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Meri , still wanting to be in touch with Robyn and Kody. Still believing Kody and Robyn over Janelle. Even though Janelle was the one who told her to get a lawyer. Ran to tattle on Janelle to gain favor with Kody. Nothings changed with Meri. Kody has no contact with Leon. But Meri is still wanting to be in his life.

Made us believe time and time again that this was when she’s finally going to tell us ‘her story’. Gives nothing but 5 pictures we’ve already seen. 🙄. If this is what we have to look forward to this season then I was right,That show needs villains. But the people wanted them off the show and now we have this snooze fest.

During another rewatch became curious about who else would have their dad or step dad at their birth filming between their legs ? Like Robyn step daddy Paul was down there with his flip phone filming / taking pictures 🤨

Do we think that he’s such an instigator of Sammie and Ron’s break up and the Italy situation between Snooks and Jionni because he’s miserable or it was pushed by producers?

Or something else ?

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I’ve Greek yogurt, honey , sesame and sunflower seeds , almonds,bananas and homemade nectarine jam. Will all that make a good breakfast yogurt ? Or should I leave something out ? Should I roast the seeds and nuts ?

Watching again and in Miami season 2 when the boys are sick of her And she leaves the house Did anyone feel bad for her ? Why or
Why not ?

Thursday evening around the same time I got my period I start getting that feeling that I need to
pee all the time. Friday morning I started having cold sweats. I had a fever. I called my doctor who didn’t have any free appointments. I already drink lots of water but I took some painkillers and started drinking water constantly.Just kept filling my bottle up. I showered. Kept warm and then ran to pee every 30 mins. By the end of Friday night the cold sweats were gone and I didn’t feel that discomfort . Today I’m all good. I’ve not had a UTI for about 10 years or more. But never thought it was possible to make it go away just by drinking ridiculous amounts of water?

I sometimes wish certain people didn’t have access to me through my phone. I’ve one family member who start texting me in the morning and
all through the day then call me when they get off work , and won’t get off the phone till they go to bed.

Yes I have told them I can’t that I’m busy but this
Results in them breaking down , they’ll somehow invent “ emergencies “ that’s not an emergency. This is an adult woman who has a responsible job. But still needs me to sit and listen to her. Everyday there’s “drama” some place in her life.

I can’t be on social media because she messages there too. I’ve for over a year told her that this has to stop. She acts as if nothing is wrong with it . Yes she’s had therapy. She has changed therapist idk how many times. If i speak to her firmly she has an attitude and starts involving family members. My mom use to tell
about her doing this to her. She couldn’t get work done because she kept calling her and then
Cause drama within the family. And now my mom is sick she does it to me.

She can’t keep friendships for very long , she’s rushes into relationships with men then few months later they throw her out. It’s a constant battle with her. I’ve my own life my own family. If I don’t pick up or answer she calls them. Everyone’s tired of it.

My parents enable her because she’s the youngest. She’s never been checked or is held accountable. My mom told me she think she’s jealous of me and I don’t see why because she’s got a Successful career. And if she’s jealous why would she be needing me to be on the phone with her 24/7.

The only thing I feel I’ve left to so is block her ? I feel I’ve tried everything else. And then I will have the whole family on my neck.

How long do you let people sit in your hidden
area before you unmatch ?

My dad was always emotional and sometimes physical abusive. But this is about my sister and mom. I’m trying to understand how it’s okay for them to make derogatory comments on my body, my clothes , my hair , my son , the way I talk. If I say a word incorrectly they jump on it to correct and ridicule me . I tried to deal with this by always complementing them because I thought that would make them stop behaving like this. But it didn’t help. One time i tried to explain why it’s hurtful and they just started giggling. We are all adults btw.

TW abuse :
After I had my son I was being stalked and emotionally abused by my son’s dad . There were also instances of physical and sexualviolence. I tried to tell my family because i was desperate for help. My mom eventually told me to come home. So I sold everything i owned. My mom said they would help me look for an apartment. After weeks of staying with them and trying to set up appointments to see places , i realized they did not want to help me. They live in a very rural area , they used their cars for work so i needed to rely on them for transport. My dad one day told me he would drop me and my son off at the homeless shelter because they were going on vacation.

Atp i was scared and i reached out to a friend who lived in another country. I bought tickets to go there some days after my family went on vacation. And i then slept in their living room for 5 months til i got enough money for a deposit.

I still had contact with my family. They tell
A very different side but I have emails and text to
Prove them wrong. I don’t get why do they want to be in contact with me since they clearly do not like me?

(Btw I’ve been to therapy and a psychiatrist to help me deal with some of these issues)

I see a lot of matches who straight after we match will tell me “hey I’m not on this dating app much so let’s talk on social media / whatsapp”

We’ve not even exchanged basic information and now you want access to my private pictures family etc. When I say this It’s met by insults or just silence.

I’ve a child. They know this. I’m trying to understand why we cant stay on the dating app ?

They can’t answer me this so I’m wondering if anyone else experience this?

Btw ive np telling them Bye and unmatch.

I’m back asking for advice on a guy I’ve met a few times and he wants my social media ; my instagram. As I have a child I’ve always kept my IG private and only have family and friends on there. I don’t bring dates or a bf around my child. That’s just always been my rule.

But while he’s away he wants to show me stuff on his IG. I love that but now I feel bad for not wanting to add him? . He also wants us to chat through there. Is that possible if i dont add him to my IG ? Sorry im so clueless. He is not pushy . We are chatting on text atm because he’s away and soon I’ll be away so will be some weeks before we see each other again.

You guys have given me great advice before so now I’m back for more. Thank you so much in advance.

My first date with this dude is coming up soon but what is basic first questions that’s important to be clear on in your opinion?

My period is every 2-3 months now and it’s been like that for over a year. Very light and only last 2 days. This month its back and feels like how my period was in my 20s; heavy bleeding and I’m on the 5th day. No end in sight it seems. Why is it now back to “normal” ? I’m happy I’m getting my period because it means I have less aches and pains. I just don’t know if any of this is normal? I’m 52