At what moment did you decide enough was enough and time for change is necessary ?

I can’t believe I’m living my life in autopilot where I’m just living as it is and not really thinking openly about life and future. Rather I’m just living day by day with no effort, no risks but in the back of mind I’m worrying about everything.

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u/Jpoolman25 — 2 days ago

Do people enjoy events or are they too busy recording videos and take photos?

Whether it’s a wedding event or just casual outings on vacations, I see more day by day that people are too busy taking photos and videos and making reels when they are missing the actual moment and enjoying it. They are more stressed taking proper photos and reels just to post on Instagram or social media. At this point do people even wear clothes that they like or is just for the attention and approval of others compliments.

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u/Jpoolman25 — 2 days ago

Why do people feel disconnection with themselves?

I always feel disconnected with myself maybe because I’m not interacting much with others or maybe I’m lacking purpose. But I just feel overwhlemed easily. And I’m confused or lack the commitment to stick wit anything I think about starting. It’s like some double sword feel. You want something but then you don’t wanna do anything to get it.

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u/Jpoolman25 — 4 days ago

Why do people feel disconnection with themselves?

I always feel disconnected with myself maybe because I’m not interacting much with others or maybe I’m lacking purpose. But I just feel overwhlemed easily. And I’m confused or lack the commitment to stick wit anything I think about starting. It’s like some double sword feel. You want something but then you don’t wanna do anything to get it.

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u/Jpoolman25 — 4 days ago

How is it like living in chicago ?

Few common relatives said just move to chicago. You’ll pretty much find everything from job to education only thing that is not great is living cost and the weather. But I still don’t know what to do.

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u/Jpoolman25 — 4 days ago

How does taxes and money work in a society?

When you get paycheck a portion gets taken away because of the taxes but then the gov uses it for public service like building roads, funding public school and stuff. But I don’t understand if the gov is giving money to us then why is it also taking it away.

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u/Jpoolman25 — 6 days ago

What happens when your dumb and unmotivated in life ?

I feel scared seeing older people than me because this fear grows the older I get like most people are renting and don’t own a house. They survive working minimum wage jobs and they became part of the consumerism market or whatever the online world is called. Constantly on their phone being on social media. Then eating fast food always. Giving up when things get hard and complaining about life being unfair to them. As if they are the victims or something. And finically aren’t growing. Their mindsets stays same for years and life just goes by like that. There is no backup savings in life. Even thought most people say live in the now moment but smart people I guess also think about the future too and they seem more disciplined, maybe they focus on career more and finding ways to successed and staying relevant in todays world. Meanwhile some people don’t want to adapt to new changes as technology increases or society in general

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u/Jpoolman25 — 8 days ago

What happens when your dumb and unmotivated in life ?

I feel scared seeing older people than me because this fear grows the older I get like most people are renting and don’t own a house. They survive working minimum wage jobs and they became part of the consumerism market or whatever the online world is called. Constantly on their phone being on social media. Then eating fast food always. Giving up when things get hard and complaining about life being unfair to them. As if they are the victims or something. And finically aren’t growing. Their mindsets stays same for years and life just goes by like that. There is no backup savings in life. Even thought most people say live in the now moment but smart people I guess also think about the future too and they seem more disciplined, maybe they focus on career more and finding ways to successed and staying relevant in todays world. Meanwhile some people don’t want to adapt to new changes as technology increases or society in general

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u/Jpoolman25 — 8 days ago

How are old people so rich that they are able to afford expensive living ?

I see like many older folks driving Lexus and bmw then wearing expensive shoes. Like young people are struggling to afford rent and basic living. So older folks houses are paid, cars are afford off. And most people say that by the time young adults reach retirement age there won’t be no social security benefits

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u/Jpoolman25 — 10 days ago

Why does majority of middle eastern has this Distinct smell?

I don’t know why but I bought few fragrances already within the past few years however I have noticed there is always this similar distinct smell maybe it’s oud or woody note or something middle eastern smell, like the fragrance ends up be ruined. Even thought I like the opening somehow in the middle or dry down there is always this typical smell.

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u/Jpoolman25 — 11 days ago

Why does majority of middle eastern has this Distinct smell?

I don’t know why but I bought few fragrances already within the past few years however I have noticed there is always this similar distinct smell maybe it’s oud or woody note or something middle eastern smell, like the fragrance ends up be ruined. Even thought I like the opening somehow in the middle or dry down there is always this typical smell.

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u/Jpoolman25 — 11 days ago

Why do professional jobs have to maintain a certain image ?

I always noticed like people who work professional jobs and having to deal with customers they have to maintain their image so well. Like proper attire, strong communication skills, knowing all the ins and out of their company or their product. As if their profession is very important even if they have to take it? Like is it because of promotion, annual job review ?

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u/Jpoolman25 — 12 days ago

[discussion] what simple things to do for restarting life ?

My question is how can someone restart their life all over again like I feel down it’s personality , attitude and outlook on life is main main thing to change.

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u/Jpoolman25 — 12 days ago

When your mind accepts defeat, how do you pick yourself back up?

For some time now, it feels like my mind has given up. And when you accept that your own mind has lost, then you don’t feel like doing anything at all.
Sometimes I feel like setting new goals, learning something, improving my life… but my mind immediately tells me, What’s the point? You won’t be able to do it anyway

The hardest thing is that you have to fight against your own thoughts more than the problems outside. When you don’t believe in yourself, everything starts to seem impossible.
Has anyone else gone through this phase? If yes, then how did you get out of that mindset? Was there any small habit or thought that slowly helped?
I just need genuine advice because right now it feels like the problem has become my mindset more than my situation.

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u/Jpoolman25 — 12 days ago
▲ 9 r/rajkot

Jab mann hi haar maan le, toh usse wapas kaise uthate ho?

Pichle kuch time se lagta hai mera mann hi haar gaya hai. Aur jab khud ka hi mann haar maan le, toh phir kuch bhi karne ka mann nahi karta.
Kabhi lagta hai naye goals banaun, kuch seekhun, life improve karun… lekin dimaag turant bol deta hai, *“Kya fayda? Tu waise bhi nahi kar payega.”*
Sabse mushkil cheez yeh hai ki bahar ki problems se zyada andar ki soch se ladna padta hai. Jab khud hi apne upar believe na rahe, toh har cheez impossible lagne lagti hai.
Kya kisi aur ne bhi yeh phase experience kiya hai? Agar haan, toh aap us mindset se bahar kaise nikle? Kya koi choti habits ya soch thi jisne dheere dheere help ki?
Bas genuine advice chahiye, kyunki iss waqt lagta hai ki problem meri situation se zyada meri soch ban gayi hai.

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u/Jpoolman25 — 12 days ago

Jab mann hi haar maan le, toh usse wapas kaise uthate ho?

Pichle kuch time se lagta hai mera mann hi haar gaya hai. Aur jab khud ka hi mann haar maan le, toh phir kuch bhi karne ka mann nahi karta.
Kabhi lagta hai naye goals banaun, kuch seekhun, life improve karun… lekin dimaag turant bol deta hai, “Kya fayda? Tu waise bhi nahi kar payega.”
Sabse mushkil cheez yeh hai ki bahar ki problems se zyada andar ki soch se ladna padta hai. Jab khud hi apne upar believe na rahe, toh har cheez impossible lagne lagti hai.
Kya kisi aur ne bhi yeh phase experience kiya hai? Agar haan, toh aap us mindset se bahar kaise nikle? Kya koi choti habits ya soch thi jisne dheere dheere help ki?
Bas genuine advice chahiye, kyunki iss waqt lagta hai ki problem meri situation se zyada meri soch ban gayi hai.

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u/Jpoolman25 — 12 days ago

What is a smooth Versace Eros clone ?

I really like the smooth opening of the fresh minty vanilla combo. Really wish I can find something that lasts a bit longer and won’t be cloying in the high heat

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u/Jpoolman25 — 14 days ago

What is a smooth Versace Eros clone ?

I really like the smooth opening of the fresh minty vanilla combo. Really wish I can find something that lasts a bit longer and won’t be cloying in the high heat

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u/Jpoolman25 — 14 days ago