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Any cheaper public transport options in Sandakan other than Grab?

Hi, is there any other way to get around Sandakan, mostly between Sepilok-Labuk Bay-sandakan town area besides Grab car? Not looking for car rental or hiring private drivers as well.
I searched Grab its about rm25-30 each journey, to and fro would be RM60+ which is quite pricey imo.

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 3 days ago
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What is karma and soul lessons we need to learn?

Karma and soul lessons kind of mean that the hardships and things we face in this life was pre-determined before we come here on earth. Ie. Not under our control as humans.
But manifestations says we are God/universe and we are in control and the reality we face in 3D are all projected from us, not a pre-determined soul lesson/contract.

So can someone explain to me why do they contradict each other? Can both be true at the same time?

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 9 days ago

Part time

Would you be honest and tell the employer you'll be working partime for a few months only, and risk the employer not accepting you? Or

Just say you're here for part time long term or indefinitely, but leave after a few months due to "personal reasons"?

Do you think employers care for how long a part timer stays since its "part time" anyways?

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 15 days ago

what would you like as doorgifts when you attend someone's event such as birthdays, weddings etc?

You as a guest, what would you like to receive as a thank you when you attend someone's birthday, wedding etc events? It does not have to be a typical "gift", could be anything from physical to digital etc up to your imagination. Would like to know your thoughts.

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 16 days ago

Survey: what would you like as "gifts" when you attend someone's wedding?

A lot of gifts at weddings always end up stored away in your drawer, candles, flowers, a little bag, etc. Feel bad throwing it away, but the item you can't really use also, so just store in the drawer until god knows when. Unless its things that can eat on the spot like chocolates, candy etc.

You as a guest, what would you like to receive as a thank you when you attend someone's wedding? It does not have to be a typical "gift", could be anything from physical to digital etc up to your imagination. But please don't just joke around for the sake of it.

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 17 days ago

Lindungi 24 jam Perkeso opt out, showing whole list of previous employment

Guys dumb question, when you all opt out for the Lindungi 24jam, once submitted, the notis shows the whole list of previous employement, do y'all just send this copy to your current employer?

u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 30 days ago

Recommendations for healthy snacks to eat in between that doesnt burn my pockets!!

So the healthy snacks i know are mostly white people food which can be quite pricey long term eg. Nuts, cheese, yoghurt, avocado, oats etc

Some others alternatives are fruits, eggs. Too much fruits gives high sugar, eggs are alright but too much yolks give cholesterol urghh, anything else?? A few choices would help to switch it up over the week

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 1 month ago

Things to buy colleagues on your last day of work

Any suggestions for snacks/food/drinks/fruits etc that is around RM50+- ? Currently on my mind is donuts

I'm thinking food/snack is easiest as can share among everyone, my office only around 10 people
But any other things welcome to suggest!

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 1 month ago

Water filter/purifier recommendations for drinking?

Not those coway machines as they take up some space which my kitchen do not have, and quite expensive. So I'm looking for those water filter that straight connect to the sink type.
Budget is around RM100/200+

If you guys have any recommendations or is using similar, please do suggest!

Also, anyone used BRITA water filter? Its just a little filter on the tap which is so space saving! Wondering if this is a good brand?

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 1 month ago

Car service, do you go back to authorised service centre or general workshop?

To those where your car warranty period already expired, do you still go back to service centre?

My perodua myvi warranty period just expired, so I don't need to go back to Perodua service centre anymore, wondering if i should go back to perodua or just any general workshop out there.

What are the pros and cons?
Would it be cheaper outside? How much cheaper?

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 1 month ago

Queue etiquettes at an economy rice/nasi kandar/nasi campur etc self service nasi stall

This is only for fun ya! Not serious

The queues at some nasi campur stall during peak hours can get realllyyyy long. Usually the queues form as people queue up at the start to get their plate and rice, then everyone can just walk around to get their lauk-lauk (no more queue)

Since people usually queue to get the rice,
In a situation where you do not want rice, would you cut the queue, just get the plate and go scoop your lauk-lauk, or would you queue up as well?
If you bring your own tupperware/tiffin and only want lauk, would you still queue up?
Have you gotten stares before if you didnt queue? Lol

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 1 month ago

Somebody needs to study why millenials have so much social anxiety and such people pleasers

Also why we are so afraid of phone calls 😩

(Edit: i realize our parents are always treating everything like an emergency and everything needs to be perfect, maybe thats why)

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 1 month ago

Neville Goddard Spotify Podcasts, are they legit?

I've been looking up Neville Goddard's podcasts on Spotify, and came across a few, such as this and this . One of them mentioned "website" which made me wonder about the authenticity of it as he passed in 1972, also the picture of him they use is not the same as what i googled how he look like. So i'm now quite confused.

Can I know if these similar Spotify podcasts talks are legit words from Neville? (It doesn't matter if someone else voiced it, as long as the words are true from Neville himself.)
How would I be able to identify if its legit or not?
Any recommendations for podcasts for Neville's work?

u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 1 month ago

It keeps growing "fruit" but no leaves!!!

I got this dragon fruit plant a like 2 years back and it was growing healthily with little cute leaves. I trim the "fruits" away occasionally to make it neat.

And then one period of time, the leaves slowly started wilting, so i trim and cut it (my other plant got infested by thrips, i got paranoid and i don't know if this was infected by some other bugs too as there was whitish substances on it) then slowly, it keeps dying and dying and went almost bald. I then gave up and didnt bother it much anymore and was just waiting for it to die.

But then slowly over time, it continued growing these "fruits" and it grew very long, as pictured. it doesnt seem to be dying anymore, but the problem is, the fruits get so long but the leaves doesn't grow?!?
Since it seem to be trying so hard to grow, i feel sad for throwing it away, any way to save it and make it go back to normal?? Its so ugly now :(

It is indoors, not near a window
Pot has only one small drainage hole, bottom watering, i soak it for about 5 minutes, around once a week.
Not sure what soil because it was from the store, but the soil is hard as a constipated shit lol.

u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 2 months ago

What to do in this situation?

Hi so in order to keep the story anonymous, i'll name someone Jamie and another one Rowan, gender neutral names, using pronounce they.

Rowan is renting a unit a few years back, and their friend Jamie, decided to chip in, but Jamie places some of their items in the unit so when they come over they have place to stay and things to use. The item is those subscription service where you pay monthly, not buy one off type. Jamie doesn't stay there but only comes over whenever. Recently Jamie has defaulted their part of rental payment so Rowan has to move out.

Rowan is moving out in a week or two, so common sense Rowan has to move out their stuffs and clear the unit by the end of their rental agreement.

Rowan kept contacting Jamie to remove the said subscription items by the end of the rental date. The item is large, and also require people to come uninstall, Rowan cannot just take it away with them.
Jamie refuses to provide a solution, the item's name is under Jamie's name so Rowan cannot do anything to terminate or relocate the items as it is still under active subscription under Jamie. Apparently, Jamie has also not been paying for the subscription for a few months, and now refuses to do anything with the items. Rowan tried contacting the subscription company for their advice, but as expected they cannot do anything without owner's instruction. They can only make a report. But god knows how long and what action they'd take.

Now, Rowan is stuck because he cannot leave the item in the unit. End of rental is coming up and well Rowan can be an asshole and just leave but they may have to sacrifice the security deposits for leaving items in the unit ie "cleaning fee"i guess

Solution:

  1. be an asshole and leave the items, but sacrifice rental deposit
  2. find someone to transfer item name but this would take a while, and not sure if next tenant wants to take over
  3. be an asshole again and dispose off the items themselves, but pay disposal fee
  4. Ask landlord if can leave the items at the unit first while finding for solution, but god knows when a new tenant may come, and whether Jamie would solve it by then, so this is pretty much a temporary solution.
  5. any other solutions please?
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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 2 months ago

Did Taylor and Travis marry a day before (3rd July) Ed and Cherry's anniversary(4th July) on purpose??

Do you guys think she chose that date on purpose or was it just a coincidence?

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 2 months ago

Can someone please tell me why is the universe giving me so many hardships all at once? And how do i overcome?

I have grown up relatively protected by my parents, they provided me with a lot of material and financial needs. We're not rich but we're comfortable. I didn't "struggle"/"suffer" much in my life.

Until now when i try to be more independent and have my own thoughts and patterns that is apart from my parents(they don't really have a good and positive mindset), i try to do things that i feel right and things that i want, rather than following them just because, things seem to be falling apart.

I have also grown up among a circle of friends who are "safe", (work a stable job, start a family blah blah blah. It doesnt being me genuine happiness), and a few years back, i know a friend (lets just nickname them Taylor) who is rather outside of societal patterns, who thought me about positivity and gratefulness and open up my eyes towards a whole other side of the world, which is not just negativity and comfort.

And as i am learning such ways, i find that things are being taken away from me, material and financial aspects i would say. And it all seems to be directly or indirectly related to Taylor. As in, because of Taylor, i lost this this this. Taylor's life was not a smooth sailing journey, it is actually a complete opposite of mine, i find that they have a rather "bad luck" along with their family. So maybe that is what gives them a positive outlook? Idk.

But anyways, after knowing Taylor, i find that my life did a complete turn, from a comfortable life, financial and material wise, to quite an uncomfortable one. However, mindset wise, i seem to be learning to be stronger.

(Please don't tell me things like I have to break the friendship with Taylor, i'd like to still learn and go through this and keeping this person in my life. )

I want to know is this the universe giving me a lesson? Why? And what should i do or learn from this lesson and how should i overcome it and be stronger?

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 2 months ago

What does "Tong-Tong" mean on Cadbury packaging?

Someone please tell me what is "Yang tong-tong je" on this cadbury packaging, let me have a good sleep tonight please

u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 2 months ago

What are general gifts that men would like no matter what?

Buying gifts for ladies are much easier imo, idk mayeb its because im a women. But i can buy anything general such as flowers, cute decorations, etc and even if they don't like it, they can just keep aside as keepsake and memory

But with guys, a lot of recommendations are things that people use in daily life eg, wallet, headphones etc which for the user, they would have their own likings/requirements/preferences. If the user doesn't like it or find it inconvenient for daily use, i feel like it's just a "waste", like a wallet just laying in a box not using for years. (I wouldn't mind a cute deco laying in a box but an expensive wallet or headphones not being used?!? damn. it hurts my heart and pocket lol)
For me, if someone gifted me a cute vase i still can put it on my table, but if someone gifted me a pair of earphones which do not fit my ears or i do not like the sound, i wouldn't even use for everyday you know.

Yea I know they all say its the thought that matters, as long as its something they would appreciate it. But stilllll

For guys, is there any GENERAL gifts that guys would sure like no matter what it is, no individual preferences whatsover? Such as flowers for girls.

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 2 months ago

Telling myself not to listen to my thoughts is like telling a kid not to listen to their mother

You grow up believeing your thoughts like they are yours, such as a kid growing up and everything mother does is great and right. And now after all the years you're being told to not listen to that voice and it's not "yours", such as telling a kid your mother is toxic you cannot do as what she says anymore. It's honestly so hard.

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u/One_Chocolate_9365 — 2 months ago