humans. It was a wonder that humanity had needed just a few thousand years to go from the stone to the space age with such inferior materials at its disposal.

Naturally, the Arzul were disappointed and left eventually. In the next few decades, a dozen other species visited the Sol-System. But since humans had nothing valuable to offer, no trade treaties were ever established. Even the most aggressive empires in the Galaxy had no interest in Earth. There was nothing of value to be acquired.

Surprisingly, even with the constraints of their inferior materials, humans managed to develop FTL travel 200 years ago. They then ventured out into the Galaxy, hungry to acquire superior materials.

For the next century, they would colonized near-by Systems, mine resources and expand their sphere of influence. It was during this time that Vexis was sent to Earth as a diplomatic emisary.

It was also during this time that humans discovered that they were unique to the other sentient species of the Galaxy. While practically all other intelligent species were highly dependent on the products of the Bio-Sphere of their home Planet, humans were far more adaptable.

In short, they could eat and drink almost anything. Other species were unable to adapt to the environments of newly colonized Planets and were reliant on an endless stream of imports of food and liquids from their home Planets. Humans, however had no such constraints.

They could just kill, cook and eat almost any life form they came across. They could just drink any liquid they encountered. And they would survive. Some of them got sick, some even died but over 90% of their population remained unaffected.

With this tremendous advantage at their disposal, they spread across the stars like a locust swarm. In the past century they had occupied 12 207 Systems, with 21 507 Planets and 32 618 Moons. Roughly half the know Galaxy.

Despite superior technology, the races of the Milky-Way fell one after another. While losing most direct battles and confrontations, human hit-and-run attacks on supply ships with food and liquid, proved highly effective and made the position of even the largest Empires untenable. Humans, however were never constrained by supply issues.

Eventually, surrendering to humanity and becoming Vassal Planets, was deemed as a preferable alternative to outright war and adopted by many species.

With his connections to Earth, Vexis had negotiated extremely favorable conditions for Brnexis and its sphere of influence. For a yearly tribute of just 10% of Brnexis Primes industrial output, humans would grant them almost complete autonomy.

The fleet currently descending would leave eventually. Its size was mostly for show. And to ensure enough available shipping space for the first yearly tribute.

With this knowledge, Vexis was rather unbothered by the hovering dozen human warships that approached the capital and the shuttle that was dispatched from the flagship.

Once it had landed, Vexis sighed and approached the human representative and its entourage.

"I am Admiral Alexander Kolvov", the human representative started. "As agreed upon by the treaty of Phraxis, me and my troops have come to collect the yearly tribute for Earth".

"As has been agreed upon by the treaty of Phraxis, my people are ready to give."

Vexis reached into his robes and produced a Data Pad which he handed to the Admiral.

"As you can see, we have compiled a list with the agreed upon materials and their locations, so that your troops...."

Vexis was interrupted by sudden blasts from a Laser Rifle. A human soldier had just shot a group of Miros, who had been unfortunate enough to curiously approach the delegation.

Quite annoyed,the Admiral turned around. "Jenkins, I swear to god, if your father was not a Senator...".

The tall and overweight soldier replied: "Sorry Admiral, but these things look like litte Guinea Pigs, I just had to shoot them. Im sure they will taste great".

Slightly less annoyed than before, the Admiral just replied: "Proceed".

During the next 30 Minutes, while he conversed with Kolvov about the details of the treaty, a horrified Vexis observed how the humans skinned, disemboweled and then cooked the Miros in a pot.

Once ready, they distributed the contents amongst the members of the delegation.

Any other alien visitors from another Planet would have fallen sick and most would have died.

The humans however were delighted.

"Wow. This tastes really good."

"Reminds me of Chicken Soup."

"Another great discovery for my dads Restaurant. The rich idiots will pay a fortune to eat this animal".

While chewing his meal, the Admiral remarked happily: "Vexis, this tastes absolutely fantastic! I hereby decree that a yearly quota of 100 Million of these creatures be included in the treaty."

"Huh. Yes. Ah. I mean, of course Admiral, that should not be a problem". Miros were a pest on Brnexis anyways.

As Vexis observed the chewing barbarians that had subjugated his Planet, he couldnt help but smile a little. The conquerers of the Galaxy. Just because their bodies could digest almost any alien food and liquid. The entire situation was just so ridiculously absurd.

Eating his second bowl of Miro stew, all Private Jenkins could think of was: "Yummy".

Es gibt doch tatsächlich Leute denen nicht heiß ist und die militant gegen Ventilatoren wegen der "Zugluft" und gegen Kühlung durch Klimaanlagen sind.

Die meinen dann "im Sommer ist halt heiß" oder "die paar Tage hitze muss man aushalten".

Also

Ein paar Stunden kühle Zugluft - mimimimimimi Halsscherzen/Kopfschmerzen - wie schrecklich!

2 Wochen lang durchgehend 33Grad+ "die paar Tage das bisschen Hitze muss man aushalten"

Weil Stunden/Wochen ist dasselbe was?

Es ist wissenschaftlich beweisen dass die ideale Schlaftemperatur 18-20 Grad sind. 10-15 Grad mehr ist objektiv eine gefährliche Belastung selbst für einen jungen Körper.

In der Wüste hat es am Tag 40-45 Grad aber am Abend und in der Nacht dann nur noch 10-15 Grad.

Selbst in den Tropen sinkt die Temperatur auf 20-25 Grad ab.

Wir haben seit 2 Wochen um 21:00 immer noch so 31-32 Grad und um 3-4 in der Früh immer noch so 24-26 Grad. In vielen Wohnungen und Häusern durchgehend ohne Abkühlung 28-35 Grad. Das ist nicht normal. Es ist objektiv heiß. Es ist objektiv der heißeste Sommer seit Jahrhunderten.

Jeder der das abstreitet oder relativiert und gegen Abkühlung ist, ist ein Hitzeschwurbler.

Draußen 36-38 Grad. Drinnen 28-32 Grad (ohne Ausreißer haben es so 80-90% aktuell so warm).

Dann gibt es Leute die anderen verbieten den Ventilator einzuschalten, weil sie von "Der Zugluft" Halsschmerzen/Nackenschmerzen/Kopfschmerzen bekommen. Aha. Aber bei 30 Grad ist alles supi oder was?

Oder Veranstaltungen in einem Gebäude/Raum wo es 32 Grad hat und eine Klima vorhanden ist. Aber wegen ein paar Mimosen welche Abkühlung nicht vertragen, müssen die 90% normalen den Hitzetod sterben.

Ernsthaft. Wer schon nach ein paar Stunden wegen ein bisschen Wind vom Ventilator oder einem 7-8 Grad kühlerem Raum bereits Probleme bekommt, der hat einen wesentlich schwächeren Organismus als Leute die Wochenlang 30 Grad + aushalten.

Bill Gates was born into success. All he had to do was not screw up.

- Didnt have to work because rich parents.

- Had access to one of the like 20 PCs that were avaliable to the public at that time.

- Friends that wrote most of the operating program.

- Mom with connections to the IBM board. "Mom can you show this to your boss?"

- A lawyer father. "Hey dad can you write these contracts for me?".

He had it so damn easy compared to normal Middle Class Kids that its just absurd. He had it infinitely more easy compared to poor/abused kids.

His success was not guranteed, but it was 100 000x more likely for him to achieve than normal Middle Class/poor/abused kids and mostly due to him being born into an extremely easy and favorable position. Not superior skill/intelligence/work ethic.

1300 Hitzetote seit dem 21. Juni.

Und dann gibt es immer noch Idioten welche was davon faseln "Im Sommer ist halt heiß"

Oder "Wie schwach ist dein Körper/Organismus wenn du nicht bei 32 Grad in der Wohnung ohne Ventilator/Abkühlung schlafen kannst und gesundheitliche Probleme bekommst".

1955 gab es einen einzigen Tag in Wien mit über 30 Grad. Die letzten Jahre sind wir bei ungefähr 90 jeden Sommer?

Dieses Jahr kommen wir wahrscheinlich auf 10 000 Hitzetote. Sollte der Sommer 2027 nochmal um 2-3 Grad wärmer werden und der Sommer 2028 nochmal 2-3 Grad, will ich mir die Folgen gar nicht vorstellen.

V bytě je teď 32 stupňů. Moje přítelkyně říká, že je teplo, ale ne horko, a ještě se přikrývá dekou! Neustále se hádáme, protože mi zakazuje zapínat ventilátor, protože z něj má bolesti v krku a nemůže spát, protože je příliš hlučný.

Ale smrt z horka a skvělý spánek při 32 stupních v bytě jsou v pohodě.

A včera jsem na nástupišti viděl muže v svetru! Odpoledne ve 14:00. A v dlouhých kalhotách.

Takoví lidé přece nemohou být fyzicky nebo psychicky v pořádku, ne? Musí mít poruchy krevního oběhu nebo vadné teplotní receptory nebo něco podobného, ne? Kdo se při 32 stupních ještě přikrývá a odmítá ventilátor, kdo při 38–40 stupních ještě chodí v svetru, s tím přece něco není v pořádku?

- Stoßlüften. Erst um 22 Uhr wo es noch immer 32 Grad draußen hat oder?

- Viel Trinken.Aber nur lauwarm/heiß. Erfrischt viel besser als ein kaltes Getränk. Ok?

- Eine Wasserflasche einfrieren und dann in den Raum stellen. Senkt die Temperatur um 0,1 Grad.

- Ventilator böse weil Zugluft. Aha aber besser bei 30 Grad dahinvegetieren?

- T-Shirt nass machen oder kaltes Fußbad/Dusche. Nach 10 Minuten ist alles trocken/der Effekt weg.

Diese ganzen Tipps sind bei den Temperaturen Humbug.

Ich habe 32 Grad in der Wohnung. Das hatte ich immer erst Ende August nach 2 Monaten Sommer. Nicht Ende Juni nach 2 Wochen Sommer.

Das einzige was gegen die Hitze wirklich hilft sind Außenrollos. Die bringen so 2-3 Grad weniger.

Und eine Klimaanlage. Das wars. Bis auf diese 2 Sachen hilft nichts.

Eventuell ein Ventilator im Dauerbetrieb. Würde seit 2 Wochen nicht schlafen hätte ich den nicht auch über Nacht an. Der hilft aber halt nicht generell gegen die Temperatur.

Alle anderen "Tipps" sind Humbug und es ärgert mich einfach dass diese immer noch Gebetsmühlenartig als große Weisheit von den Zeitungen/Zeitschriften/Internet wiederholt werden.

Someone who spent 5 years in a Vietcong Prison Camp, cannot take seriously someone who complains that they had to spend 5 week under house arrest.

Sure your 5 weeks of house arrest sucked and might have been the worst thing you have ever experienced. But its just incomprable to spending 5 years in a Vietcong Prison Camp.

Everyone has their problems in life. But people who were abused by their own parents had it far worse than most others. And I dont have the energy to care about people whos problems are 1/10 or 1/100 of mine.

Moje manželka, její otec i bratr jsou skvělí, ale s tchýní vůbec nevycházím. Proč? Protože je to rozmazlená žena v domácnosti.

Pracovala asi 5 let, než poznala svého manžela, a pak už byla jen doma.

Její manžel pracoval 50 hodin týdně, aby uživil ji a děti, a ona se starala o děti a domácnost.

Od té doby, co dětem bylo 17–18 let, si užívá krásný život. Za posledních 20 let byla asi 300 krát v opeře, divadle, na muzikálech nebo v muzeích.

Zatímco její manžel pracoval, prostě si jela na týden sama na dovolenou. Tak 1–2krát do roka.

Když jdem do restaurace, vždycky se chová, jako by byla strašně důležitá.

Má nafoukané ego, protože má bohatého manžela. Když má nějakou rodinnou oslavu a přijde na návštěvu 10 lidí a ona musí něco uvařit, je potom „vyčerpaná“ a potřebuje 2–3 dny na zotavení.

Zkus nejdřív pracovat na plný úvazek, než si začneš stěžovat. Kdyby si nevzala bohatého muže, byla by nula. Ale všude se chová, jako by byla strašně důležitá a jako by něco dokázala.

Je to jediná osoba z rodiny, kterou nemůžu vystát. Jaký máte vy vztah k tchánům a tchýním / k rodině obecně?

Look evil purple space man wiped out half of all life in the universe because he though it was overpopulated. What an evil nut job.

The more I think about it the more I think that MCU Thanos was hollywood/corporate propaganda in order to discredit the very concept of overpopulation.

The other stuff is a little abstract so it might be difficult for some to connect the dots.

- There is enough space. Just build more houses

- Some additional cars wont make a difference

- Just go wind and solar and then there is enough energy

- Just make more food

You can actually build more houses, and produce more energy and make more food. Even it it devastates the environment even further. However you cannot produce more water. Ground water is a finite resource and it gets used up faster the more people you have.

Ground water levels when there are 1 Million people? No problem. At this rate consumption is low enough so that the ground water can always regenerate with rain.

Same spot but the city is suddenly 3 Million people? Consumption is above the level of regeneration. At this rate the lake would run dry within 100 years.

Same spot but the city is suddenly 12 Million people? Well. All water will be gone within 25 years.

Its so logical. Yet so many fail to see this simple truth.

And yes I know you can make water out of sea water. But this is extremely energy inefficient. Turning 1000 liters of sea water into drinkable water = 3kw/h.

Also transporting this water hundreds or thousands of Kilometers land inwards costs again lots of fuel and CO2.

Each person has a finite amount of time and energy. People with normal parents can choose relatively freely where to invest this time and energy. And they get support and help.

As such if they invest all their time and energy into singing or acting from age 8 onwards, by the time they are 20 they are top singers and song writers or actors. With a little luck even famous.

People that start hitting the gym from age 12 are super strong and muscular by age 22. People that start playing football from age 12 onwards, are professionals by age 22. With a little luck famous.

People that invest into their eduation and do as many internships and get as much job experience as possible, are professionals by age 25. Perhaps even head of their department or even CEO of a small company.

Their success creates a positive confirmation loop, making them confident, assertive and assured.

Kids of Narcissistic/Abusive Parents get their energy sucked out by their Energy Vampire Parents. They get constantly sabotaged. Constantly told that no matter what they do is never enough. Punished when its not perfect on the first try. Told that they are the problem and good for nothing. Constantly abused. And really discouraged and prevented to do anything at all. Besides working for their N-Parents.

So they withdraw. They dont try anything. They become timid and have 0 self confidence. And are angry and agitated and confronational all the time. Afraid to challenge authority. Afraid to stand up for themselves and pursue their dreams. Have no trust in their own abilities. Are socialy awkward. And it takes all their energy just to survive and cope with the abuse and somehow function.

As such they go through life without the ability to invest their energy into bettering themselves. By the time they are 25 they have no abilities, no success, just survival. This creates a negative confimation loop, making them insecure, passive, angry.

I would very much like to see how Taylor Swift would have ended up if she didnt get full support from her parents but instead constant abuse and discouragement. Constantly told that she cannot sing and that a music career is stupid and that she is a good for nothing. If parents had not paid for anything related with music.

Instead the Mega Star she is now, she would be homeless or at best an ordinary woman.

If out of 1000 people with normal parents 100 "make it" 800 remain "mediocre" and 100 "screw up", then for abused children its more like

5 "make it" 500 remain "mediocre" and 495 "screw up."

Sure its possible to succeed even with N-Parents and an abusive childhood. The odds are just stacked against you.

And this mentality that circumstances dont matter at all that luck doesnt exist and that each person is exclusively to blame for their lot in life is just ridiculous bootstrap talk by people who had it easy in life.