u/jadedeternity

I feel like a lot of homophobic/transphobic "people of no color" hate black transwomen/fem boys

I feel like a lot of people of no color hate black transgender women/femboys because they feel that as biological males we are supposed to act like a stereotypical black man. Once we deviate from that they have an issue because we are not placating their fetish or acting how a black man is "supposed" to.

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u/jadedeternity — 1 day ago

Just got fired should I immediately go on ei?

I had been working at my job for the past four months and I really tried hard in sales but my manager wasn't happy with my performance and now I got fired. Unexpectedly. Should Immediately apply for employment insurance or wait?

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u/jadedeternity — 11 days ago

Lump appeared years after orchiectomy

I had an orchiectomy and scrotectomy 6 years ago. Lately I've been going to college and tucking a lot. Which isn't uncomfortable for me. But a month ago I got a swollen lump in the space where my balls would be. The lump has gone down in terms of swollen but it's still there and still "slightly" hurts when I press on it. Has anyone experienced this?

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u/jadedeternity — 13 days ago

I went to bestbuy and I had a horrible experience with the customer service sales agent there. The sales person was extremely rude I asked for a manager and she stood right next to the manager so I couldn't make my complaint. Is there anything I can do to escalate this situation.

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u/jadedeternity — 15 days ago
▲ 2 r/Laptop

Where can I buy a laptop that's good quality for Internet browsing and movie downloading 16 inch or higher screen.

Best laptop with 2k budget for college student?

Details

"Total budget (in local currency) and country of purchase. Please do not use USD unless purchasing in the US:"

2k max CAS

"Are you open to refurbs/used?"

Only new

"How would you prioritize form factor (ultrabook, 2-in-1, etc.), build quality, performance, and battery life?"

Fast long lasting battery

"How important is weight and thinness to you?"

N/a

"Do you have a preferred screen size? If indifferent, put "

15 inch and above

"Are you doing any CAD/video editing/photo editing/gaming? List which programs/games you desire to run."

No

"Any specific requirements such as good keyboard, reliable build quality, touch-screen, finger-print reader, optical drive or good input devices (keyboard/touchpad)?"

Touch screen would be nice but not a requirement

Leave any finishing thoughts here that you may feel are necessary and beneficial to the discussion.

Need a laptop that's fast paced and good for downloading movies and streaming

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u/jadedeternity — 19 days ago

I've been dating my bisexual boyfriend for years now. For reference I'm a transwoman and things have been great so far but what annoys me is he has a habit of making friends with people who are homophobic/transphobic. I know it's not intentional on his part because he's perceived as heterosexual but what I don't understand is why that wouldn't turn him off enough to no longer want to be friends with them. He's seen me cut off friends just for getting a sniff of any bigotry and sneaky behavior. I feel like he's setting himself up to get hurt if they ever do find out he's bisexual. Why take such a gamble? Why not have friendships with people who at least seem indifferent to the LGBT community? I've asked him why and he says it's just easier for him to ignore it.

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u/jadedeternity — 19 days ago
▲ 3 r/askTO

I met a friend at college and we just finished our semester! We're looking for a place to party in celebration. Any suggestions?

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u/jadedeternity — 22 days ago

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I had to work on a group assignment. I was instructed by the people in my group to only deal with the statistics portion which I provided. Last minute we all have a falling out within the group where one of the students calls me a back stabbing bitch and a "that". the teacher doesn't even scold her. Instead the teacher decides we will all be marked solo on assignment. I mentioned to the teacher I only worked on statistics for assignment and a short video should I add more. He states We can't tailor or alter our assignment in any way just show what we provided. When I get my marks back I get back a D on the assignment. What are my options as I think this is extremely unfair. I could tell the professor favored the other student and I think it was because I was a trans woman.

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u/jadedeternity — 23 days ago

I had to work on a group assignment. I was instructed by the people in my group to only deal with the statistics portion which I provided. Last minute we all have a falling out within the group where one of the students calls me a back stabbing bitch, the teacher doesn't even scold her. Instead the teacher decides we will all be marked solo on assignment. I mentioned to the teacher I only worked on statistics for assignment and a short video should I add more. He states We can't tailor or alter our assignment in any way just show what we provided. When I get my marks back I get back a D on the assignment. What are my options as I think this is extremely unfair.

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u/jadedeternity — 24 days ago

I had to work on a group assignment. I was instructed by the people in my group to only deal with the statistics portion which I provided. Last minute we all have a falling out within the group over a slur used against me by one of the students. (I can't go in detail as it's currently being investigated.) All I know is instead of penalizing the student the teacher decides we will all be marked solo. I mentioned to the teacher I only worked on statistics for assignment and a short video should I add more. SHe states We can't tailor or alter our assignment in any way just show what we provided. When I get my marks back I get back a D on the assignment. What are my options as I think this is extremely unfair.

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u/jadedeternity — 24 days ago