Men, is opening up to Women actually that bad?

Like legit whenever this topic comes out as a Meme or Reddit post, everyone, without a single exception, hundreds of people in comments say the same thing. I've seen so, so many of it. It always ends terribly.

And it's fucking shocking what I read constantly. Usually the experiences are pretty similar and related to dead parents or pets, probably because that's when men show vulnerability in general. And all are the same. Women ask men to open up, they open up, women get absolutely disgusted, even if the reason is the men's dead mom. And then they use some of your shared stuff against you.

And many always write ''I fell for this many times with different women, wish I learned it earlier, never open up to women'' and then hundreds of replies on this single comment alone are agreed so much by other men.

This can't be this bad right? This shit makes me to not want a partner and I don't want to think like this.

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u/QualityForsaken8192 — 4 days ago
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Do you constantly rewind Movies or Shows while watching?

This drives me insane because even when I'm watching a show I want I'm interested in, my mind just skips some of the dialogues which are important in future episodes. Then I don't understand what's happening at all, and have to rewind all over again.

It's honestly so tiring cause I can't enjoy anything at fullest. Constant rewinding.

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u/QualityForsaken8192 — 4 days ago

I hate that I can't change name on Reddit

At least make it changeable by collecting some amount of Karma or something if it's so hard.

I mean you basically name yourself once and you're stuck with it forever on this app. Not that it's too important for many but there are moments when some including me really really need it and there's no way to do it.

It should be possible considering how basic of a function it is. And btw, I named my first account SingleVirgin4Ever at 15 due to low confidence and I couldn't change it after getting more mature. Like no way I'd keep using that accont.

u/QualityForsaken8192 — 11 days ago

Am I dumb? I don't understand text animation.

So let's say I want different words to appear at different time in single layer. I watched Youtube videos, tried it and I still don't understand.

It's extremely confusing and honestly I don't fully understand at what am I looking. I thought I just put keyframes at where I want to start and finish the animation, but it doesn't do shit.

I don't want complicated animation but just the words to appear at different seconds instantly without slow transition. I'm so confused.

u/QualityForsaken8192 — 12 days ago

I can't access ADHD meds and it might kill me

My ADHD is severe and destroys me not only mentally but physically as well. Everything gets worse, I haven't won a single time. I'm suicidal, I just want to end this, I would if it were not for my parents and brother who I can't just leave like this. I wish I could. I would end this right here and right now. I have so many ideas I probably will never flesh out, I never do.

I don't know what to do. Meds are banned, I can't bring it from other country, I can't live in the other country. Pattern just repeats and I constantly fuck up. What now? There are some other non ADHD exclusive meds for depression that mildly help ADHD but only mildly.

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u/QualityForsaken8192 — 1 month ago

What is the most probable damage a baby might develop in womb due to mother smoking?

Let's say moderate to constant smoking. How common is it for a child to develop some condition, physical or mental?

I have severe ADHD and Social anxiety. My mom 100% has ADHD too so I might inherited it genetically but she's an insane smoke addict and while she told me she smoked only few on pregnant I'm sure she smoked a lot.

I just have very severe ADHD and wondered if it could’ve worsened it.

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u/QualityForsaken8192 — 1 month ago

Endless dopamine hunger from ADHD

I constantly need stimuli. Food, coffee, video game, music, scrolling, m*sturbation. I do them unhealthy amount of times every day. My brain is never satisfied no matter how much dopamine I consume. It's never enough to keep me focused on a single task.

I know I posted similar rent hours ago but this time I'm asking specifically for advice. Maybe my ADHD is extremely severe of it's not ADHD. I really need help.

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u/QualityForsaken8192 — 1 month ago

''Obsession'' idea: Unintelligent character wishes to be smartest in the world. Backfires terribly.

What if we had a main character in mid 20-30s with borderline intellectual problems resulting in bulling, bad job, social problems and low self-esteem. Gets access to ''One Wish Willow'' and wishes to be the smartest person alive. Main concept is, his intelligence evolves over time, so much that later it backfire at him, or others.

At first everything goes well. Gets a nice job, social life, their family is surprised. Slowly, over time main character gets more successful and resourceful. At one point they get so smart and brain experiences so many changes in short amount of time that main character's world view changes and get extremely unstable.

They try to use their new resources to ''fix'' entire world based on their new views but over time they would too detached from people and end up ruining their life. They would miss their old self with lesser knowledge.

After learning that wish can not be refunded we get impression that they will end their life, instead they start researching and learning more about ''One Wish Willow'' company and their goal would be to find them and stop producing the product, since they are smart enough to. That would be the ending.

u/QualityForsaken8192 — 1 month ago

ADHD destroys me physically

I'm basically an addict. Always dopamine deficient, nothing is ever enough.

Any time I try force myself to FINISH A TASK my mind asks for stimuli and in middle of doing something I search for dopamine. Even now by writing this I'm doing the same. As result I drink 3-5 cups of coffee a day, m*sturbate many times OR instead play many matches of game thinking one time will be enough, but end up spending hours on them and never reach satisfaction. Also I ALWAYS listen to insane amount of music, even just now. Anything to avoid tasks.

I avoid physical activities. My scoliosis got worse, lordosis got worse, I can't skincare. My body is weak and I'm easily tired. Mentally too, especially mentally.

I just tried to force myself to draw and hated it. I realized I can't just hack my brain into producing dopamine. I'm suicidal. I started doing many pushups and started eating well but it still doesn't help me. I'm so tired.

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u/QualityForsaken8192 — 1 month ago
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Homelander should've lost powers in S3 pretending to have them in S4

Imagine at the end of S3 Soldier Boy and Butcher did manage to depower Homelander, Ryan get's in a way of Butcher so HL managed to live but no longer seen as a major threat.

Important people at Vought would get aware of Homelander losing powers but they wouldn't afford losing their most marketed Supe and face of Vought and Superheroes as losing Homelander would be terrible business plan for them.

So what they would do is to convince HL wear his costume for some time and make him pretend that he still has powers while they would somehow try to restore his powers. But in reality they would secretly be trying to win time to find an appropriate replacement for Homelander, which could be Soldier Boy. It would be only a matter of time till they got rid of HL.

Meanwhile Homelander, a clown, is pissing himself and trying to pretend as all powerful in front of other Supes. Deep an idiot obviously still worships him and Homelander tries to make excuses of why he's not using powers.

Off-screen we'd witness funny scenes of Homelander's experience as regular human and how he deals with the problems without powers. He'd feel extremely pathetic and be furious but at the same time it would be cool if he found secret hobbies over time which he started to enjoy. He’d explore his human side. But later he'd learn Vought is trying to replace him.

Since Deep is a fucking idiot he'd manipulate and use him somehow against Vought's plans. Maybe Vought would try to inject new Compound to empower/buff Soldier Boy instead of returning powers to HL with it. With help of Deep HL would get the Compound and get his powers back at the end of S4.

He'd be back in the game and brutally slaughter everyone who tried to get rid of him and he'd be even less patient from now on.

u/QualityForsaken8192 — 1 month ago

Technically speaking could Tung Tung Tung Sahur exist in Backrooms as someone's replica from real world?

Like Backrooms as I understood replicates a person around his traumas or something right? I'm new to this. Like Pirate is a poor copy of main character from the movie.

So like could triple T be thing in Backrooms as someone's copy who has a past related with being bullied and beaten by bats? And triple T to be replica of that person's trauma and fear.

Just like that guy from movie who's attached to the wheelchair with light.

u/QualityForsaken8192 — 1 month ago

Imagine if Beast Titan was actually a smart Titan and story progressed in that direction

Imagine Beast Titan was revealed as actual talking, intelligent Titan as we first thought. What if it was revealed that there's a small minority of smart Titan's like him and turns out they had their own society and civilization thousands of years ago but humanity has doomed them.

Evolved into brainless creatures and are slowly fading away. And there's a very few left out who are still capable and trying to restore their civilization. And one of them is Beast.

We also learned that Berthold and Reiner were sent soldiers on a mission and are Titan Shifters. So, hear me out, what if later they were revealed to be Titans SHIFTED into humans and not the other way around. What if they were Titans like Beast Titan disguised as humans to find and capture Eren.

And why would they need Eren for? Because Eren could be a middle ground between Humans and Titans and a key to restore their civilization of Titan's. Eren's father could also be a Titan disguised, shifted into human and purposely breeding with human to create a first ever Hybrid to accomplish the mission. Kind of like Mark in Invincible is a hybrid of Viltrumite and a human.

So imagine they captured Eren just like in original story and they'd try to convince him to join them and help them restore their civilization. Maybe by sacrificing himself to important source. Obviously Eren would be in denial but they could reveal the truth about their history with humans. Eren's entire ideals and beliefs would be crushed and he would be broken, in existential crisis.

Which could lead to the similar character development we got in S4. Eren could go nuts and decide that both Titans and Humans are natural defects that should be erased and only way out of endless conflict and suffering. He would still go for a genocide.

u/QualityForsaken8192 — 1 month ago

Rant: I really want to have sex

I'm M20 and I'm absolutely inexperienced with women in every metric. Even kissing and stuff. Being a virgin currently wasn't much of a worry for me nor I had an intense urges. I always wanted to lose virginity with a girlfriend if anything, but current situation doesn't indicate that I'll have a girlfriend any time soon, so now my mind focuses on losing virginity outside of having gf in general.

And my urges suddenly rise up. Thing is that I don't know how to manage it. Where do I even meet a girl for that? How do I hook up with anyone? I don't go to Uni, clubs, or any social event. Even if I did I'm too socially anxious and nervous.

Like I want first time to be with a girlfriend but if not then as alternative a girl who I at least kind of know a little and I want the fun to be long term with ONE girl not just with random for one night. I like the idea of knowing someone for sex even if romance is not involved.

Aside from having intense social anxiety, physically speaking I'm pretty handsome and I don't have major problems with body, or you know, down there. And I do think I can probably attract a women in that way but I just don't know how or where. I barely go outside or can talk with people.

How do people even hook up? At least if you romantically like a girl you can ask for number or Insta but what if your intentions are sexual? Where or how you even find an appropriate situation for this?

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u/QualityForsaken8192 — 1 month ago

Would you watch an alternate version of AoT where Beast Titan is actual Titan and lore to progress around it?

Imagine if Beast Titan would turned out to be an actual Titan as we first thought instead of human Titan shifter like Eren and Titans lore would progress around it. Hypothetically, would you be interested to see that alternative? Like it would be an absolutely different direction of story.

If I recall correctly Bertholdt and Reiner were revealed to be sent soldiers on mission before Beast Titan's reveal. What if these two would originally be Titans as well being able to transform into humans? Like they would be Titans disguised as humans, not the other way around. Creating an interesting perspective and lore potential for Titans and they could have a specific goal.

u/QualityForsaken8192 — 1 month ago
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People with overly severe ADHD, are your experiences different?

Like from other ADHD'ers?

My severity wasn't officially stated by doc but from experience I consider it to be severe. What I noticed is the hyperactivity is my default state, so much that it looks almost like manic episode of Bipolar except I'm like this 90% of times. My average movement is quirky in a way and I often move by dancing, singing, jumping, I don't know, anything. It causes many problems and I get a lot of sh*t for it, as a guy.

My memory is INCREDIBLY bad.

My inattentive part is not just or a momentum but I don't comprehend 95% words from stories of my friends and I never successfully listened to a single lecture in class fully. Ever. Long-term this affected in poor vocabulary.

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u/QualityForsaken8192 — 2 months ago

I hate how social media keeps explaining what ADHD is.

Every time I scroll I get one of those occasional ''This is why your ADHD is a superpower'' ''ADHD is not being lazy it's a lack of motivation'' and 10 minute lectures about ADHD.

Like brother we fucking know. You are telling us this for 5 years. Everyone knows what ADHD is now, and no the fuck it's not a superpower. I'm saying this as someone with severe ADHD.

Shits so annoying, I know what ADHD is, you know it, everyone knows. Some student learned the term dopamine from google 5 minutes ago explain it like they discovered it. I'd understand if the disorder was unknown or newly discovered, but everyone knows what it is.

It cringes me out how 90% of people obsessing over making those videos have nothing to do with ADHD nor it's comments and likes. Who is it even for? or why? There are like 1,000 people saying the same thing, we know it's a dopamine imbalance. but it's getting waaay too much attention for it's own good.

Why? because the term ADHD is now proclaimed by many undiagnosed neurotypicals and call themselves as ADHD for attention. So often that people with actual ADHD now can't be open about the condition because everyone assumes they are begging for attention too. Like I legit can't say I have ADHD my friends think I'm self diagnosing.

u/QualityForsaken8192 — 2 months ago

Power difference between Thragg and other Viltrumites shouldn't be this big.

Writing wise. Like it's so stupidly, untastefully bad decision. His source of power is just stupid. It'd be cool if Thragg's most powers would be displayed by incredible skill rather than pure brute force or durability. Most of the time he moves less than average Viltrumite but just does far more damage. It's boring. Imagine he had an incredible reflexes, coordination, etc.

It's like when in Bleach they give characters a cool swords but instead they make them shoot blasts out of the swords from range while staying still instead of having a sword fight. Characters don't display a fraction of skill.

Even if Thragg did display more skill than incredible stats he still needs to be nerfed for some believability. Like if in comparison average Viltrumite is a 2, Nolan & Conquest are 6, and Thragg is a 20, it should be 6 for average Viltrumite, 8 for Nolan and Conq, and 9-9.5 for Thragg imo.

u/QualityForsaken8192 — 2 months ago

I hate unreasonable hate many celebrities get.

I'm a guy and I myself don't like any of these musicians/actors except I'm cool with Zendaya. And let me clarify. You're allowed to dislike, or even HEAVILY dislike their works, but why in the fucking world people call them ugly and cyberbully them with the other unrelated things that have nothing to do with their career?

  1. Like I never even listened to Taylor and even if she's extremely overrated why would you pretend she's ugly lmao, even if she is, let's say she really is, why you have to need to mention this 1000 times? Literally every other guy has the need to say Zendaya and Taylor are ugly ''4/10''. Then people also make fun of celebrities for doing plastic surgeries hah. You two faced peace of shits. It's not even that it's their personal opinion, they try as hard as possible to reach it out to celebs. Commenting and posting on platforms publicly.
  2. I understand why people hate Bella, but it's extremely unjustified. Directors chose her for a role, and you hate her for it. She can't fucking change her facial structure you deep shit. Is she a bad choice for a role? fuck yea, but blame the ones who casted her, not her. This is such a basic level critical thinking. People don't even consider what a person can go thro, imagine half a planet judges your looks and not just on the internet.
  3. I don't know shit about BTS but people shit on them since of their existence without rational reason. I didn't listen to them but let's say they're objectively bad band, people don't hate them for being ''bad'' band, You know what I mean? Like they hate their existence as a whole more than they would hate Hitler as if they threaten their personal lives and families. Like you chose to pay attention to them bro. They would literally slaughter this band in slow suffering with 1 button if they could just out of pure hatred.

And the worst one - young Justin Bieber. You fucking bastards. Even right before he did weird shit (for the reasons we currently learned about, SA) you fucked him up hard for no good reason. Bohoo he made a 1 cringe song, and you decide to bully absolute shit out him, when he was a kid. Only now after we learned about his SA you feel bad about it but you keep doing the same thing to other celebrities. You don't learn shit, you don't care.

Even now, just look how same people in this same thread will justify shitting on these people, absolute fucking evil shit. I might be slightly wrong about any of these and you will ignore stuff you're wrong about. Fuck society I swear.

u/QualityForsaken8192 — 2 months ago

I hate how people fall for Apple's marketing

Apple somewhere in early-mid 2010's: ''Ah yes our phone became an icon in society and now we can put minimal money and less resources into newer models and people will still buy them for more price than the previous models despite them being almost the same because of prestige''.

''And people won't even care much about specs they will only care about the last iPhone model number! I mean... Look at that tasty, juicy, new iPhone *insert number*, they don't even realize the latest number of phone gives an illusion of superior quality. They will see a whole commercial and only thing that will enter their minds is the number ''17''. ''

''People use our phone more as social status than actual functional phone, so yeah they'll buy it anyways regardless of fewer new features, James put the high prices.''

*Once in decade* ''Oh shit our sales are going down, plan B guys, this time we actually make a decent phone worth a money, get attention, sales will go up again, then our long-term strategy remains same and we lower the resources again for future, repeat.''

Companies like this, not just apple, have a whole fucking marketing team also team focusing on how human's dopamine receptors work to make people addicted and fall for this shit and even if people realized it the phones would still be sold highly because addiction. Fuck companies like this.

u/QualityForsaken8192 — 2 months ago

How good was the first 3 seasons of ''The Boys'' compared to 8.5-9/10 great shows? [Give Reasons]

If Breaking bad, Sopranos, Wire, GoT are Top tier 9-9.5/10 masterpieces...

I personally would put The Boys first 3 seasons 1-2 tier below them next to 8.5 great shows which would be around Mr Robot and Peaky blinders.

Like it was actually really good back then man, such a creative and unique concept and world building was thought out well too. Homelander was just so fucking intimidating and fun. Shit was actually unpredictable and realistic in a way. Acting and characters were so goood. It's a shame they didn't kept the quality.

It was NEVER flawless but it was like... still good. Above just good for sure. Finished The boys is like, above average B or B+ entertaining show but back then it was extremely good A+ in my opinion.

u/QualityForsaken8192 — 2 months ago