u/ButterscotchIcy719

▲ 2.1k r/whatdoIdo

I feel like I'll be out of place going to this event.

OK so I watched this youtuber named gentleman's collective And I like his videos and And his videos have taught me a lot about fashion, how to be a gentleman, and how to carry yourself as a person, But I fill out a place because my skin color, Will be in Miami on the 28th I believe and I'm thinking about going, But I'm not sure.

u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 5 days ago

Relapsed after 8 days — looking for advice on handling triggers

I’m 17 and I’ve been struggling with compulsive use of adult content online since I was around 13–14.

I recently made it 8 days without it, which was my longest streak so far. I felt more in control during that time, but I relapsed after a pop-up ad triggered me.

I’m trying to take recovery seriously, but I want to focus on practical changes that actually help prevent relapse.

What I’m currently doing:

  • Avoiding phone use late at night
  • Staying busy with school and exercise
  • Paying attention to triggers when they happen
  • Restarting immediately after relapse instead of spiraling

My main struggle is dealing with unexpected online triggers and staying consistent long-term.

What strategies or systems have actually helped you deal with this?

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u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 5 days ago
▲ 1 r/NoFap

Relapsed after 8-day streak — need practical advice for triggers

Relapsed after 8-day streak — need practical advice for triggers

I’m 17 and have been dealing with this habit since I was around 13–14.

I recently reached 8 days clean, which was my longest streak. I felt a lot better during that time, but I relapsed after a pop-up ad triggered me.

I’m trying to stop and improve, but I need practical strategies, not motivation.

What I’m currently doing:

  • Using blockers to reduce exposure
  • Avoiding phone use late at night
  • Staying busy with school/exercise
  • Identifying triggers when they happen
  • Restarting immediately after relapse instead of giving up

My main issue is unexpected online triggers like pop-ups.

What actually helps prevent relapses in situations like that?

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u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 5 days ago
▲ 2 r/HybridAthlete+2 crossposts

Transitioning from bodybuilding to a hybrid athletic physique (5'6", 120 lbs)

I’ve been training bodybuilding-style for about 2 years and built some decent muscle, but now I want to switch directions. I’m 5'6" and 120 lbs, and my goal is to build a more hybrid athletic physique—lean, fast, flexible, and explosive. I don’t want to focus on getting bigger anymore. I’d rather be strong for my size, athletic, and well-conditioned. I’m planning to move away from pure hypertrophy training and start focusing more on: Strength work (lower reps, heavier compounds) Sprinting and conditioning Plyometrics and explosive training Calisthenics/bodyweight control Mobility and flexibility work My main question is: Has anyone here made this switch from bodybuilding to a hybrid/athletic style?

u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 5 days ago
▲ 28 r/Frasier

My friend's birthday is next week And I wonder where can I get those wine glasses that are in the show ?

My friend likes to drink champagne, I don't drink And of course I made a post recently about sherry, The reason why is because I'm going to get him some sherry and these Wine glasses but I can't find them, And also he said he wanted to try some sherry, If you could help me I would be grateful thank you.

u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 5 days ago
▲ 34 r/Frasier

Is is anybody ever drunk sherry and How does it taste

I know it's kind of a silly question to ask, But in the show Niles and Frasier They love sherry, I can't find any in my stores and I don't drink.

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u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 5 days ago

Are 3 button suit jackets Outdated?

I don't see a lot of men wearing 3 button suit jackets anymore and And I'm wondering why, Because it's somewhat associated with the 90s?. Is it because it's the suit jacket isn't a great looking suit jacket? Or are they just outdated.

u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 6 days ago
▲ 17 r/Frasier

Okay so I've seen the show frasier And now I'm going on my 1st rewatch of the entire series

What episode should I watch I forgot, A favorite episode of yours that you would recommend me watching again.

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u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 6 days ago
▲ 23 r/Cheers+1 crossposts

OK I'm trying to get into Cheers after loving Frasier — Is there anyone else who struggled at first ?

I'm a huge fan of Frasier And probably first of my favorite shows ever. And I finally decided to start watching cheers because I wanted more Frasier content and to see where the character started.

The weird thing is that I like the show but for some weird reason I can't get fully into it yet I don't know if it's the pacing the bar setting or the early 80s sitcom style but it isn't clicking with me the same way Frasier did immediately.

Did anyone else feel this way at first?. Does Cheers get stronger after a certain season or character addition? And for the people who 1st watched Frasier 1st what really helped you "click" with Cheers?

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u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 6 days ago

Update on my friend

Good news my name is is cleared the person that contacted person that contacted him when he gave me her phone number so I contacted her she seemed really nice she understood and of course now since I fixed it .

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u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 6 days ago

Bro I screwed up

So I made a post earlier talking about how my friend sent me racist text , he found it and it accidentally included his phone number which I totally did not mean to do I of course edit the other things I totally forgot and now he's threatened legal actions he's got screenshots and I guess someone had called him . Bro he said he'll get his kicked from the gym me and my brother for harassing him .

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u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 6 days ago

Coffee brown trousers outfit advice – need help styling.

Hey everyone, I recently got a pair of coffee brown trousers and I’m trying to figure out the best way to style them. I had another post up before, but I’m updating it because the picture I used wasn’t great and didn’t really show the color properly. I like the fit of the pants, but I’m not sure what colors or outfits work best with them. I’m going for a clean, slightly classic / smart casual look. What shirts, shoes, or jackets would you recommend pairing with coffee brown trousers? Also open to color combinations that work well with this shade (neutral tones, contrast colors, etc.). Thanks in advance for any help!

u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 6 days ago

Title: James Bond series Discussion #11: Moonraker

I want to apologize for missing a couple days in the discussion series. I had a death in my family and needed some time away. I appreciate everyone’s patience and support, and we’re back today.

Today we’re discussing , the eleventh film in the James Bond series and one of the most ambitious and over-the-top entries in the franchise.

What are your thoughts on this film?

  • What do you like about it?
  • What do you dislike about it?
  • Where would you place it among the Bond films?
  • How does it compare to The Spy Who Loved Me?
  • Do you think it still holds up today?

Interested to hear everyone’s opinions and thoughts.

Tomorrow’s discussion: For Your Eyes Only.

u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 6 days ago
▲ 55 r/WWE

Do you think Bret the hitman hart or Ric flair would be huge stars Today's WWE

Yes I know MJF is a little bit like ric flair but I'm talking about in ring And Bret hart in ring style would work in today's WWE ?

u/ButterscotchIcy719 — 10 days ago