Kylie has a cursed bloodline and she will never have Jordyn's youthful magic. Evil wicked longbottom witch! Don't try to feed her your apple.
He seems perfect but his primary goal seems to be sex but should I go alone with it and hope he does want to date long-term?
So far, it seems like men at 40 and above see ME purely for sex and easy to manipulate.
I don't see them as a gold digging opportunity, quite the opposite.
I had the idea older men would be emotionally stable and calm and zero drama, but they employ subtle manipulation tactics. I've been using dating apps in the US (West coast) and this has been my personal experience.
They know it'd be socially awkward or a faux pas to actually date a woman my age, and plus I'm trans. So even though I pass and everything and am a woman in every sense, they only talk to me if they want a hookup or someone they can control, but never a real relationship and they never have the intention of marriage.
But then men younger than 40, I have preconceived notions about too. Because they are still trying to get it all out of their system if they haven't settled down yet. And then men my age have way less maturity and life experience than me. I guess I need to stop dating
To me, it seems like men at 40 and above see ME purely for sex and easy to manipulate.
I don't see them as a gold digging opportunity, quite the opposite.
I had the idea older men would be emotionally stable and calm and zero drama, but they employ subtle manipulation tactics. I've been using dating apps in the US (West coast) and this has been my personal experience.
They know it'd be socially a faux pas to actually date a woman my age, so therefore they only talk to me if they want a hookup or someone they can control, but never a real relationship and they never have the intention of marriage.
But then men younger than 40, I have preconceived notions about too. Because they are still trying to get it all out of their system if they haven't settled down yet. And then men my age have way less maturity and life experience than me. I guess I need to stop dating
It seems like men at 40 and above see ME purely for sex and easy to manipulate.
I don't see them as a gold digging opportunity, quite the opposite.
I had the idea older men would be emotionally stable and calm and zero drama, but they employ subtle manipulation tactics. I've been using dating apps in the US (West coast) and this has been my personal experience.
They know it'd be socially to actually date a woman my age, so therefore they only talk to me if they want a hookup or someone they can control, but never a real relationship and they never have the intention of marriage.
But then men younger than 40, I have preconceived notions about too. Because they are still trying to get it all out of their system if they haven't settled down yet. And then men my age have way less maturity and life experience than me. I guess I need to stop dating
This guy (40M) was seeming great, he's super smart and funny and an enineer and has a farm. We video chatted a bit.
I texted him two hours before our date and clarified, I don't engage in any physically intimacy until I'm in a relationship, not even kissing.
His response was:
Yes, as one would assume
It felt like he was doing pick up artistry negging on me? That felt like negging even if not about my appearance
I told him I would have appreciated a positive or neutral response, but the rhetoric he used was almost hostile.
He also switched up the date plans two or three times <24 hours til showtime, which felt like a way to neg my expectations and he wanted to see how low effort he could be
I just simply told him he made me nervous over Bumble and then he proved why I should be as he tried to guilt me to go on a date because ehe had to drive an hour each way in traffic and was on his way (and used the traffic excuse to explain his prior verbiage). I think he was lying about being in traffic.
Finally, he did the unmatching himself. I just stopped replying. I won't be manipulated anymore in my 20s.
I was planning to introduce myself
Do you think LifeTime in Beaverton is worth it for someone who works out daily? Thanks!
I'm sure others have said something similar but I'm new to this sub and wanted to vent. Timmy squandered so much and so much legacy by touching Long bottom.
Basically how to delay sex
I'm post op and it looks natural but I think he'd end up noticing the thin scars and the tightness and need for lube
It's fun to flirt but apart of me beneath this feels like he's purely sexually motivated and it could become cohersive or sexually aggressive. Thoughts please?
I didn't really know they were Armenian at first, but once I learned I was so amazed at how they were able to be the standard of beauty and no one pushed back. I didn't experience that when I was younger
Because growing up as someone who is West Asian on the west coast of US, I experienced so much racism and people tried to convince me I was inherently ugly and lesser
How do I approach a guy that I've been making eye contact with for six months? And then tell him over text I'm trans? I really don't think it'd be dangerous but like. How are the girls chatting up and disclosing a guy you'll see again? Is my only option to wait for him to approach some day?
And socialized as female
I know this post might get hate or I might get accused of ragebaiting. But it's my truth
I need Trazadone terribly bad for this weekend but I don't have any. Just magnesium and melatonin on the way. Should I go to urgent care and ask for Trazadone? I am getting another roommate today too and the wall between our rooms is paper thin. I know I'm going to be miserable and since I've moved in six months ago I've had terribly poor sleep from the constant nocturnal schedule I'm subjected to. It makes me feel like I'm going to be triggered into mania. I should have started Trazadone a long time ago
I cannot do an hour on the stairmaster at the moment (15 to 25 minutes max) which is a huge let down and I have to nap on my lunch break at work again which I haven't had to do since I started stimulants a year ago. But I am able to get up and function mostly and I thought I'd be dead and in a bipolar depression by stopping Vyvanse cold turkey
I was not tuned in during this period and missed so much . She really set a president by being so diabolical and not considering the weight of her cascading carelessness
Big words big words but /genuinely