Biologically why is it so much easier for women to fall in love with personality and then physical attraction grows?

I know it's possible to happen with men also but it's probably 10000% times more infrequently. There a lot of women who arr absolutely mad for some guy they didnt find attractive originally. Sorry i don't know where to post this and I'm at the point where I think the answer is that there is something necessary for the genetic wellbeing of offspring or something that prevents men from feeling this as frequently

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u/Pfacejones — 23 hours ago

What hurts more. Being ghosted when you didn't do anything wrong or being ghosted when you know you've done something wrong

I guess if you've never been in Both situations it's hard to guage

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u/Pfacejones — 23 hours ago
▲ 121 r/psych

I will get flamed for this but I don't love Jules and Shawn's chemistry

I liked him better with abigail. Am I off my rockers.

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u/Pfacejones — 24 hours ago
▲ 79 r/buffy

I really can't stand Michelle, Nicholas Brendan and Antony head being gone

It makes a lot of it hard to watch because to me it feels like an extremely tragic and tbh mindnumbingly Random/unexpected collection of deaths, and just one after the other in a quick timespan

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u/Pfacejones — 1 day ago
▲ 162 r/psych

Does anyone think of Shawn and the show anytime they eat these

u/Pfacejones — 1 day ago

Really beautiful in my 20s and early 30s...now sick and no longer attractive..how to cope?

.I do not believe I will be making a recovery from my illness, nor will I believe it will kill me outright, and so i will have to keep living while looking completely different.

My looks have in my estimate plummeted from an 8 to below a 5, no longer benefiting from pretty privilege in any way, and probably lost my shot at any partner I'd want due to my complete squandering any opportunities I had when I was beautiful. I truly thoight id be good looking until i was old. I am only 35 now and to lose all my looks at what I feel is still a young age hurts. know I sound vain and stupid but I was and or am, but there is no place for it now, so I'd like to hear any advice anyone has.

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u/Pfacejones — 2 days ago

If they dont want us at all it's true mental illness and delusion

I used to think I was justified that he secretly loved me. But no its complete psychosis on my end. There needs to be some kind of medication for this like schizophrenia

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u/Pfacejones — 2 days ago
▲ 1 r/BPD

Need advice regarding " We accept the love we think we deserve"

How can we guage correctly whether people are being good to us or not, how can we tell if it's a split or devaluation or if what they're doing is reasonable. Hoa do we deal with the feeling of even knowing it's reasonable still doesn't feel good enough

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u/Pfacejones — 2 days ago

Not getting a text back doesn't bother me' and almost hopeful and relieved it means were never going to speak again?

Witj regards to friends etc does anyone else feel like this

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u/Pfacejones — 3 days ago

Why is cholecalciferol (vitamin D3) used so much more commonly than calcifediol (25-hydroxyvitamin D)?

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If cholecalciferol has to go through several metabolic steps and can be affected by various factors before being converted into calcifediol, why don’t we just take calcifediol directly? Wouldn’t that bypass some of the limitations of D3 and provide a more reliable way to raise vitamin D levels?

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u/Pfacejones — 3 days ago
▲ 102 r/Tintin

Tintin saved me from suicide in my 20s when I had a health crises

I was drowning so much and couldn't interact with reality , fully dissociating , but the tintin books were somehow the only media I could consume . I think there was a cohesive tranquility and enlightened other-worldliness to them, a Just and better world quality, And so in those moments it was a distraction from the constant despair and urge to just end it all.

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u/Pfacejones — 9 days ago

How not to be jealous of friends who show no signs of aging

Perfect plump skin no fine lines or jowliness or sagging despite not doing much for their skin. Pretty sure it's just genetics but how do I not feel jealous

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u/Pfacejones — 9 days ago

Why do people bemoan "feeling behind" in life when the end of the race is death for all of us?

I think I have too much of a truly nothing matters sense - Can someone describe what that feeling feels like because I don't have it despite having no job no accomplishment no relationship etc

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u/Pfacejones — 9 days ago