u/latte_imacheater

Does anyone feel better after having a break from Reddit?

So a couple months ago I took a break from Reddit and it changed me as I felt much better and when I came back on Reddit it took a toll on my mental health.

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u/latte_imacheater — 7 days ago

Does anyone feel better after having a break from Reddit?

So a couple months ago I took a break from Reddit and it changed me as I felt much better and when I came back on Reddit it took a toll on my mental health.

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u/latte_imacheater — 7 days ago

Blamed for bullying for a long time, ignored by teachers, and totally isolated. Need advice.

Hi everyone,I’m posting here because I really need some advice on how to handle my situation at school.

This has been going on for a long time now, and I feel completely stuck. No one in my class likes me, and it is getting really hard to deal with.There is another student in my class who is the actual bully.

They constantly take my things and try to get a reaction out of me. The worst part is that people in my class call me the bully, even though I am the one targeted.

The narrative has been completely flipped, and no teachers have ever noticed what is actually happening.I don't know how to fix my reputation, get this person to stop messing with my stuff, or make actual friends when everyone has already judged me.

For anyone wondering why I am posting this here: I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to in real life who understands or sees what is going on, so I am looking for outside perspectives and advice from people who might have been through something similar.

Has anyone else dealt with being blamed for things they didn't do?

How do I handle a bully who baits me when teachers don't notice?Thanks in advance for any help.

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u/latte_imacheater — 9 days ago
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Blamed for bullying for a long time, ignored by teachers, and totally isolated. Need advice.

Hi everyone,I’m posting here because I really need some advice on how to handle my situation at school.

This has been going on for a long time now, and I feel completely stuck. No one in my class likes me, and it is getting really hard to deal with.There is another student in my class who is the actual bully.

They constantly take my things and try to get a reaction out of me. The worst part is that people in my class call me the bully, even though I am the one targeted.

The narrative has been completely flipped, and no teachers have ever noticed what is actually happening.I don't know how to fix my reputation, get this person to stop messing with my stuff, or make actual friends when everyone has already judged me.

For anyone wondering why I am posting this here: I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to in real life who understands or sees what is going on, so I am looking for outside perspectives and advice from people who might have been through something similar.

Has anyone else dealt with being blamed for things they didn't do?

How do I handle a bully who baits me when teachers don't notice?Thanks in advance for any help.

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u/latte_imacheater — 9 days ago

Do you have emotionally immature parents like me?

So I am 13M and for so long my parents are like this.

This just happened today and hence why I'm posting this.

Basically my mom bought junk food and when my dad saw this, he got livid and starting causing a tantrum in my house where I heard from my bedroom.

Then, when my mom had a dentist appointment, she also scheduled to go to her friend's house. But the problem is that I have table tennis that same day but later. My mum said to reschedule but I told her this is not how it works.

My dad, again, got livid because it was interfering with table tennis and she had to cancel it, she was crying a lot at that moment.

To be honest, I can make an entire book about the stories of my mum and dad having huge tantrums and there are tantrums in public too.

I cannot survive emotionally immature parents, my dad has a very high temper and my mum is very dumb and careless.

This involves me too by the way.

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u/latte_imacheater — 13 days ago

Do you have emotionally immature parents like me?

So I am 13M and for so long my parents are like this.

This just happened today and hence why I'm posting this.

Basically my mom bought junk food and when my dad saw this, he got livid and starting causing a tantrum in my house where I heard from my bedroom.

Then, when my mom had a dentist appointment, she also scheduled to go to her friend's house. But the problem is that I have table tennis that same day but later. My mum said to reschedule but I told her this is not how it works.

My dad, again, got livid because it was interfering with table tennis and she had to cancel it, she was crying a lot at that moment.

To be honest, I can make an entire book about the stories of my mum and dad having huge tantrums and there are tantrums in public too.

I cannot survive emotionally immature parents, my dad has a very high temper and my mum is very dumb and careless.

This involves me too by the way.

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u/latte_imacheater — 13 days ago

Do you have emotionally immature parents like me?

So I am 13M and for so long my parents are like this.

This just happened today and hence why I'm posting this.

Basically my mom bought junk food and when my dad saw this, he got livid and starting causing a tantrum in my house where I heard from my bedroom.

Then, when my mom had a dentist appointment, she also scheduled to go to her friend's house. But the problem is that I have table tennis that same day but later. My mum said to reschedule but I told her this is not how it works.

My dad, again, got livid because it was interfering with table tennis and she had to cancel it, she was crying a lot at that moment.

To be honest, I can make an entire book about the stories of my mum and dad having huge tantrums and there are tantrums in public too.

I cannot survive emotionally immature parents, my dad has a very high temper and my mum is very dumb and careless.

This involves me too by the way.

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u/latte_imacheater — 13 days ago

Do you have emotionally immature parents like me?

So I am 13M and for so long my parents are like this.

This just happened today and hence why I'm posting this.

Basically my mom bought junk food and when my dad saw this, he got livid and starting causing a tantrum in my house where I heard from my bedroom.

Then, when my mom had a dentist appointment, she also scheduled to go to her friend's house. But the problem is that I have table tennis that same day but later. My mum said to reschedule but I told her this is not how it works.

My dad, again, got livid because it was interfering with table tennis and she had to cancel it, she was crying a lot at that moment.

To be honest, I can make an entire book about the stories of my mum and dad having huge tantrums and there are tantrums in public too.

I cannot survive emotionally immature parents, my dad has a very high temper and my mum is very dumb and careless.

This involves me too by the way.

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u/latte_imacheater — 13 days ago

Do you have emotionally immature parents like me?

So I am 13M and for so long my parents are like this.

This just happened today and hence why I'm posting this.

Basically my mom bought junk food and when my dad saw this, he got livid and starting causing a tantrum in my house where I heard from my bedroom.

Then, when my mom had a dentist appointment, she also scheduled to go to her friend's house. But the problem is that I have table tennis that same day but later. My mum said to reschedule but I told her this is not how it works.

My dad, again, got livid because it was interfering with table tennis and she had to cancel it, she was crying a lot at that moment.

To be honest, I can make an entire book about the stories of my mum and dad having huge tantrums and there are tantrums in public too.

I cannot survive emotionally immature parents, my dad has a very high temper and my mum is very dumb and careless.

This involves me too by the way.

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u/latte_imacheater — 13 days ago

Do you have emotionally immature parents like me?

So I am 13M and for so long my parents are like this.

This just happened today and hence why I'm posting this.

Basically my mom bought junk food and when my dad saw this, he got livid and starting causing a tantrum in my house where I heard from my bedroom.

Then, when my mom had a dentist appointment, she also scheduled to go to her friend's house. But the problem is that I have table tennis that same day but later. My mum said to reschedule but I told her this is not how it works.

My dad, again, got livid because it was interfering with table tennis and she had to cancel it, she was crying a lot at that moment.

To be honest, I can make an entire book about the stories of my mum and dad having huge tantrums and there are tantrums in public too.

I cannot survive emotionally immature parents, my dad has a very high temper and my mum is very dumb and careless.

This involves me too by the way.

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u/latte_imacheater — 13 days ago

Do you have emotionally immature parents like me?

So I am 13M and for so long my parents are like this.

This just happened today and hence why I'm posting this.

Basically my mom bought junk food and when my dad saw this, he got livid and starting causing a tantrum in my house where I heard from my bedroom.

Then, when my mom had a dentist appointment, she also scheduled to go to her friend's house. But the problem is that I have table tennis that same day but later. My mum said to reschedule but I told her this is not how it works.

My dad, again, got livid because it was interfering with table tennis and she had to cancel it, she was crying a lot at that moment.

To be honest, I can make an entire book about the stories of my mum and dad having huge tantrums and there are tantrums in public too.

I cannot survive emotionally immature parents, my dad has a very high temper and my mum is very dumb and careless.

This involves me too by the way.

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u/latte_imacheater — 13 days ago

Do you have emotionally immature parents like me?

So I am 13M and for so long my parents are like this.

This just happened today and hence why I'm posting this.

Basically my mom bought junk food and when my dad saw this, he got livid and starting causing a tantrum in my house where I heard from my bedroom.

Then, when my mom had a dentist appointment, she also scheduled to go to her friend's house. But the problem is that I have table tennis that same day but later. My mum said to reschedule but I told her this is not how it works.

My dad, again, got livid because it was interfering with table tennis and she had to cancel it, she was crying a lot at that moment.

To be honest, I can make an entire book about the stories of my mum and dad having huge tantrums and there are tantrums in public too.

I cannot survive emotionally immature parents, my dad has a very high temper and my mum is very dumb and careless.

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u/latte_imacheater — 13 days ago

13M, had depression for the past 4 years thanks to primary school teachers and students being very harsh and bullying me, discriminating me.

Yet, because no one was here for me, I had to face it myself. I used all my strength to make it through until the strength is all gone. I smiled less than 10 times daily.

One mistake when I play football as a CDM and I get depressed and wont play properly until I can recover from this misery, it changes me. I can't learn, no one trusts me. I was never the good one.

I want to feel better before my football trials next week, but I just feel cursed because rarely something goes my way.

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u/latte_imacheater — 16 days ago

13M, had depression for the past 4 years thanks to primary school teachers and students being very harsh and bullying me, discriminating me.

Yet, because no one was here for me, I had to face it myself. I used all my strength to make it through until the strength is all gone. I smiled less than 10 times daily.

I can't do therapy because I had therapy problems when I was 5.

One mistake when I play football as a CDM and I get depressed and wont play properly until I can recover from this misery, it changes me. I can't learn, no one trusts me. I was never the good one.

I want to feel better before my football trials next week, but I just feel cursed because rarely something goes my way.

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u/latte_imacheater — 16 days ago

13M, had depression for the past 4 years thanks to primary school teachers and students being very harsh and bullying me, discriminating me.

Yet, because no one was here for me, I had to face it myself. I used all my strength to make it through until the strength is all gone. I smiled less than 10 times daily.

I can't do therapy because I had therapy problems when I was 5.

One mistake when I play football as a CDM and I get depressed and wont play properly until I can recover from this misery, it changes me. I can't learn, no one trusts me. I was never the good one.

I want to feel better before my trials next week, but I just feel cursed because rarely something goes my way.

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u/latte_imacheater — 16 days ago

Relegation Battle: West Ham and Tottenham Hotspur.

Title Race: Arsenal and Man City.

Edit: Interested in both or for Europe or for all 3? They are very excellent choices!

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u/latte_imacheater — 20 days ago

Hey everyone, I’m 13M and I need to vent a bit.

My parents are super generous—like, "give the shirt off their back" type of people. For my birthday, they gave out tons of food to 4 different neighbors and a bunch of other people too. I get that being kind is good, but today it really got to me.I spent a lot of time today making banana bread from scratch. I put my heart into it and my mom helped me out, which was cool. My plan was for us to have it as a family and specifically for my dad to have some.But then a guest comes over, and my mom immediately starts giving my banana bread away to them. It’s frustrating because I worked hard on it for us, not for some random guest who is just going to eat it and leave without even saying thanks or giving anything back.I feel like a jerk for being mad because "giving is good," but I just wanted to save some for my dad and actually enjoy what I made. Does anyone else have parents who give away EVERYTHING, even the stuff you worked hard on?

TL;DR: Made banana bread with my heart for my dad, mom gave it to a guest immediately. Parents' "extreme hospitality" is making me feel like my hard work doesn't matter.

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u/latte_imacheater — 20 days ago

Hey everyone, I’m 13M and I need to vent a bit.

My parents are super generous—like, "give the shirt off their back" type of people. For my birthday, they gave out tons of food to 4 different neighbors and a bunch of other people too. I get that being kind is good, but today it really got to me.I spent a lot of time today making banana bread from scratch. I put my heart into it and my mom helped me out, which was cool. My plan was for us to have it as a family and specifically for my dad to have some.But then a guest comes over, and my mom immediately starts giving my banana bread away to them. It’s frustrating because I worked hard on it for us, not for some random guest who is just going to eat it and leave without even saying thanks or giving anything back.I feel like a jerk for being mad because "giving is good," but I just wanted to save some for my dad and actually enjoy what I made. Does anyone else have parents who give away EVERYTHING, even the stuff you worked hard on?

TL;DR: Made banana bread with my heart for my dad, mom gave it to a guest immediately. Parents' "extreme hospitality" is making me feel like my hard work doesn't matter.

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u/latte_imacheater — 20 days ago

Hey everyone, I’m 13M and I need to vent a bit.

My parents are super generous—like, "give the shirt off their back" type of people. For my birthday, they gave out tons of food to 4 different neighbors and a bunch of other people too. I get that being kind is good, but today it really got to me.I spent a lot of time today making banana bread from scratch. I put my heart into it and my mom helped me out, which was cool. My plan was for us to have it as a family and specifically for my dad to have some.But then a guest comes over, and my mom immediately starts giving my banana bread away to them. It’s frustrating because I worked hard on it for us, not for some random guest who is just going to eat it and leave without even saying thanks or giving anything back.I feel like a jerk for being mad because "giving is good," but I just wanted to save some for my dad and actually enjoy what I made. Does anyone else have parents who give away EVERYTHING, even the stuff you worked hard on?

TL;DR: Made banana bread with my heart for my dad, mom gave it to a guest immediately. Parents' "extreme hospitality" is making me feel like my hard work doesn't matter.

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u/latte_imacheater — 20 days ago