u/Visible-Island-2408

I have been asking Claude to give me feedback on dates I go out on with girls. Most recently I went on a really fun date that unfortunately ended with ghosting so I put as much detail as possible about the date into Claude Sonnet 5 and asked it for feedback. After running the date through Sonnet 5 several times it just kept repeating that it was a solid date and it did not have feedback to provide. I do not want validation, I want to improve to reach my goals.

Has anyone found a workaround to have Claude break down interactions like this to provide specific feedback to work on?

I have been asking Claude to give me feedback on dates I go out on with girls. Most recently I went on a really fun date that unfortunately ended with ghosting so I put as much detail as possible about the date into Claude Sonnet 5 and asked it for feedback. After running the date through Sonnet 5 several times it just kept repeating that it was a solid date and it did not have feedback to provide. I do not want validation, I want to improve to reach my goals.

Has anyone found a workaround to have Claude break down interactions like this to provide specific feedback to work on?

I (25M) have gone on quite a few dates in the past year and only had about a handful who did not ghost after the first date. I have no idea what I am doing wrong and it’s not like I can get feedback on it.

Most of my dates are the same where we grab dinner somewhere then grab dessert or coffee after somewhere else then walk around and my dates usually agree to keep hanging out after dinner. I mostly ask them questions about themselves and try not to spam them with questions like an interviewer and just get them talking so I can get to know them.

The worst was recently when I went out with someone and hung out for a while before they ended up ghosting me. I have no idea if this is just how dating is or if there is something severely wrong with me. My friend only had two first dates that both ended in long term relationships and told me that I must be doing something wrong.

I also wanna note that I work out five times a week on top of having a job and a bunch of hobbies so it’s not like I am a bum or anything either.

I (25M) have gone on quite a few dates in the past year and only had about a handful who did not ghost after the first date. I have no idea what I am doing wrong and it’s not like I can get feedback on it.

Most of my dates are the same where we grab dinner somewhere then grab dessert or coffee after somewhere else then walk around and my dates usually agree to keep hanging out after dinner. I mostly ask them questions about themselves and try not to spam them with questions like an interviewer and just get them talking so I can get to know them.

The worst was recently when I went out with someone and hung out for a while before they ended up ghosting me. I have no idea if this is just how dating is or if there is something severely wrong with me. My friend only had two first dates that both ended in long term relationships and told me that I must be doing something wrong.

I also wanna note that I work out five times a week on top of having a job and a bunch of hobbies so it’s not like I am a bum or anything either.

I (25M) have gone on quite a few dates in the past year and only had about a handful who did not ghost after the first date. I have no idea what I am doing wrong and it’s not like I can get feedback on it.

Most of my dates are the same where we grab dinner somewhere then grab dessert or coffee after somewhere else then walk around and my dates usually agree to keep hanging out after dinner. I mostly ask them questions about themselves and try not to spam them with questions like an interviewer and just get them talking so I can get to know them.

The worst was recently when I went out with someone and hung out for a while before they ended up ghosting me. I have no idea if this is just how dating is or if there is something severely wrong with me. My friend only had two first dates that both ended in long term relationships and told me that I must be doing something wrong.

I also wanna note that I work out five times a week on top of having a job and a bunch of hobbies so it’s not like I am a bum or anything either.

I (25M) have gone on quite a few dates in the past year and only had about a handful who did not ghost after the first date. I have no idea what I am doing wrong and it’s not like I can get feedback on it.

Most of my dates are the same where we grab dinner somewhere then grab dessert or coffee after somewhere else then walk around and my dates usually agree to keep hanging out after dinner. I mostly ask them questions about themselves and try not to spam them with questions like an interviewer and just get them talking so I can get to know them.

The worst was recently when I went out with someone and hung out for a while before they ended up ghosting me. I have no idea if this is just how dating is or if there is something severely wrong with me. My friend only had two first dates that both ended in long term relationships and told me that I must be doing something wrong.

I also wanna note that I work out five times a week on top of having a job and a bunch of hobbies so it’s not like I am a bum or anything either.

I’ve dated around a little bit but never had an actual relationship or had sex. My friends tease me about it a lot and I feel weird being the only one in my friend group who is single and has zero relationship experience. I don’t necessarily really want a relationship but I do feel bad not being able to share my life with someone sometimes. At the same time my life is very busy between work and a lot of hobbies that I enjoy. I just don’t wanna be 30 and completely alone with people thinking I am a loser, as stupid as that sounds.