I recently have discovered I love this color on me, where can I find more of it?

The first is a bodysuit from CXIX that I loooove in blue satin

The second is a thrift find that I love and adore.

These are the only 2 pieces I have in my closet in this color and I love neons and bright colors in general, but I want more of it! Are there any brands that have dresses in these colors? My birthday is coming up and I want to find a halter dress, the closest I can find is powder blue but it looks a little too faded for what I am looking for. Any tips? TIA

u/apathyisfortheweak — 1 day ago

The most beautiful relationship in this show is between Rue and Ali

This show touches on so many themes and I think friendship is what kept me going with this last season. I just wanted to say that with all of the different people in this web, the people who really hold it down for each other, is RUE AND ALI FOR ME.

The way he showed her love at her lowest, never judging her, wanting her to find peace within time and time again. He did not let her life end in vain and as much as I am pro-drugs, I do think people who contaminate the drug supply are scum of the earth. BYE BYE ALAMO NASTY AHH HO. The best written parts were between these two. Truly most realistic relationship hands down goes to Rue and Ali.

I am heartbroken by the ending of this show, I knew it was leading up to that, but still super hard to watch.

Please never use alone and test your drugs ✨💗✨

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u/apathyisfortheweak — 1 day ago

[ROUTINE HELP] Does anyone know where I can find an equivalent to this?

I got in this in Thailand but it is not available in US. This had become one of my favorite cleansers and lines, the moisturizer was also amazing! I love the gelly to foam consistency and it has helped my skin barrier so much, it is incredibly hydrating.

Please help!! I provided the ingredients list because maybe that’s how finding dupes work? TIA

u/apathyisfortheweak — 1 day ago

Floridarama in St. Petersburg is full of whimsy

These are two very small snippets of what I saw at Floridarama! It was one of my favorite art installation curations I have ever seen and I just wanted to share my excitement this gave my spirit. If you ever have a reason to be in that part of Florida, make sure to go!! I think I liked it more than meowolf, not sure if it’s because I am Floridian so the art resonates with my ocean loving aura but I really recommend for any whimsy loving friks ✨

u/apathyisfortheweak — 7 days ago

advice from glasses AND contact wearers!

i am going to the dr’s today to update my prescription! i am a longtime glasses wearer (over 25 yrs) and started using contacts last year.

i honestly prefer the contacts over glasses but for daily wear and casually around the house i will always choose glasses. i have $130 credit with my insurance and wondering if i should use that to get new contacts or new glasses?

i don’t think my prescription has changed but i also do find my current glasses very annoying and have been using them less, they rub on my cheeks and leave oil marks and i should have gotten a cat eye like i usually do but wanted something different. i’m not in a position to ball out on glasses tho, they tend to cost an extra $100-150 when i add the transitions and anti-reflection, which is a must for me at this age.

i do find contacts to be expensive too and do prefer them these days, they don’t smudge and they never give me tension headaches unless if i have worn them for over 8+ hrs.

any advice? thanks so much!!

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u/apathyisfortheweak — 12 days ago

Not a perfume, but a smell I am seeking!

I used to use this as a deodorant for about a year and a half, I looooove the way it smells and I love how it smells so distinct on whoever puts it on. However, after about a year of using it, I started having an allergic reaction to it. I took breaks from using it and every time I returned to it, the rash would come back and almost immediately.

I want something like this but don’t really know what the “secret” ingredients are to find this. The sandalwood roll ons are cute but not as complex as this, this scent changes as the day goes on and is so so lovely.

Perfume deodorant: Scent of Samadhi

u/apathyisfortheweak — 13 days ago

IIL holy by jamila woods, what would you recommend?

hi hi! i NEED more songs like this in my life, and radios on spotify and last.fm give me erykah badu and d’angelo, yep yep i love these legends but i need some jamila woods lyrically inspired artists in my life

TIA

u/apathyisfortheweak — 14 days ago

please help me with my makeup

i just got this eyeshadow palette from adriana nicole eyeshadow palette and don’t think i am doing it right. any tips?

  • ilia tinted spf
  • laura mercier green powder for redness (having an active flareup yayyy)
  • sacheau coral lip stain
  • mac lipstick (it was a gift so idk the color)
  • nicole miller’s i am everything palette for the eyes
  • nyx jumbo white eyeliner on top lid line
  • nyx eyeliner black in bottom lid line
  • blue mascara from a beauty supply store
u/apathyisfortheweak — 15 days ago

what could i do better? i want to up my game

current routine and go to:

- k beauty blush/lip combo that i mainly use for blush and is a perfect red (got at tj maxx long ago idk the brand but it is in a star container)

- ilia spf as foundation

- laura mercier green powder for redness (having an active flareup on my period :,) )

- sacheau coral lip liner as a base

- mac lipstick (it was a gift so idk the color)

- nicole miller’s i am everything palette

- nyx jumbo white eyeliner on top lid line

- nyx eyeliner black in bottom lid line

- blue mascara from a beauty store

hehe okay that’s everything and i used sunscreen underneath before applying makeup. i have a lot of texture from my acne scars so my makeup never sits right but one day i will bbl that away!

u/apathyisfortheweak — 16 days ago

is slay the bay for st pete pride worth it?

i have never been and just want to know if this festival is worth going to? will i be filled with FOMO if i don’t go?

sorry, mods! i am more curious about this and would love to hear from people who have been! i have gone to st pete pride for many years but am now old enough and wondering if i would be sad if i missed it

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u/apathyisfortheweak — 18 days ago

moved back in with my parents so on a hiatus

hey community of lovely, beautiful angels!

i will probably be living with my parents for the next 3-6 months as i figure out my next move and wondering what i could be doing to keep my strength and condition for when i move back to a big city? i am living in a rural area currently so i have no studios nearby to practice

i have about 2.5 yrs of experience and was at a level 6 at my studio, basically was at the level of doing ayeshas and butterfly and i really don’t want to lose all the strength i cultivated in that time. any advice is welcome on conditioning i can be doing! i am currently running and stretching since i don’t even live near a gym 🥲

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u/apathyisfortheweak — 18 days ago

going thru a breakup and want more songs like Holy - Jamila Woods

hi hi! like the title said, looking for songs with similar meaning and message but also feels good to sing because it’s not sad or melancholic

me, myself, and i is cute but too focused on the hurt. i want something that reminds me i am enough and to belch too while on my lonely drives

ty very mucho

open to most genres, but it has to be melodious and gospel is fine as long as it’s not too jesus focused

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u/apathyisfortheweak — 19 days ago

who is my twin

i get told i look like somebody else all the time, celebrities and non-celebrities 😭 and i remind people of famous gay men way more than i would think but real recognize real

u/apathyisfortheweak — 19 days ago

Does anybody who once had a strawberry nose have a success story?

i have had a strawberry nose my entire life with little hairs that grow on it and it’s definitely not blackheads, just sebum yay!! i started having acne at a young age and had to recover my skincare and am still seeking moisture after the 2-3 years of brutality i put my skin thru (benzonyl peroxide, proactiv, etc).

i would love some hope that it is possible! i know my pores will never shrink but i really do want them to, any tips or success stories?

i am considering co2 laser but not sure if that would actually be helpful and am in the us of hay where everything costs a trillion dollaz

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u/apathyisfortheweak — 22 days ago

$50k in student loans and on job hunt in public health

Hello,

I am wondering if anyone has advice for how to pay off loans while in a low-paying job in public health.

I do not think PSLF will apply to me, I work for a non-profit but my contract has changed twice since being with this institution. I am trying to pivot into a field where I can make more money to pay them off.

I am currently in deferment, but want to create a game plan for when that ends in November. Hopefully by then I will have found a job that pays more. I cannot afford to pay off the loans while living in a high COL.

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u/apathyisfortheweak — 24 days ago
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Where to take adult dance classes in Homestead?

I will be staying near Baptist Health for a week next week and want to take a heels dance class! Does that exist that far south? I know it’s a stretch for those living in Miami but I can’t find much online and honestly don’t want to drive an hour for an hour class.

Thanks in advance!

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u/apathyisfortheweak — 27 days ago
▲ 277 r/curlyhair

normally not a fan of day 1 hair, but they did their thing today!!

i have been struggling with hard water recently so have been doing flax seed gel and mixing with rosemary oil as a detangler and leaving it in for a day and am obsessed with this day 1 hair! i tend to prefer day 2-3 because of the volume

routine this wash:

  • ungoop malibu shampoo (haven’t clarified in over a month)
  • mielle rice milk treatment as conditioner
  • innersense gel (not a fan but today she did me good)
  • mane magic serum from tj maxx
  • chi heat protection
  • after diffusing: cecred nourishing oil
u/apathyisfortheweak — 27 days ago