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Self-control regarding sex drive?

I’ve been on gel testosterone for about a month.

[I don’t really wanna include too much information because there’s chasers on here and also I have a girlfriend who I wouldn’t want to make uncomfortable by including a bunch of personal information…and this is listed as an “all ages sub”😬]

but I just need some advice on killing my sex drive and at least making regular life manageable again.

Any ideas or suggestions?

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u/loveddeviant — 13 hours ago
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Cutest thing I’ve ever seen

My girlfriend loves these little guys. I’m not particularly looking for an ID—I really just wanted to share this cute video—but if you wanna tell me anyways I’m in Vancouver BC and this distinguished gentleman hopped right onto my shirt! He’s a very fast jumper, too!

u/loveddeviant — 2 days ago

dude fumbled even while insulting me

I’m a trans man (the “piggy” they’re talking about) on a post about a man being transphobic (and this commenter defending it).

In the original post I’m commenting on, a man at Chili’s misgendered & deadnamed his nonbinary co-worker on purpose to antagonize them. As a result, the man was fired for workplace harassment. I don’t know how, but I clearly struck a nerve here LOL.

u/loveddeviant — 8 days ago

The feeling of not having enough scars?

It’s been 100 days since I last SH’d, and I don’t intend on relapsing ever again (I don’t want to jinx it but I’m just super tired of the cycle, DBT has made me realized I want better for myself, & I’ve come up with new coping mechanisms), but I always feel like I don’t have enough scars. I’m glad I stopped when I did because they were getting to a point I could get serious infections, but my right arm feels so empty compared to the left.

I’m glad I stopped and have so many reasons to not & I won’t relapse, I just wish they both had the same symmetry I guess? I don’t think that’s the right word, but I hope you guys get it. I hated cutting, I hated the healing, and I still hate the scars; especially because strangers and nosy and gross and keep asking me about them. But anyway, I just wanted to rant. Hope everyone’s having a lovely Thursday afternoon!

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u/loveddeviant — 8 days ago