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I thought that was the healthy or “ok” amount to eat. I eat around 2,000 calories a day. Male. Does anyone else eat similar? I’m definitely going to aim for less now that I know that is around the upper limit.

Does anyone know how to wake it up?? I put it to sleep sometimes but when I wake it up, I’ll touch every button. Do CarPlay. Then volume up and down. Press every button then after 15 seconds the screen goes back to sleep. How do you permanently wake it up??

I live out of my 2019 bolt for the time being. It’s been kept on for weeks now. I fast charge daily. I DoorDash during the day and sleep at night in it, AC on 24/7. It’s been perfect. I do about 170 miles a day in total. I’m just curious if I’m doing damage by doing daily fast charging and not turning the car off..or if I do, it’s for only a few minutes at a time. I’m currently looking for a room to be able to also charge at home. Any thoughts?

I thought there was a spare in the back. Turns out there isn’t. There’s not even compartment room for a spare so what are we supposed to do?? If I get a flat and I’m 100 miles from home and I need to call my insurance to put on my spare but there is no spare..then what????

I’ve never smelled anything before but today I was fast charging and I had the fan blowing and I guess the AC kicked in and I smelled a weird smell. Like an earthy smell. I went outside and opened the hood and smelled it there as well. I’m not sure if there’s something going on with the charging components or not. Very curious and makes me wonder. Any ideas?

I randomly started getting sore throat and headache yesterday. Haven’t been sick in years. This sucks big time. Got some Tylenol stocked up and some nose spray. I always have to go to like 7 different places to use bathroom, get food, etc so I’m not looking forward to being on the road sick. Really wishing I had a room to just lay in for a week. Also been going through a narcissistic “break up” so things have been hard. Anyone else getting sick or getting over a sickness?

Is there anything I should do or get to stock up? I live in my car at the moment and I don’t want to be running into any stores when this thing gets worse. Tylenol maybe? Do I just ride it out? Haven’t been sick in at least 5+ years so a little anxious about it. Thank you…

I’ve been going through a narcissistic break up and it’s been extremely hard. Sometimes I’ll hit the point where I’m having a panic attack and need someone to ground me back to reality. That’s only when it’s really bad. I’ve made a plan to call my sister for that. She’s very supportive and helps talk to me to help me process but sometimes she isn’t available. I was thinking how could it would be if you call call chatgpt as if it was one of your supportive friends. They answer the call like there your best most supportive friend. In this day and age there’s so many people that don’t have a support system and are going through hard life events. Just thought it’d be cool!!

I see ask the hype and love of car living which makes sense if course but it’s been 8 months of this and I’m worn out. I miss having everything in one spot. The simplicity of it all. The little things. Have any of yall just got drained from it all and went back to a room? At least this time I’ll be getting a long term hotel for $875 a month which helps the main issue I had before I did all this…roomates. Honestly just miss it. So much.

I like to go camping in the car and I see there are websites like heatshield and weather tech that sell customer window cut out covers. Just wasn’t sure if someone had a paid laying around they don’t use anymore. Thanks

I noticed where I live there’s someone else who sleeps in there car. I see them at McDonald’s everyday and in there car all day. I want to talk to them but idk how to approach. I also don’t want to feel like I’m bothering them or in better position because it seems like there car is broken down. Any ideas how to approach if I should?

TL;DR:

I (30M) stayed close and sexually involved with my ex (45M) after we broke up, with an agreement to be honest about other relationships. I introduced him to someone I briefly dated, and my ex told me nothing was going on between them.

6 Months later, that guy contacted me and proved they had actually been secretly dating and having sex for \\\~6 months while my ex was still telling me “I love you” and staying intimate with me. My ex never apologized and dismissed it all instead.

After I found out, I saw my ex again and we were still physical, but afterward things felt tense and different. I’m now trying to process the betrayal and loss of trust.

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My ex and I are both males. He’s 45. I’m 30. We broke up years ago, he had drinking issue but we stayed close daily. Sex. I love yous. All that. We promised we would tell one another when we found another interest. I met a guy that it didn’t work out with. I introduced them together as a way for my ex to help him. I released they started liking each other and I “broke up” with that guy. I was then reassured by my ex that he didn’t like him. They were just friends. I believed it. We continued to have sex, love our lives. In January I got a call from that guy, he left a voicemail that he needs to talk to me. That him and my ex have been dating and having sex daily for the past 6 months. I was in complete shock. I thought it couldn’t be true because I talk to him daily and he always tells me what he’s doing. I only knew him to be honest as can be with me. He then sent me pictures, text messages, all the proof I needed. He met his family.. everything. I was heartbroken. No he didn’t cheat. But he lied to me. I called my ex in shock. My ex said “That guys a drunk and a drug addict fuck him.” No “I’m sorry”. No “I feel horrible”. Nope. I then met the guy again. Saw the room my ex put him in. The room was full of things of my exes. Tv that I used. Plushies he got him. His blankets. Everything. I proceeded to throw myself onto my ex. I told him if he had sex with me all this time without me knowing his lies, that we’re doing this with me knowing the truth now. We got a hotel. Whatever. I tried to push the pain down. The guy left the state. They blocked eachother. I tried to get closer to my ex. It didn’t work. Yes we had sex an said I love you but he was angrier. Meaner. Like the truth was out.

The thing is my ex never took accountability. Ever. Any time I brought up my pain “Why can’t you move on” He would get mad at me that I was in pain for it. He’s never been this way to me. It’s truly like a flip switched. Over the last few months I started distancing myself. He got worse. He got arrested for first time I’ve known him. He lost his mind to prescription medicine. He supposed to be getting out in the next month or so. I’m a week no contact. It causes me so much stress to talk to him.

I brought up my pain to him as the reason I need space from him last week. Part of me was hoping he’d just say I’m sorry and that’s it. Nope. Paragraphs. That he’s not in the wrong. He wasn’t with me so he didn’t have to tell me. I always hold it against him. How I’m not the victim here. That he loves me so much. That he wants to know if we will work it out together and forget the past. I never responded and blocked him again.

My question is why can’t they just take accountability? Why can’t they just take accountability for all the hurt they caused? How sorry they are? Why do they get defensive? Angry? It makes no sense to me. If he came to me with pain I’d drop everything and hold him. All night. Nothing else. Then he wants me to not leave him after not even acknowledging my pain??

TL;DR:

I (30M) stayed close and sexually involved with my ex (45M) after we broke up, with an agreement to be honest about other relationships. I introduced him to someone I briefly dated, and my ex told me nothing was going on between them.

6 Months later, that guy contacted me and proved they had actually been secretly dating and having sex for ~6 months while my ex was still telling me “I love you” and staying intimate with me. My ex never apologized and dismissed it all instead.

After I found out, I saw my ex again and we were still physical, but afterward things felt tense and different. I’m now trying to process the betrayal and loss of trust.

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My ex and I are both males. He’s 45. I’m 30. We broke up years ago, he had drinking issue but we stayed close daily. Sex. I love yous. All that. We promised we would tell one another when we found another interest. I met a guy that it didn’t work out with. I introduced them together as a way for my ex to help him. I released they started liking each other and I “broke up” with that guy. I was then reassured by my ex that he didn’t like him. They were just friends. I believed it. We continued to have sex, love our lives. In January I got a call from that guy, he left a voicemail that he needs to talk to me. That him and my ex have been dating and having sex daily for the past 6 months. I was in complete shock. I thought it couldn’t be true because I talk to him daily and he always tells me what he’s doing. I only knew him to be honest as can be with me. He then sent me pictures, text messages, all the proof I needed. He met his family.. everything. I was heartbroken. No he didn’t cheat. But he lied to me. I called my ex in shock. My ex said “That guys a drunk and a drug addict fuck him.” No “I’m sorry”. No “I feel horrible”. Nope. I then met the guy again. Saw the room my ex put him in. The room was full of things of my exes. Tv that I used. Plushies he got him. His blankets. Everything. I proceeded to throw myself onto my ex. I told him if he had sex with me all this time without me knowing his lies, that we’re doing this with me knowing the truth now. We got a hotel. Whatever. I tried to push the pain down. The guy left the state. They blocked eachother. I tried to get closer to my ex. It didn’t work. Yes we had sex an said I love you but he was angrier. Meaner. Like the truth was out.

The thing is my ex never took accountability. Ever. Any time I brought up my pain “Why can’t you move on” He would get mad at me that I was in pain for it. He’s never been this way to me. It’s truly like a flip switched. Over the last few months I started distancing myself. He got worse. He got arrested for first time I’ve known him. He lost his mind to prescription medicine. He supposed to be getting out in the next month or so. I’m a week no contact. It causes me so much stress to talk to him.

I brought up my pain to him as the reason I need space from him last week. Part of me was hoping he’d just say I’m sorry and that’s it. Nope. Paragraphs. That he’s not in the wrong. He wasn’t with me so he didn’t have to tell me. I always hold it against him. How I’m not the victim here. That he loves me so much. That he wants to know if we will work it out together and forget the past. I never responded and blocked him again.

My question is why can’t they just take accountability? Why can’t they just take accountability for all the hurt they caused? How sorry they are? Why do they get defensive? Angry? It makes no sense to me. If he came to me with pain I’d drop everything and hold him. All night. Nothing else. Then he wants me to not leave him after not even acknowledging my pain??

It’s a Chevy bolt. I’ve been living out of until I get a better living situation it but I realized I don’t ever turn it off. I leave it on almost 24/7 to run AC during night and day and I DoorDash out of it. Am I doing any kind of damage to it this way? I do fast charging daily. I’ll turn it off for a few mins here and there but for most part, it’s on 24/7.