▲ 2 r/lonely

My thoughts on loneliness

I don't think people are lonely because they are alone but because nothing feels real we have turned so much of life into representation of life like friendships as followers conversation as comments experience become content even our thoughts is shaped by invisible audience and one of this happened because we wanted something bad we wanted connection we wanted to share , belong but somehow along The way we started to experience life through screen like we need to capture everything because everything doesn't feel enough it's like everything is becoming content and reality is getting distant that'swhy we feel disconnected not from each other but ourselves we don't want likes comments we want presence a moment that only belongs to us not to world

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u/Mammoth_Hat6866 — 5 hours ago

I think asking for a live-in relationship before marriage is a red flag -what you guys think ?

Women generally bear more risk in relationships. If an unexpected pregnancy happens, the physical, emotional, and often career-related consequences fall disproportionately on the woman. Even without children, women often end up taking on more domestic labor in live-in relationships.

Because of that, I don't see the benefit of living together without the legal and social commitment of marriage. If we've already dated for 1–2 years, communicated well, met each other's families and friends, and handled conflicts together, I don't think living together is necessary to know whether we're compatible.

To me, if a man genuinely knows he wants to spend his life with a woman, I'd expect him to move toward marriage rather than an indefinite live-in arrangement.

I know many people disagree, and I'm genuinely curious why. If you support live-in relationships, what benefits do you think outweigh the risks—especially for women?

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u/Mammoth_Hat6866 — 6 hours ago

Unpopular opinion: I think asking for a live-in relationship before marriage is a red flag—for me

Women generally bear more risk in relationships. If an unexpected pregnancy happens, the physical, emotional, and often career-related consequences fall disproportionately on the woman. Even without children, women often end up taking on more domestic labor in live-in relationships.

Because of that, I don't see the benefit of living together without the legal and social commitment of marriage. If we've already dated for 1–2 years, communicated well, met each other's families and friends, and handled conflicts together, I don't think living together is necessary to know whether we're compatible.

To me, if a man genuinely knows he wants to spend his life with a woman, I'd expect him to move toward marriage rather than an indefinite live-in arrangement.

I know many people disagree, and I'm genuinely curious why. If you support live-in relationships, what benefits do you think outweigh the risks—especially for women?

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u/Mammoth_Hat6866 — 7 hours ago

Do you guys have any home remedy or product recommendation for this

Is there any home remedy or any product in market like face spray or any face mask or face toner that would Target acne , acne marks on face , dullness , blackheads whiteheads and will help in healthy glowy skin and deep moisturization

Also any tips or products for smooth skin I have bumpy acne on my body especially back area no matter what I do it I get two or three acne in a week so how can I achieve a smooth clear butter skin lmao

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u/Mammoth_Hat6866 — 10 hours ago

Need perfume recommendation

I want perfume recommendation I am looking for a specific vibe here

I'm looking for something that feels like a rich wife on a Sunday morning, a goddess wrapped in silk, warm sunlight on glowing skin, fresh flowers in a marble villa, and just a hint of mystery. It should be sensual without trying too hard, seductive without being loud, and comforting enough

Not overly sweet, not teenage fruity, and definitely not sharp or synthetic. I want something creamy, smooth, luxurious, and memorable—like the kind of scent people remember long after you've left.

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u/Mammoth_Hat6866 — 14 hours ago

Looking for like-minded friends only![friendship]

Not interested in dating, hookups, flirting, or anything sexual. Just looking for genuine people who enjoy conversations about movies, anime, travel, self-growth, discipline, ambitions, dreams, and random life stories. Bonus points if you have a good sense of humor and love sharing memes. I'd love to meet people who can switch between deep conversations and absolute nonsense. If that sounds like you, send me a message!

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u/Mammoth_Hat6866 — 1 day ago

The Bubble Economy of the Indian Elite

You've heard of the American Dream. Now let me tell you about the Indian Dream.

The Indian dream is to escape India.

Either you escape to the West.

But if you can't?

Escape shitty education with an international school. Escape polluted water with an RO. Escape water shortage with a tanker. Escape poisoned air with a purifier. Escape unsafe cities with gated communities. Escape the heat with an AC. Escape cratered roads with an SUV.

The rich don't use public hospitals. The politician's kid isn't in a government school.

The people who have the potential to bring real change for this country, escape India on a daily basis.

Why would they fix what they never have to touch?

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u/Mammoth_Hat6866 — 1 day ago

Ik yapping here will not help but still

Manipur has been on fire for months.

Gaza is completely destroyed.

Lebanon is gonna be the next Gaza, and the mainstream media doesn't cover what's happening there.

IDF soldiers disguise bombs as toys.

People forgot about the Epstein files.

Trump and netanyahu are still alive.

The rape cases in India are increasing every single day.

Afghan women don't have any rights yet.

Sudan is going through massive massacre.

Ai is using gallons of water every single day we probably won't have clean water to drink in a few years.

The world is getting dystopian day by day and i don't really care about your fucking Ai picture.

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u/Mammoth_Hat6866 — 1 day ago
▲ 74 r/lonely

Is this universal experience of loners ?

If you never experienced hiding in school/ college restrooms because you felt so lonely so no you don't understand me

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u/Mammoth_Hat6866 — 2 days ago
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Is it just me ? I need your thoughts on this

Have you ever been attracted to someone specifically because you could see the aura of loneliness and tragedy in their soul ?

Or is it just me it happens with most of the time I try to avoid

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u/Mammoth_Hat6866 — 2 days ago

I need your help here please

I really need your advice here

I'm that type of person who seriously gets affected by other peoples energy so there is a backstory here there were people in my life who really fucked my mental health in the worst way they bullied me my roomate she use to control me i have history of sexual abuse from my childhood I'm suffering from cptsd

So anything slightly negative really really triggers me

If someone talks loudly talks filthy

I have no contact because I blocked all of them but still I get anxiety thinking what if I meet them accidentally and they use me even tho i know they cannot and im not gonna meet them

It really frightens me thinking about it I don't wanna get used by such people ever again their energy was too dark to broken to unhappy and it really affected me so when i encounter such people i can read other peoples energy and I feel like they gonna do something to me

I want your advice how to be in your energy so any external energy doesn't change you or affect you even the slightest

Like what to do so people know I'm not someone they should use or mess

This fear of me made me very lonely I barely have friends

I'm single for four yrs now because of this

Please help me I get very easily influenced and let their energy and talks affect me

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u/Mammoth_Hat6866 — 2 days ago
▲ 4 r/traumacore+1 crossposts

i really need your advice i hope you read all & help me 💖

I really need your advice here

I'm that type of person who seriously gets affected by other peoples energy so there is a backstory here there were people in my life who really fucked my mental health in the worst way they bullied me my roomate she use to control me i have history of sexual abuse from my childhood I'm suffering from cptsd

So anything slightly negative really really triggers me

If someone talks loudly talks filthy

I have no contact because I blocked all of them but still I get anxiety thinking what if I meet them accidentally and they use me even tho i know they cannot and im not gonna meet them

It really frightens me thinking about it I don't wanna get used by such people ever again their energy was too dark to broken to unhappy and it really affected me so when i encounter such people i can read other peoples energy and I feel like they gonna do something to me

I want your advice how to be in your energy so any external energy doesn't change you or affect you even the slightest

Like what to do so people know I'm not someone they should use or mess

This fear of me made me very lonely I barely have friends

I'm single for four yrs now because of this

Please help me I get very easily influenced and let their energy and talks affect me

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u/Mammoth_Hat6866 — 2 days ago