u/CantaloupeDue9053

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I'm 28m and new here. I've been struggling socially for most of my life, but over the past year it's gotten a lot worse. I used to have a decent group of online friends but I've found it really hard to maintain those friendships.

I am an engineer and work in the oil sector and interact with a lot of people every day, but I rarely feel like they really get me or share the same interests. It's hard to find people I genuinely click with.

Outside of work, I love reading books, watching movies, and getting lost in documentaries. I'd really love to make more neurodivergent friends.

I've tried turning acquaintances into actual friends, but the conversations always seem to fizzle out no matter how much effort I put in.

Has anyone else been in the same position? Any tips for finding your people as an adult?

Hiii everyone..im 28M and i’m planning to dive into romance and romcoms, starting with The Fault in Our Stars. Would be fun if someone wants to read along and chat about it later over a call. I’m usually a history nerdbut people keep saying romance books make you feel all happy and warm, so I wanna find out if that’s true.

I’m comfortable with Europe time if anyone’s around that zone.

Anyone up for a little book adventure?

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Hi. I'm 28M. ADHD and neurodivergent.

Just looking for people who are my kind of weird. I want friends I can talk to all day without feeling judged.

A lot of people messaged me after my last post, but most never came back after a few texts. I'd rather have one genuine friendship that lasts than a hundred conversations that go nowhere.

I'm a design engineer and currently on a 45 day vacation. I love reading books, watching movies and documentaries, and going down random rabbit holes. Lately I've been into neuroscience, sci fi, and anything that makes me think.

If you're looking for a friendship that can actually last and you're willing to keep the conversation going, send me a message. Otherwise, please don't.

Hi. I'm 28M. ADHD and neurodivergent.

Just looking for people who are my kind of weird. I want friends I can talk to all day without feeling judged.

A lot of people messaged me after my last post, but most never came back after a few texts. I'd rather have one genuine friendship that lasts than a hundred conversations that go nowhere.

I'm a design engineer and currently on a 45 day vacation. I love reading books, watching movies and documentaries, and going down random rabbit holes. Lately I've been into neuroscience, sci fi, and anything that makes me think.

If you're looking for a friendship that can actually last and you're willing to keep the conversation going, send me a message. Otherwise, please don't.

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Hi. I'm 28M. ADHD and neurodivergent.

Just looking for people who are my kind of weird. I want friends I can talk to all day without feeling judged.

A lot of people messaged me after my last post, but most never came back after a few texts. I'd rather have one genuine friendship that lasts than a hundred conversations that go nowhere.

I'm a design engineer and currently on a 45 day vacation. I love reading books, watching movies and documentaries, and going down random rabbit holes. Lately I've been into neuroscience, sci fi, and anything that makes me think.

If you're looking for a friendship that can actually last and you're willing to keep the conversation going, send me a message. Otherwise, please don't.

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Hi. I'm 28M. ADHD and neurodivergent.

Just looking for people who are my kind of weird. I want friends I can talk to all day without feeling judged.

A lot of people messaged me after my last post, but most never came back after a few texts. I'd rather have one genuine friendship that lasts than a hundred conversations that go nowhere.

I'm a design engineer and currently on a 45 day vacation. I love reading books, watching movies and documentaries, and going down random rabbit holes. Lately I've been into neuroscience, sci fi, and anything that makes me think.

If you're looking for a friendship that can actually last and you're willing to keep the conversation going, send me a message. Otherwise, please don't.

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Hi. I'm 28M. ADHD and neurodivergent.

Just looking for people who are my kind of weird. I want friends I can talk to all day without feeling judged.

A lot of people messaged me after my last post, but most never came back after a few texts. I'd rather have one genuine friendship that lasts than a hundred conversations that go nowhere.

I'm a design engineer and currently on a 45 day vacation. I love reading books, watching movies and documentaries, and going down random rabbit holes. Lately I've been into neuroscience, sci fi, and anything that makes me think.

If you're looking for a friendship that can actually last and you're willing to keep the conversation going, send me a message. Otherwise, please don't.

Hi. I'm 28M. ADHD and neurodivergent.

Just looking for people who are my kind of weird. I want friends I can talk to all day without feeling judged.

A lot of people messaged me after my last post, but most never came back after a few texts. I'd rather have one genuine friendship that lasts than a hundred conversations that go nowhere.

I'm a design engineer and currently on a 45 day vacation. I love reading books, watching movies and documentaries, and going down random rabbit holes. Lately I've been into neuroscience, sci fi, and anything that makes me think.

If you're looking for a friendship that can actually last and you're willing to keep the conversation going, send me a message. Otherwise, please don't.

Hello..I'm 28 yrs old and I love reading books, watching movies and documentaries. I just happen to be a staunch introvert living in my own world, enjoying my books and coffee. If you're someone who's feeling the same and wants to explore friendships, pls do reach out to me.

We can talk just about anything from your hobbies to your work/life.

I'm a 28M and have always been more on the quiet, introverted side. Lately, I've been trying to put myself out there more and connect with new people online, which is definitely outside my comfort zone.

A little about me: I enjoy reading, movies, documentaries, working out, and learning new things. I like conversations that go beyond small talk and getting to know people from different backgrounds.

Just curious if others have had success making genuine friendships here. If you'd like to chat, feel free to reach out.

I'm a 28M and have always been more on the quiet, introverted side. Lately, I've been trying to put myself out there more and connect with new people online, which is definitely outside my comfort zone.

A little about me: I enjoy reading, movies, documentaries, working out, and learning new things. I like conversations that go beyond small talk and getting to know people from different backgrounds.

Just curious if others have had success making genuine friendships here. If you'd like to chat, feel free to reach out.

I'm a 28M who enjoys reading, movies, and documentaries. I keep a small circle and really value meaningful conversations. I’m not lonely, just looking for someone genuine to talk about life, work, or random thoughts and stay in touch long term.

If you're respectful and not into ghosting, feel free to message me.

Please only reach out if you genuinely want a long term friendship. Otherwise, kindly don’t message.

I'm 28M and enjoy reading books, watching movies, and documentaries. I'm somewhat neurodivergent, which has made me naturally curious and good at absorbing all kinds of information and ideas.

I especially enjoy romance and nonfiction books, and I'm always interested in exploring different perspectives, stories, and experiences. We can talk about almost anything: life, work, relationships, books, movies, current events, or just random thoughts that pop into our heads.

I value meaningful conversations, genuine connections, and getting to know people from different parts of the world. If you're looking for a long term friendship and enjoy thoughtful discussions, feel free to reach out.

I'm a 28M who enjoys reading, movies, and documentaries. I keep a small circle and value meaningful conversations over small talk.

I'm not lonely, just looking to connect with genuine people who enjoy talking about life, work, interests, or even random thoughts, and who are interested in building a lasting friendship.

If you're respectful, communicative, and genuinely looking for a long term friendship, feel free to send me a message.

Please reach out only if you're interested in staying in touch and getting to know each other over time.

Hi.

I'm 28M, single, and based in the Asia timezone. I love reading and would be happy to exchange voice notes and chat throughout the day. Open to talking about books, life, work, travel, or whatever comes naturally. If we get along well, I'd be happy to build a genuine long-term friendship too.

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I’m 28M, into reading, movies, and documentaries. I keep a small circle and really value meaningful conversations. Not lonely, just looking for someone genuine to talk about life, work, or random thoughts and stay in touch long term.

If you’re respectful and not into ghosting, feel free to message me.

Please only text if you genuinely want a long-term friendship. Otherwise, don’t message.

I enjoy talking about life, random late-night thoughts, things we're working on, and whatever's been on our minds. Looking for someone who values genuine connection and is up for chatting regularly.

I'm usually free because of vacation. Discord works. If interested, send your age, time zone, and a bit about yourself.

Hi.

I'm 28M, single, and based in the Asia timezone. I love reading and would be happy to exchange voice notes and chat throughout the day. Open to talking about books, life, work, travel, or whatever comes naturally. If we get along well, I'd be happy to build a genuine long-term friendship too.

I'm a 28M who enjoys reading, movies, and documentaries. I keep a small circle and value meaningful conversations over small talk.

I'm not lonely, just looking to connect with genuine people who enjoy talking about life, work, interests, or even random thoughts, and who are interested in building a lasting friendship.

If you're respectful, communicative, and genuinely looking for a long term friendship, feel free to send me a message.

Please reach out only if you're interested in staying in touch and getting to know each other over time.