Do we love people for who they are, or for how they make us feel?

I think we love people through a combination of both, but who they are matters more in the long run.

At first we are often drawn to how someone makes us feel happy, understood, safe, excited or valued. Those feelings are powerful and they create the spark of connection. But feelings can change with time, circumstances, and lifes difficulties.

Real love grows when we begin to appreciate the person themselves their values, kindness, flaws, dreams, habits and the quiet parts of them that others may never notice. Loving someone only for the emotions they give us can become self centered but loving someone for who they are means choosing to care for them even when life is not always easy.

So perhaps the answer is this we may fall in love because of how someone makes us feel but we stay in love because of who they are. 🌙

Edit: rate the pic too hehe

u/Old_Syrup8742 — 1 day ago

Where can I find the best local food.

I wanna try some local food here in Switzerland, but if u suggest any non veg restaurant, I wanna tell u that I dont eat pork and I want it to be halal certified.

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u/Old_Syrup8742 — 3 days ago

Gm guys hope u all are fine.

Gm everyone hope u had a great sleep and have a great day 💖.

Took the last pic in 2023 imagine the fun of living in such home in mountains.

u/Old_Syrup8742 — 3 days ago

Ama I will answer anything u ask with truth and I won't judge u. You can ask anything (pics js to flex)

u/Old_Syrup8742 — 5 days ago
▲ 2 r/Poems

A poem Abt SMTH ig i deserve and i need

You wear your arrogance like moonlight wears the night

beautiful from afar yet always out of sight.

You hide your tenderness behind all that pride

so let it fall quiet just for tonight.

I am tired of carrying my storms alone

I need a shoulder where my sorrow can rest

a lap where the noise in my head grows still

a chest where my tears can fall without a word.

I want a forehead waiting beneath my lips,

a hand in mine when the world feels cold,

fingers gently lost within my hair,

and maybe a playful little slap when I lose my way

just enough to bring me back to myself again.

I dont ask for the moon or stars above,

just a little kindness, a little love.

Let me give you the love I have kept inside

and if you will let me a little piece of your heart to call home.

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u/Old_Syrup8742 — 5 days ago

A poem Abt SMTH ig i deserve and i need

You wear your arrogance like moonlight wears the night

beautiful from afar yet always out of sight.

You hide your tenderness behind all that pride

so let it fall quiet just for tonight.

I am tired of carrying my storms alone

I need a shoulder where my sorrow can rest

a lap where the noise in my head grows still

a chest where my tears can fall without a word.

I want a forehead waiting beneath my lips,

a hand in mine when the world feels cold,

fingers gently lost within my hair,

and maybe a playful little slap when I lose my way

just enough to bring me back to myself again.

I dont ask for the moon or stars above,

just a little kindness, a little love.

Let me give you the love I have kept inside

and if you will let me a little piece of your heart to call home.

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u/Old_Syrup8742 — 6 days ago