u/mariposa933

If someone was acting aloof and didn’t make eye contact when you speak to them would you stop trying to befriend them or talk to them ?

J’ai vu que sur Paris il y’avait des chambres chez les nonnes du coup je me demande si c’est pareil sur Lyon.

Edit: merci pour vos reponses 👍

i have a lot of hair that grows out of my scalp and is still short compared to the rest of my length.
Even when i use a durag it doens’t lie down for long and makes my braids look super messy.

I use a large comb to braid. Will i get a smoother finish if i use a small brush on the roots ?

I remember talking to a guy a few years ago and one of the reason i started loosing interest was because instead of having a normal conversation he would constantly try to find things to ‘help’ me with. ‘I can help you find an appartment’, ‘i can invite you to vacation’(mind you i only talked to him twice), ‘i can help you with this and that’. When i didn’t even need help. He seemed more interested i being of use or helpful in ine way or another than to form a genuine connection or assess compatibility.

It goes beyond dating as even strangers or guys who don’t have an interest in me will find ways to insert themselves in my space when i don’t need to.

I was in another city and when he learned i was visiting, a guy who’s friends with my aunt said ‘she’s gonna visit on her own?’ And gave me his number to visit the city when i didnt’ ask for anything..
Just the other day a woman was with a stroller didn’t struggle to open the door yet 2 guys rushed like puppies to open the door for her.

I also was travelling alone at some point and plenty of guys would insert themselves like carrying my bag umprompted, when i didn’t ask and could do it myself. Or guys who would try to chat me up assuming i was lonely and needed to be integrated. I usually just ignore them or tell them off. But i just noticed how it’s done almost reflexively.
Even guys who claim to be more open minded or don’t subscribe to gender roles

generally whenever i meet a « i’m not like the other girls » girl she a taurus

I found a job last week after 3 months of unemployment. It’s a job at a restaurant until i can find something better. I’m just happy to have found a job and think of what my life will be like in a year from now. I don’t intend of staying there forever but long enough to be out of the red. I have my credit to repay from translation school and my driving license too.
So i need to support myself 💪 i just hope everything goes well and i don’t end up burning out.

I’m gratefuo God answered my prayer since i asked him to find me a job and it happened super quick, a few days later i started working.😳
I’m not against having some prayers my way though so that it keeps going well and i get along with everyone. The hardest part of my job imo is always dealing with people so imma need prayers for this lmao 🙏🏽🤣

I just spent a week at my new job and i dreaded the time where someone would start complaining because i know it contaminates everyone around in the sense it creates negativity.

I had to be paired with someone who can’t stop talking and she started trying to extort gossip from me by asking me who i liked and didn’t like.
I just responded dryly by saying i wasn’t there for people and was working with the same people all the time anyway. It seemed to work as she didnt’ expand on it further even though she needed to b*tch about the manager.

I’m looking to go to Portland to take pics of the landscapes and mostly the forest mountains and country side.
Is it dangerous to go there alone ?

Should i go to a group tour if i want to go hiking there ?

I like having my own peace and not having to deal with someone else’s issues. I already have my own that i’m dealing with in therapy. People are exhausting.

I’m not talking bout people who stay single cause they have no option

Pour rentrer tard le soir

I found a new job and was wondering if it’s better to eat with people or alone.
I try to chat a bit but lunch is generally the only time i can recharge from spending 8h straight with them.

Especially those who use AI for their pp on insta, why not just use a pic of yourself ? Instead of this yassified/autotuned to the max version of yourself ?

do yall think it’s better than the original ?

I was able to find it on amazon