u/One_Chocolate_9365

Hi so in order to keep the story anonymous, i'll name someone Jamie and another one Rowan, gender neutral names, using pronounce they.

Rowan is renting a unit a few years back, and their friend Jamie, decided to chip in, but Jamie places some of their items in the unit so when they come over they have place to stay and things to use. The item is those subscription service where you pay monthly, not buy one off type. Jamie doesn't stay there but only comes over whenever. Recently Jamie has defaulted their part of rental payment so Rowan has to move out.

Rowan is moving out in a week or two, so common sense Rowan has to move out their stuffs and clear the unit by the end of their rental agreement.

Rowan kept contacting Jamie to remove the said subscription items by the end of the rental date. The item is large, and also require people to come uninstall, Rowan cannot just take it away with them.
Jamie refuses to provide a solution, the item's name is under Jamie's name so Rowan cannot do anything to terminate or relocate the items as it is still under active subscription under Jamie. Apparently, Jamie has also not been paying for the subscription for a few months, and now refuses to do anything with the items. Rowan tried contacting the subscription company for their advice, but as expected they cannot do anything without owner's instruction. They can only make a report. But god knows how long and what action they'd take.

Now, Rowan is stuck because he cannot leave the item in the unit. End of rental is coming up and well Rowan can be an asshole and just leave but they may have to sacrifice the security deposits for leaving items in the unit ie "cleaning fee"i guess

Solution:

1. be an asshole and leave the items, but sacrifice rental deposit
2. find someone to transfer item name but this would take a while, and not sure if next tenant wants to take over
3. be an asshole again and dispose off the items themselves, but pay disposal fee
4. Ask landlord if can leave the items at the unit first while finding for solution, but god knows when a new tenant may come, and whether Jamie would solve it by then, so this is pretty much a temporary solution.
5. any other solutions please?

Do you guys think she chose that date on purpose or was it just a coincidence?

I have grown up relatively protected by my parents, they provided me with a lot of material and financial needs. We're not rich but we're comfortable. I didn't "struggle"/"suffer" much in my life.

Until now when i try to be more independent and have my own thoughts and patterns that is apart from my parents(they don't really have a good and positive mindset), i try to do things that i feel right and things that i want, rather than following them just because, things seem to be falling apart.

I have also grown up among a circle of friends who are "safe", (work a stable job, start a family blah blah blah. It doesnt being me genuine happiness), and a few years back, i know a friend (lets just nickname them Taylor) who is rather outside of societal patterns, who thought me about positivity and gratefulness and open up my eyes towards a whole other side of the world, which is not just negativity and comfort.

And as i am learning such ways, i find that things are being taken away from me, material and financial aspects i would say. And it all seems to be directly or indirectly related to Taylor. As in, because of Taylor, i lost this this this. Taylor's life was not a smooth sailing journey, it is actually a complete opposite of mine, i find that they have a rather "bad luck" along with their family. So maybe that is what gives them a positive outlook? Idk.

But anyways, after knowing Taylor, i find that my life did a complete turn, from a comfortable life, financial and material wise, to quite an uncomfortable one. However, mindset wise, i seem to be learning to be stronger.

(Please don't tell me things like I have to break the friendship with Taylor, i'd like to still learn and go through this and keeping this person in my life. )

I want to know is this the universe giving me a lesson? Why? And what should i do or learn from this lesson and how should i overcome it and be stronger?

Buying gifts for ladies are much easier imo, idk mayeb its because im a women. But i can buy anything general such as flowers, cute decorations, etc and even if they don't like it, they can just keep aside as keepsake and memory

But with guys, a lot of recommendations are things that people use in daily life eg, wallet, headphones etc which for the user, they would have their own likings/requirements/preferences. If the user doesn't like it or find it inconvenient for daily use, i feel like it's just a "waste", like a wallet just laying in a box not using for years. (I wouldn't mind a cute deco laying in a box but an expensive wallet or headphones not being used?!? damn. it hurts my heart and pocket lol)
For me, if someone gifted me a cute vase i still can put it on my table, but if someone gifted me a pair of earphones which do not fit my ears or i do not like the sound, i wouldn't even use for everyday you know.

Yea I know they all say its the thought that matters, as long as its something they would appreciate it. But stilllll

For guys, is there any GENERAL gifts that guys would sure like no matter what it is, no individual preferences whatsover? Such as flowers for girls.

You grow up believeing your thoughts like they are yours, such as a kid growing up and everything mother does is great and right. And now after all the years you're being told to not listen to that voice and it's not "yours", such as telling a kid your mother is toxic you cannot do as what she says anymore. It's honestly so hard.

If someone is suspected of being cursed/black magic/spelled/negative energy etc., how do you get rid of their bad energy? Will raising vibration help make the bad energy/negative entity leave?

I'm mostly referring to non-romantic relationship.

I'm a woman and I once had lunch with our company's partner, men, and when the bill arrived, I offered to pay for the meal to build good relationship between the companies, but they rejected and insisted me not to pay even as small amount as drinks.

So yea, is it normal for men to reject a woman's offer to pay for a meal, or would you just say thanks and accept it?

It can be anything, platonic friend, colleagues, work partner, relatives etc, feel free to share your thoughts..

So sometimes when i switch into the middle lane, i could not see there is another car from the other side also trying to come into the middle lane. I find it very dangerous but I cannot see the car coming from the other side.

So in this type of situation when both cars from both sides trying to switch into middle lane, who should see who?

Since utility bill date range starts from whenever dates, and your tenancy agreement date is also the same.

Do you have to prorate the utility bills (total amount divide 30/31 days x how many days you move in) or you just pay the whole month bill even if part of those dates technically you have not move in yet?

If its the first one, since you won't be able to calculate specifically how much utility you use on specific days, because the bill is lumpsum for whole month, do you just prorate and pay regardless if the previous tenant used more utilities?

(Successfully* edit typo in title)

So I've seen a lot of people and posts saying they're done everything in manifestation for years and years but it still doesnt work. They've remained in the state of wish fulfilled, law of assumptions, SATS etc you name it

To those who had previously experienced this before but is now succesfully manifesting, please share your stories and what did you think you changed that made you manifest successfully now as compared to what you did lastime?

Sometimes a notification shows there's a comment and there's a "preview" of the comment i can read from the notification list. But when i click into it, there's no comment. But the number of comments shows eg. "2 comments"

So right now im in a tough situation in finance, relationship, and personal, career.
I'm having to manifest all those things at once but finance is urgent! I'm trying to remain in the state of wish fulfilled where my desires have been achieved, but it's getting hard when money in my bank account is depleting, and i'm having to pay bills and im soon to be unemployed.

I'm not here to ask advices or anything, (but if you do, i'll appreciate it too). I just need some support from you guys that my manifestations will come through(i should say, have already come through!! haha) and all is ok!!! I hope we can support each other in this journey!!! Lots of love and hugs!

So i've grown up in a very negative mindset family where everything little bad thing will seem like you're a failure, and every inconvenience sounds like you're doom. I'm 30+ so i've been built with this pattern in me where the first thing my mind switch to is "shit this is bad, i think they're out to get me, they hate me, i'm doing something wrong" etc.

So manifestation on the other hand, is believing/assuming you have achieved your desires and maintain grateful for it.

So I am having hard time switching and convincing my damn mind that "things are good things are good, you are alive, you are healthy, all is well" and even when I do achieve something, my mind says "nah that was nothing it wasnt so great after all it was bound to happen anyways".

My thoughts keep running and running in my head of all the bad scenarios that could happen instead of the good, and obviously my mind believe it to be true.

How do i forcefully tell my brain that things are good and im grateful, how do i forcefully switch my state/mood/feeling towards the positive, i feel like i need to "lie" to my mind. Yes they say listen to your thoughts and know they are not true, but, how when in that moment you really do believe it to be true.

I notice how job postings doesnt include basic information like salary, location, work hours etc. some don't even disclose company name. Some jobscope one sentence only..
Don't disclose salary is the most common.
Some want you to send resume only they give details. Is this normal practice in other countries or only Malaysia? Like no transparency. If you ask further details before applying they ask you to send resume.. like urm i don't even know what i'm applying to??

A normal two block 30+ floors condo.

What are things that men in relationship do with an opposite sex that should be considered normal and not cheating? And where is the line or in what situation is considered normal vs unacceptable?

Could be anything ranging from non-physical (eg texting, sending pics/reels etc) to physical (eg. going out for dinner, playing games together, hugs etc.)
I'd like to hear your opinions whatever it is.

So i'm really new to manifestation and I've been reading a few success stories, but I notice when they successful manifested money, they often say "i got $10000 in my bank account the next day from an unknown source" or "i'm now rich but i wont say how i got rich" like im curious why can't they share in detail? (eg. An old friend decided to help me out and transfered me the money, a help fund i applied years ago finally came through, an opportunity came up and i accepted it to start a business, etc)
But they do share in details if its regarding others like SP etc..

i want to know what i have to do in specific if an opportunity came through and how would i know this is what the universe is giving me?