u/eldritchpussymaggots

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So you are uncomfortable gendering me correctly? How is that different from the average conservative cis person who uses their discomfort as a shield to be transphobic? "I'm uncomfortable referring to a man as a she/her so I'll keep calling you he" is no different from "I'm uncomfortable calling a person an 'it' so I'll call you they instead"

I don't care if you've been called 'it' in a derogatory way. You're not me. I'm me. And I asked you to call me it/its/itself. I've ALSO been called it/its derogatorily, literally since childhood, because I am visibly intersex. The reason I use it/its is as a reclamation. I've been called they, she, and he derogatorily, and I'm still perfectly capable of gendering people correctly.

I have autism and find the game overstimulating already, this fucking weapon is so visually loud and in your face, it's obnoxious and pisses me off much. I love killing clash blaster players because it makes that awful shooting animation stop

I'm a hydra player and I find stringers to be the most annoying. They don't kill me more often than others but when they do it's so annoying. It's like the weapon is designed specifically for ragebaiting. My stupid monkey brain thinks this loser just missed and their stupid little glowing arrows explode and kill me a second later. They don't even do that much damage. It's like being killed by a harassment tool.

I just hate being a girl, I hate looking at my naked body. I've hated it since I was a teenager and now that I'm a woman I feel sick and out of place. I'm not ugly, people call me pretty all the time, I never really imagined myself growing up into a woman so it feels wrong. I hate having periods, I hate wearing women's clothes I hate everything about it. I've started showering in the dark so I don't have to look at myself. I hate my boobs but I hate wearing a bra more. My voice irritates my own ears so I don't speak much.

The comments:

Seriously. Why does everyone want white, beige, or light grey walls. Why is nothing colorful. Why is there no theme. Why does everyone want to "modernize" old houses, why is everything painted white? Why does almost every house built in the last 50 years have a boring ass fucking floor plan? Why is there nothing unique in any of them? WHY ARE THE WALLS ALWAYS WHITE Why us the carpet ALWAYS beige? Why do people enjoy living in houses that look like a horrible bastard child of a Norwegian prison cell and the waiting room at a dental office??

Nobody likes dark greens or dark blues or wood anything, houses with unique features get they removed during remodeling. Why do people want to live in a place that looks exactly like all the other ones??? Same color scheme?? Anything interesting? Nope! That's tacky! Ditch it! Replace it with this chic new grey tile and stark white paint that looks clean and Modern. Your bathroom walls are painted literally any color? Ew! Repaint! Make it white! Your living room has chair rail trim and two-tone wood & blue paint? Rip that off and paint it fucking warm cozy beige. Your sink has a unique faucet with birds or some shit etched into it? Grandmacore, throw it out and get this sink from Lowe's that looks like the one from a kitchen that could be described as "live laugh love", you like living, laughing, and loving, don't you? You have those old glass doorknobs? Weird. Make them normal. You have paintings on your wall that you like? Why? Just put stock images of flowers or a print of marble texture or something normal like a pointless circular mirror.

Live in a normal house. Be normal. Like normal things. Don't you know colors and making your house look lived-in is bad interior design? What if the next buyer thinks it's ugly? What if the property value goes down? What about your home equity what if it gets rented out by the next owner you have to keep your house pristine and inoffensive to the broadest possible audience so you can sell it to the next person because nobody likes anything and you might scare them away did you know that? I'm shoving a toothbrush covered in J-B weld in your mouth and I'm going to tile my living room in magenta and painting my house black with teal and red accents just to feel like I live in a place that doesn't feel like the visual embodiment of buzzing fluorescent office lights and the four-thousanth day in a row of eating exclusively mediocre buttered noodles.

I live in a communal housing situation of 4 working adults. We're a few states away and want to move to NYC (anywhere in the city or nearby & connected to the transit system)

We'd want somewhere with 3 bedrooms (my partner and I would share), or 2 and a basement that'd be used as a 3rd bedroom. I've looked on zillow to see what renting looks like price-wise, and we could reasonably afford that rent currently, it's just slightly higher than what we already pay.

The biggest issue would needing to live without income during the job search period (especially if we need to get an Airbnb bc a lot of places won't rent to people without proof of income). How much money do you think we'd need to support 4 people without income for ~3 months tops while we job & house/apartment hunt?

Extra info: I'm an experienced line cook but will be a certified auto mechanic by the time this rolls around. So I'll be making more than minimum wage

My partner is an animator who will likely have remote work.

My two living partners haven't decided their careers yet so just use minimum wage for the hypothetical for now.

There would also be one (my) car among the four of us, (but it'd no longer be my main mode of transportation when I get there), It'd turn into a project/hobby car and I'd bike & use transit mainly. It's 33 years old and currently my daily, it holds a lot of sentimental value and I won't be giving it up. At least one parking spot somewhat nearby would be necessary.