u/Novemberx123

I’ve noticed people will tell me that certain things I do or say kind of causes stress. Like it’s not the normal way of being? Has anyone, maybe a close friend told u that your behavior causes them stress at all? Like social issues? Thanks!

Got my 2019 last month with 100k miles. Ice cold AC. How’s your AC doing? If you’re in VA we’ve had our first heat wave last few days so I’m very grateful.

I’ve seen people running there home or other electronics through there electric cars. I believe it has a feature to do that. I know the bolt is different but is it still possible at all?

We dated for a year. We still talk daily even though we see we’re friends. We’re practically still together. It’s about to be two years of knowing him. It was very rough in beginning. I never been with someone with autism. He’s 38. I’m 30. Both male. I would get horrible anxiety after seeing him. After taking space, and things like that I would see him again and over time idk if I got used to “pushing it down” or accepting it, or if things actually got better but I didn’t feel that as much. I met him in middle of being with my ex. I’m day 10 no contact with him ex now and I hustled recently met my friend 4 days ago again, it went well but there/are still moments that set my anxiety off. He isn’t the best at communicating how he feels so instead it’s like I’m left to put the pieces together after he leaves. I had bad panic last few days again. I’m starting to think I been so caught up in the mess with my ex all this time that I’ve almost been ignoring the ways this other person negatively affects me, just because it was a relief from my ex. Thoughts? I just always feel like the caregiver when I’m around my friend. The one coming up with ideas to talk about. Taking the lead when we go somewhere. It’s just exhausting.

It was/is a friend I’ve known for 2 years now. I’m going through day 10 of no contact with my ex and I met my friend in middle of all that. I saw him again 4 days ago and it triggered all the things I’ve been pushing down with him. I remembered each time I would feel so stressed after I saw him. Even though he was so nice to me and stuff. My body and nervous system would still scream at me. Idk if I got used to pushing it down or ignoring it, maybe I thought it got better, or was blinded by the stress I was dealing with my ex. Anyways, I just felt bad panic after I saw him for days after. I remembered times back to when me and him first started talking and hanging out I felt similar that my panic was so bad for days after and I tried to talk to him to figure out why this is happening. He does have Asperger’s so maybe I’m picking up on traits of that in person with him? I just recently again yesterday explained I’d be taking space again and blocked him for now. I just hate the guilt I feel afterwards. Looking for advice thank you. 🙏

I’m going today to get my windows tinted in my car. I’m in Virginia and the law is 50% drivers and passenger front and 35% in the back allowed but I see almost everyone have darker than that. I don’t understand how people aren’t just driving around every single day worried they will get in trouble for there tint. It is mind boggling. I definitely want darker than 50% for the front windows but I don’t want to have that “what I did was illegal” worry in the back of my head. I don’t understand!!

I know it’s legally 50% for front windows and 35% for back but I see so many cars with more than that. I’m getting my car tinted tomorrow at turbo tint but I don’t want to have anxiety that I’m driving something illegal. What do people normally choose for there tint, and has anyone gotten told to remove there tint during a stop? I don’t want to drive around feeling like a cop will find another reason to pull me over and say it’s too dark or something. I just want it enough for some privacy. Thanks!

I’m guessing they track differently? This morning my Fitbit said I got 6 hours of sleep and then I did the Google health app preview and it’s saying I only got 4 hours of sleep. It went from saying I got good sleep to poor sleep? Do they just use different algorithms or something?

I got this car 3 weeks ago. 100k miles. I tried spraying Lysol and getting new cabin filter. What else could it be? There’s obviously mold somewhere in the system as it makes my nose tingle and gives me headache but how do I fix it? Anytime AC or fan is on, especially with the recirculate off..it brings in a horrible smell. Horrible.

I live in my car. Been this way for 6 months. I’ve always wanted to apply but never did. Will I be approved? In state of Virginia.

Does it just maintain driving straight? How does it know your destination?

How do I cover it? Main thing I noticed every let’s light in. I’m coming from a minivan to a smaller electric car (Chevy bolt) so in the van I’d put up a curtain to separate the from from back but this knew is smaller so I’d like to just cover the front windshield. Any ideas? I got curtains up on the side windows

I know it’s rare I’m just curious like if your warranty is done at 100k then your battery has a rare issue at 120k. Something like that. Hopefully not but you never know!

I’m wanting to get it for my 2019 Bolt. Is it good in city driving as well? Where there’s just tons of traffic? Thanks!

I noticed when I’m running the fan if I change the temperature to a higher number. Even though AUTO is off and heat is off, it will start to warm up a little bit. I see the GOM doesn’t drop at all. Does anyone else’s car do this and know how or why? Is the heat actually running? It’s not hot at all, it’s just warmer compared to the actual fan temp then when I go back to 60 degrees it goes back to the fan temperature. Any ideas? Is the heater running when I turn the temp to high even though heat is technically off?