When I make ocs of different eras I just can’t find the pictures of celebrities and think they are reliable, there is no way in hell the average woman in the 90s looked like Jennifer Aniston. Are there ways I could look for realistic pictures of hair or outfits in different eras?
I’m a highschooler which means they can’t actually bully me but they act real fucking rude. I want to make sure they‘re annoyed by me and I’ve inconvenienced them in some way, do any of you know a good trick?
A year ago a girl was acting rude so when she was lying on the floor with her friends I put my leg on her leg and now she’s scared of me, which was nothing so I know these bitches aren’t actually shit. So it doesn’t even have to be anything big.
i go to a all girls school
I’m a highschooler which means they can’t actually bully me but they act real fucking rude. I want to make sure they‘re annoyed by me and I’ve inconvenienced them in some way, do any of you know a good trick?
A year ago a girl was acting rude so when she was lying on the floor with her friends I put my leg on her leg and now she’s scared of me, which was nothing so I know these bitches aren’t actually shit. So it doesn’t even have to be anything big.
i go to a all girls school
I’m a highschooler which means they can’t actually bully me but they act real fucking rude. I want to make sure they‘re annoyed by me and I’ve inconvenienced them in some way, do any of you know a good trick?
A year ago a girl was acting rude so when she was lying on the floor with her friends I put my leg on her leg and now she’s scared of me, which was nothing so I know these bitches aren’t actually shit. So it didn’t even have to be anything big.
i go to a all girls school
I’m a highschooler which means they can’t actually bully me but they act real fucking rude. I want to make sure they‘re annoyed by me and I’ve inconvenienced them in some way, do any of you know a good trick?
A year ago a girl was acting rude so when she was lying on the floor with her friends I put my leg on her leg and now she’s scared of me, which was nothing so I know these bitches aren’t actually shit. So it doesn‘t even have to be anything big.
i go to a all girls school
I was sexually harrassed by an old friend repeatedly and I don’t know what to call it bc I was never assaulted
There alr was one but that went private :(
I am such a fucking stereotype! But truly I don’t like how I look at all. Im 5’2 with a round ass face and the only conventionally attractive thing abt me is that I got wider hips and bigger boobs. I don’t even want them.
I really try hard to not be in insecure trans spaces where they think they’re doomed or go into looksmaxxing territory but I still feel quite insecure.
This isn’t helped by the fact that I am mostly into girls. I sound like such an incel but girls do usually want a taller guy who does fit more into conventional beauty standards.
I might never get a romantic partner and thats completely fine, it’s not necessary for a happy life and I can always find love through platonic relationships. But it does suck to think about.
I’m pretty sure I’m the host of a system and is open to exploring that option. The problem is that I am not fluent enough in my own MOTHER TUNGUE(I’m better at English) and my trauma is so vague while not being severe enough for most therapists.
People usually think systems go though an insane amount of trauma and have other mental illnesses with it. The thing is my trauma is not only something I barely remember but also not extreme enough to be taken THAT seriously. Idk it sucks because if there’s other people its kinda creepy not knowing any of them.
Trans men think straight trans men are cishet men and it’s infuriating. It’s just “trans men are still men” rhetoric repackaged to hurt an even smaller group and you’d think trans men are the first people to recognize that but no.
I don’t have any more privilege than you because I’m straight I’m still fucking trans. Do you think people actively taking away our rights care that I like women and you don’t?
“There’s so much transphobia in gay men spaces” and do you think queer men are more transphobic than STRAIGHT WOMEN? “You can date queer women!” You’re turning a systemic problem into something I can change on my own. Yeah I could do those things but I’m not talking abt that I’m talking abt trans straight men as a WHOLE having problems.
“We have two minority identities and you don’t!” Again, DO YOU THINK PEOPLE GAF??? NO. If that’s the case trans men have privilege over trans women because we are men. That’s not a fucking thing and for you to isolate a part of this community when we’re already being villainized to shits is doing nothing but hurting yourselves.
Why do you think so many of us are still calling ourselves lesbians? It’s because even trans men can’t stop villainizing and isolating us for bioessentialist reasons. fml I genuinely can’t have shit.
I watch this one YouTuber who makes marvel content. I used to love him because he’s very knowledgeable in this stuff and also has a very strong political conviction. But the horrible thing is that one of the topics he has a very strong conviction on is bringing the Japanese mutant hero Sunfire back.
He talks abt how this character became a hero out of rage from the bombing of Hiroshima and how it’s a story that needs to be told. I completely agree that the bombing of Hiroshima is something that should’ve never happened, but something I’ve felt sad abt for a while is how the west is very ignorant and dismissive of every war crime done by the Japanese while being incredibly apologetic abt the bombing of Hiroshima/Nagasaki.
I am devastated for the victims of the bombings and is aware it is a crime against humanity that should’ve never happened. But it makes me feel sad the same graces are never offered to the people that has gone through the crimes done by the Japanese all around Asia. They make excuses for every horrible thing they committed and undermines the suffering of millions while fancying themselves anti war activists.
I obviously believe he would be very empathetic to the pains my family and every single victim went through in the war but just the fact that an American white man talked abt the bombings in such a way triggered me. I wish it didn’t. I wish I didn’t have such complicated feeling abt Japan especially around that time. But I do, and it makes me so sad that I unfortunately don’t like him as much as before.
I am evil and disgusting.
I’m 18(kr age) so keep that in mind
So I have this friend on tiktok that ive been dming for abt a month. Recently he has been quite distant and when they do text me she always says “I haven’t been online today”. I thought this was an excuse to stop texting me so I told them to at least talk abt it and not ghost me which they responded to by saying they were going through something very personal.
I feel horrible for pressuring him talk to me but also I feel that this wouldn’t have happened if they said they wouldn’t be able to text in advance. I didnt even need them to open up I just needed a little heads up.
How do I bring this up in a respectful and gentle way? they’re a very kind person so I really think she was genuine.
So I have this friend on tiktok that ive been dming for abt a month. Recently he has been quite distant and when they do text me she always says “I haven’t been online today”. I thought this was an excuse to stop texting me so I told them to at least talk abt it and not ghost me which they responded to by saying they were going through something very personal.
I feel horrible for pressuring him talk to me but also I feel that this wouldn’t have happened if they said they wouldn’t be able to text in advance. I didnt even need them to open up I just needed a little heads up.
How do I bring this up in a respectful and gentle way? they’re a very kind person so I really think she was genuine.
there is no way in hell and back I could’ve handled the body shaming😭 esp with penises bc I’m 5’2 and the sizes are like any other part in that they get bigger the bigger you are overall. Maybe I would’ve been taller as a cis guy but I dont think it’d be that much and I at least have an excuse
I’m a teen girl and I think I really need therapy rn. I heard therapy isn’t usually covered my insurance and they’re pretty pricey so I don’t really know that to do. Do yall have some tips on getting professional mental help? I tried teenage hotlines(like 1788) and they don’t help at all.