u/Novemberx123

Makes no sense. For the 16e for $99. I’m porting from another carrier. I’m choosing the $50 plan. Then it tells me the phone is $299. Which is another more expensive promotion they have, it won’t let me get the $99 deal when I know I qualify. It just goes to the most expensive deal. Any ideas why this is? It does it for any phone. It automatically goes to the most expensive promotion

I’m healing from a betrayal from my ex. I found out he lied and betrayed me for 6 months back in January. Yes we weren’t together but he promised me he wasn’t into the guy it was, and we were still intimate and talking daily..he full on would get mad when I asked for reassurance that he wasn’t talking to that guy.. I’ve never felt such panic. He kept telling me “we weren’t together so I didn’t cheat.” And get even more mad after the fact. Like he was mad that I even knew. Idk. Instead of just reassuring me and helping me heal..I lost trust in myself. I panicked even more..I threw myself even closer to him. I was scared being near him and scared when I was away cause of the panic attacks. After he had a mental crisis from some medications he was taking, and I saw me begging him to apologies for abusing me and he cussed me out..I had panic attack and blocked him. First of many back and forths. He went to jail for few months..he thought mafia was after him and was a public nuisance..he has truly lost his mind, I felt bad and talked to him here and there..then I remembered the betrayal, and blocked again. I went 18 days no contact, he got out, I felt bad again..hoped he was better..which he was at least from before, but those other things were still there. The way he talked to me. Tone of voice. Guilt tripping. Defensiveness. All of it. So I went 6 days no contact this time. Starting to feel better. Less panic. More sleep. Figured I’d see him yesterday, as a hang out.. it went well besides some guilt tripping, raised his voice at me once and he’s just a very reactive person.. but my nervous system was still very much activated..I didn’t sleep at all last night. I think seeing him just reminded of the unhealed trauma wound. I kept waking up in a panic like I did something wrong. Scared of panicking today. I know I need complete space and time to truly heal and regulate and find long term safety in myself and I’m ready. I just don’t want yesterday to set me back which I’m worried it has. Just looking for reassurance that I can continue and get through this. Thank you all so much.

My ex betrayed me in January for 6 months. After promising me there was no one else. It broke me. Since that moment my stomach dropped when the other person called me telling me they’ve been dating all this time behind my back. I couldn’t believe it. I felt like I was played a fool. Ever since then I’ve had the worst panic attacks. Random fears. Scared of driving now. Talking to a stranger puts me on edge. Its not constant but at least once a day I think these random fears and get scared. I’m currently taking complete space from myself.. alone. I don’t think I can heal around them truly. There’s an unhealthy cycle there still where any pain of mine goes ignored or they try and be intimate with me to “make everything better”. Let alone the snapping. Telling me I’m wrong if I’m telling them what hurt me. I have this low level pit in my stomach for a good part of the day. Just want to know if anyone else can relate?

I do DoorDash. I have a Chevy bolt. Got a mattress in here. Everything. It’s comfortable but I’m getting kind of bummed out staying at a Cracker Barrel every night.. there was a car meet around 3am last night right next to me, woke up to loud music, car revving..idk..it just sucks so much. I moved into my car in October because I got tired of mean roomates..and I have anxiety so I just figured I’d give myself a break. I’m definitely planning on renting a room soon. I spend $1,900 a month with electricity/gas since I DoorDash, so much on fast food, etc that if i were to get a room..the savings would even out and I’d still be around the same amount every month..except actually have peace, and a door to close behind me and finally truly rest. But for now..if someone has a place I can park to sleep in my car, it would be the biggest blessing...miss that “community” feeling. Idk. Thank you. I don’t do drugs. Drink. None of that. Appreciate you all.

It’s said it when I first got the car 3 months ago. 2019 premiere. 120k miles. I’ve driven 8k miles so far and 0 issues. Fast charging daily. I’m trying to get the diagnostic amount together to diagnose why it might be saying that but so far it’s been perfect. It had the battery replaced at 60k miles. Perfectly taken care of before I got it. Anyone have that sign on their car?

My ex betrayed me for 6 months straight. Lied to my fave. Got angry at me that I was crazy for thinking he’d do that. All the while he was doing that. It shattered me. He promised me he would never. That he knows the pain and devastation it caused him when he was cheated on. Yet he did it. I’ve been going back and forth with trying to heal on my own, and playing with idea of healing around him..as friends..but I noticed triggers are worse. Anxiety is sometimes worse after I see him, etc. I told him I needed space physically which I know I need but just recently told him I need space from all communication. I always feel guilty though. Like I’m hurting him. Like I’m doing something bad to him. I try to comfort myself. Journal. Say I’m just putting a boundary up. Etc. Does anyone else feel guilt and anxiety after putting boundaries up of taking space and if so when did it start to get better for you? I always wonder if this is just how I am or if it’s amplified from the betrayal with this person…hmm.

I miss my payment. I had to add a new card for autopay. Did that and it still wouldn’t let me make a payment. Service got turned off. Only then did it say to make a payment. Now I have 0 bars and no data. Talked to customer service there telling me I have bad service that’s why. Someone help please. I d turned phone off. Reset settings. Re added the e sim. Airplane mode. Idk what else to do. I have no data after paying. I have work 6am in morning and I use my phone and data to deliver packages. Now I’m going to have to call out. This is bs.

The bolt is such a reliable car I’m interested to hear the responses! Was there any issues ever or smooth sailing besides regular maintenance?

It’s 2002 with 270k miles. Alternator isn’t charging battery. I found someone that will do it for $100 thankfully. Only thing I heard that certain aftermarket ones are no bueno..not sure why but heard they don’t last or burn out quick. Does anyone have any recommendations on a safe one or if any of yall put in a certain alternator and it works just fine. Don’t want to just save money for it to go out 5k miles later haha!! Thanks!

This lifestyle is so reliant on the vehicle you live in. To the point that if or when it breaks down, what happens then? I have this thought at least once a day. If I had a room I could handle needing my car going into the shop cause I still have my peace and room but when the car becomes your home..idk anymore. I don’t know if I could handle my car and my home being taken that same day. I know it comes down to money, being able to afford these issues but I’m in the process of saving right now so I’m kind of living on a prayer at the moment. Anyone else have this worry?

This lifestyle is so reliant on the vehicle you live in. To the point that if or when it breaks down, what happens then? I have this thought at least once a day. If I had a room I could handle needing my car going into the shop cause I still have my peace and room but when the car becomes your home..idk anymore. I don’t know if I could handle my car and my home being taken that same day. I know it comes down to money, being able to afford these issues but I’m in the process of saving right now so I’m kind of living on a prayer at the moment. Anyone else have this worry?

I know it mostly depends on if other factors in my life are regulated but gosh, I just had a bad panic attack yesterday morning from some boundary setting I’m improving on and sometimes if my panic is bad, I’ll try and find someone in the same parking lot as I am..just to sort of calm down..and feel safer near someone physically, etc. Usually there nice but I’ve run into a few who I could tell were weird out by someone randomly driving up to them and telling them that there going through a panic attack and if they could talk to someone for a few mins to relax..but today, rain is pouring down and idk..just making me anxious still. Kind of feel trapped in a way. Idk. Anyone else? There’s also so many moments in the night turn where it’s just so relaxing and calming so it depends on the mental.

I think I gave myself a panic attack yesterday from a situation with a somewhat toxic ex. I put boundaries up and we’ve been respecting it but the past couple times I saw him..I think I felt guilty for putting up said boundaries and was telling him we could probably be intimate again..it wasn’t a clear thought out intention. I just said it in the moment. I woke up yesterday and had a panic attack realizing why I have these boundaries, and all the negatives that were amplified from being intimate with this person. I noticed I felt more felt before when the intentions were “we are respecting eachothers boundaries” compared to last few times which were “I’m thinking we could probably be intimate again.” Two different intentions. Two different impacts to my nervous system. I noticed once I corrected course, continued with what I know is safe for me and became more intentional with my boundaries and my safety..I’m slowly feeling better. Thought? Are intentions really this impactful and meaningful? Idk why I thought I was just saying words at the time, but didn’t put into consideration that those words shape my reality.

Happen to anyone else? The betrayal definitely triggered it. Ex lied to me for 6 months while being with someone else. Shook me up quite a bit. All of a sudden I started to feel extreme panic sitting at a light. Somewhere I couldn’t leave. It was like “if I start to panic because of the betrayal sitting in traffic, I’m going to feel worse and scared” then I start to panic. It’s gotten better. I know a few weeks ago I was fine enough to get on the highway and was listening to a podcast when all of a sudden I was in dead stop traffic. I thought “oh no what if I panic and I’m stuck with no where to pull over safely to relax” then I was able to talk to myself. I sometimes avoided highways now and I’ll have a thing of great days which is good. So I am improving but I just wanted to make sure I’m not alone. Thank you!!

I do DoorDash. I have an electric car so I don’t mind using up the battery. I’ve been spending $600 a month on fast food and I’m tired of it. I was just approved for $60 snap benefits and when I lived in a room I lived off $250 a month. I want to make my own food now. I do have a pecron 2048 battery that I could use to cook on an electric pot. I’d only have to charge the battery every 5 days or so..but I was wanting to use the car battery and save on space and time. I know they have inverters u can buy, but I never knew how u could keep it plugged in 24/7 and have it routed to inside the car? Is that even possible? Thanks!

All my friends and family make similar money to me, around $1,600 a month and they get at least double or more.. Im living in my car since October now and im only approved for $60. I appreciate it just is a bummer because I was finally ready to get a room with the help of snap, since I I could afford a room if I was approved for $120 or more a month. Just disappointed a little. Didn’t expect to only get $60..idk. I appreciate it just bummed out though that I’ll have to stay in my car longer for the time being until l can find more work. I’m in Va.