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I know this might be a stupid question but ...

I get thoughts especially while I'm on NoFap of "why am I doing this nofap, life is short and "Yolo", why not enjoy what porn has to offer and why not jerk off because it feels good"?

It's trying to fight my nofap goals...

What do you have to say against these thoughts when they come up?

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u/TheAlphaAdept — 20 hours ago

I have a mindset where nothing is ever enough and I want more..and more..and more..and perfection, what do I do?

I have a mindset where nothing is ever enough and I want more..and more..and more..and perfection

I don't know how to fix this mindset or if it even needs fixing.

It's like this, I may decorate a room but I'm never satisfied because I feel I could do more with it, and get more and more etc. And can't be content or satisfied with how it looks.

Or I could see myself in the mirror and pick out every little flaw and want to change it, and can't be content or satisfied with myself.

What do I do? Is this a good mindset because I'm constantly striving for perfection? Or is it not? And how do I fix this?

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u/TheAlphaAdept — 1 day ago

I have a mindset where nothing is ever enough and I want more..and more..and more..and perfection

I have a mindset where nothing is ever enough and I want more..and more..and more..and perfection

I don't know how to fix this mindset or if it even needs fixing.

It's like this, I may decorate a room but I'm never satisfied because I feel I could do more with it, and get more and more etc. And can't be content or satisfied with how it looks.

Or I could see myself in the mirror and pick out every little flaw and want to change it, and can't be content or satisfied with myself.

What do I do? Is this a good mindset because I'm constantly striving for perfection? Or is it not? And how do I fix this?

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u/TheAlphaAdept — 1 day ago
▲ 8 r/perfectionism+1 crossposts

I have a mindset where nothing is ever enough and I want more..and more..and more..and perfection

I don't know how to fix this mindset or if it even needs fixing.

It's like this, I may decorate a room but I'm never satisfied because I feel I could do more with it, and get more and more etc. And can't be content or satisfied with how it looks.

Or I could see myself in the mirror and pick out every little flaw and want to change it, and can't be content or satisfied with myself.

What do I do? Is this a good mindset because I'm constantly striving for perfection? Or is it not? And how do I fix this?

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u/TheAlphaAdept — 1 day ago

Do you wanna be the very best, like no one ever was?

To catch them is your real test, to train them is your cause?

Will you travel across the land searchin' far and wide?

Teach Pokemon to understand the power that's inside?

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u/TheAlphaAdept — 1 day ago

Do you wanna be the very best, like no one ever was?

To catch them is your real test, to train them is your cause?

Will you travel across the land searchin' far and wide?

Teach Pokemon to understand the power that's inside?

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u/TheAlphaAdept — 1 day ago

Can you say that "Self-Improvement" is a hobby?

Can you see self improvement and always trying to be better, as a hobby? Or something you can say when asked what do you do for fun? Like "work out", etc.

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u/TheAlphaAdept — 2 days ago

What should someone who's very indecisive do to stop being that way?

I'm indecisive in a lot of things. Should I do this? Should I eat this or that? Should I go for this job or that? Even simple things like should I pick this decoration or that?

I think it comes from a fear of what if I made the wrong decision... and just an indecisive nature.

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u/TheAlphaAdept — 2 days ago

Lately I've been having a fear of missing out when it comes to sexual experiences

I'm a male in my 30s and lately I've been having thoughts about just using an app to hook up with a stranger for sexual experience mainly for the fear that I'm getting older and don't want to regret it.

But I'm afraid of the potential risks like STDs and the fact that they're a stranger.

I'm a homebody and so I don't have anyone else to do it with and I don't have the desire to make friends and don't know why, just don't feel the necessity or urge to.

Are sexual experiences necessary and will not doing them make you regret? Does everyone do it a lot?

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u/TheAlphaAdept — 3 days ago

Introverted homebody virgin who wants to try sex, but how?

Introverted homebody who's a virgin and never had sex

Hi, I don't go out much, I just stay home all day. I don't have the urge to go out either, except grocery shopping. I don't have friends let alone any sexual partners. I'm a complete virgin. Never kissed someone before.

You might say you need to put yourself out there if you want this to change, but I have no idea where to put myself and have no idea where to go or who to talk to. Where do I even find a friend with benefits? I don't want a relationship, just someone to have fun with from time to time.

I am an introverted homebody who has never experienced anything sexual and so for someone like that what advice can you give?

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u/TheAlphaAdept — 6 days ago

Introverted homebody with no friends and don't know how to lose virginity

Introverted homebody who's a virgin and never had sex.

Hi, I don't go out much, I just stay home all day. I don't have the urge to go out either, except grocery shopping. I don't have friends let alone any sexual partners. I'm a complete virgin. Never kissed someone before.

You might say you need to put yourself out there if you want this to change, but I have no idea where to put myself and have no idea where to go or who to talk to. Where do I even find a friend with benefits? I don't want a relationship, just someone to have fun with from time to time.

I am an introverted homebody who has never experienced anything sexual and so for someone like that what advice can you give?

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u/TheAlphaAdept — 6 days ago

If you work at a job like Amazon where it's physical 40 hours a week (walking nonstop) is it okay to exercise outside of work or is it overdoing it?

Title is question. Just want to make sure it isn't to the point where it's nad for you or unhealthy if you work out outside of a physical job like Amazon. Want some advice please from you fitness experts.

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u/TheAlphaAdept — 11 days ago