u/Jpoolman25

I defiantly feel like it’s concerning because all I’m doing is staying at home all day doing nothing with life. I don’t know how to explain but I don’t study or learn any skills since I don’t know what to do. I also have no job and feel emrbassed to ask someone for jobs and I don’t apply for jobs since I have no prior work experience and barely anything to put on my resume since I also have no college degree and skills. It’s like I have no clue how to get out of this rut and also build my self esteem.

I feel like a lot of us in our late 20s or just 20s in general rush into signing stuff without fully understanding what we’re agreeing to. Apartments, car payments, loans, subscriptions, jobs, insurance, medical papers, etc.

What’s something you learned the hard way that made you start taking contracts and paperwork more seriously? I seen so many people posts on social media about getting their first car or apartment since they are so excited about getting the stuff but don’t even care to read the policy and the consequences it comes when you don’t pay the payment or something based on the contract policy. Like I barely hear anyone mention this in adulthood.

I feel like a lot of us in our late 20s or just 20s in general rush into signing stuff without fully understanding what we’re agreeing to. Apartments, car payments, loans, subscriptions, jobs, insurance, medical papers, etc.

What’s something you learned the hard way that made you start taking contracts and paperwork more seriously? I seen so many people posts on social media about getting their first car or apartment since they are so excited about getting the stuff but don’t even care to read the policy and the consequences it comes when you don’t pay the payment or something based on the contract policy. Like I barely hear anyone mention this in adulthood.

I’ve been realizing how many young adults rush through signing things without fully understanding what they’re agreeing to. Stuff like leases, loans, subscriptions, jobs, insurance, medical forms, etc.

What’s something you learned the hard way that helped you become more careful, responsible, or financially aware?

What are some basic etiquette to know when you go to guest house or if a guest comes to your place. Like how do you provide hospitality. Do guests just come over for a dinner meal and leave. Don’t they offer to help them clean up and give them company.

I feel so overwhelmed everyday no matter how much I try to avoid the this feelings and suppressing them. Like one way or another, the guilt and shame just comes up. Because I’m not doing the things my heart desires, I just feel like I’m betraying myself. Like I understand hearing your inner voice is very important maybe it’s giving a signal to do something. And here I am doing nothing about it. I want to face my fears but I don’t feel strong and smart enough. Therefore I’m not doing it. And I’m sick of living in this cycle for years and years. Some recommend just believe in yourself and do it. Some say do hanuman chalisa.

I feel so overwhelmed everyday no matter how much I try to avoid the this feelings and suppressing them. Like one way or another, the guilt and shame just comes up. Because I’m not doing the things my heart desires, I just feel like I’m betraying myself. Like I understand hearing your inner voice is very important maybe it’s giving a signal to do something. And here I am doing nothing about it. I want to face my fears but I don’t feel strong and smart enough. Therefore I’m not doing it. And I’m sick of living in this cycle for years and years. Some recommend just believe in yourself and do it. Some say do hanuman chalisa.

I’m so tired about the fact my mind is letting anxiety control everything. A simple goal has turned into an impossible mission to achieve. I’m 30 years old now and since the age of 22, I wanted to learn driving however I’m just so scared that I’ve kept running away from it. But it’s like something within me just wants to overcome this fear so bad. I don’t know why do I have such a weak mindset. I’m just not stepping up to life challenges.

Instead of doom scrolling always what are some actually good skills to learn to get opportunities. Like does anyone know any websites to learn skills and which kind.

I’m so tired about the fact my mind is letting anxiety control everything. A simple goal has turned into an impossible mission to achieve. I’m 30 years old now and since the age of 22, I wanted to learn driving however I’m just so scared that I’ve kept running away from it. But it’s like something within me just wants to overcome this fear so bad. I don’t know why do I have such a weak mindset. I’m just not stepping up to life challenges.

I’m so tired about the fact my mind is letting anxiety control everything. A simple goal has turned into an impossible mission to achieve. I’m 30 years old now and since the age of 22, I wanted to learn driving however I’m just so scared that I’ve kept running away from it. But it’s like something within me just wants to overcome this fear so bad. I don’t know why do I have such a weak mindset. I’m just not stepping up to life challenges.

It’s been 9 years officially that high school ended yet I’m still where I am as I was 9 years ago. Even my younger brother is about graduate high school and it’s like I don’t know what I’m doing with my life. I feel like a complete failure. I let myself down but I even failed to be a good brother and son. Even my parents from the top must be upset at me. My younger brother never got parents love. He witnessed the loss of father when he was 7 and mom at 17. I don’t even know like how to give him guidance. He doesn’t really know what to do after high school. He thought about going college but since he is in special Ed class. The teachers were saying he isn’t ready to enroll in college yet. So they said for one year he has to learn life skills development and career focus skills.

I need some advice because I’ve been avoiding confrontation my whole life. It’s like whenever I fail to do
something I just never do it again. I don’t know why I easily give up. I also never keep my word. And therefore I avoid confrontation. But I’ve noticed doing this is only making me feel small from inside and giving feelings of guilt and shame.

I need some advice because I’ve been avoiding confrontation my whole life. It’s like whenever I fail to do
something I just never do it again. I don’t know why I easily give up. I also never keep my word. And therefore I avoid confrontation. But I’ve noticed doing this is only making me feel small from inside and giving feelings of guilt and shame.

Even thought I’ll be reach 30s in few days, I’ve realized damn my life is not sorted at all. Because of that I seem to be avoiding people and even going for outing with someone. It’s like everyone has an identity. Some are working others are still in college. Most didn’t go college and started business. Some got married and so on. It seems like everyone is playing a role in their life and contributing in society. Meanwhile I’m sitting at home doing nothing watching life pass by.

I see so many people in real life and online world just younger adults in 20s making significant progress in life. They are taking risks. They are learning and updating themselves. They are doing everything. And I really wish I had friends because I need to build my confidence and self esteem. I want to find my purpose or atleast work on life. At this age, I have no skills and degree. I don’t even have a job. Like it’s shameful feeling

I’m trying to learn tech from beginner standpoint because I have no knowledge. I just feel like tech is broad field and there are so many careers and each of them have different skill set to learn. Cybersecurity, I.t. and CS. I don’t know about the rest. But how can someone get started.