How to celebrate moving out on your own from a dysfunctional and ableist family?

I am so fucking happy, didn't think I could do it. Please offer me the best ideas!! 18F here, received an apartment and money from relatives, the apartment is very old and unused so I had to clean it and fix it but it is good now, and managed to get in today!!!!!!! I finally moved out!!! I am very happy.

I missed a lot of experiences because I was either too numb or I wasn't allowed to like go to the next town and stuff and they even tried to not let me go to college because according to them I didn't have the capacibities and always blamed me and said I had a crazy mind or it was because I followed my mother (who on the contrary always blamed my father) they hated each other and constantly also put verbal abuse on me (while I was neglected as a child) and I managed even to learn how to do stuff for me the past years because I was sure one day I would leave but I didn't know when, I just need to get a driving license, I live in Europe.

I would like unconventional ideas, too!!

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u/namenerding — 2 days ago

Bring close girl friendship back!!

how do you girls nowadays find girls to be besties with , I am from Italy. Everyone has their clicks before but I really just want an international female friend (sorry i feel safer) to yap with I don't know. I used to have many penpals as a kid and I miss that. :D

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u/namenerding — 4 days ago

Bring close catholic girl friendship/penpaling back!!

how do you girls nowadays find catholic girls to be besties with, I am from Italy. Everyone has their clicks before but I really just want an international female friend (sorry i feel safer) to yap with, penpal I don't know. I used to have many penpals as a kid and I miss that.

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u/namenerding — 4 days ago

How to get into the Musical Industry professionally?

Like acting and singing. I am 18 years old and can access both Milan and Venice.

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u/namenerding — 6 days ago

Where can I watch musicals?

Where can I find musicals online?
I would like to see the musical, NON MOVIE, Broadway or other stuff editions of Anastasia, LesMis, Finding Neverland, Cabaret, The Lion King, Hamilton, Rent, POTO, etc. I am not in the USA or an English speaking country. I have no way to access them otherwise. Where can I find them?
🏴‍☠️ok too.

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u/namenerding — 6 days ago

Name Game "Create a Family": Count of Montecristo

Below are the names of all the characters in the book
I’d love to create sibsets using these names, but there are a few rules:

  1. You cannot use two names from this list in the same sibset.

  2. Each sibset may contain only one character name from the book.

  3. A character name cannot have another character name from the list as its middle name.

  4. You’ll need to choose an original middle name.

  5. ✧ Example

  6. Separately:

  7. ❌ Eugénie Valentine & Edmond Fernand

  8. Both names are from the character list.

  9. ✅ Eugénie Constance & Edmond Aymeric

  10. Only one name in each full name comes from the list.

  11. As a sibset:

  12. ❌ Eugénie Marie & Edmond Martin

  13. Both Eugénie and Edmond are characters from the book, so they cannot be siblings in the same sibset.

  14. ✅ Eugénie Marie & Charles Theodore

  15. Only Eugénie is from the character list.

  16. ❌ Eugénie Marie & Charles Edmond

  17. Even though Edmond is only a middle name, it is still a character name from the book, so this isn’t allowed.

  18. Basically: one character name per sibset, and never use another character’s name as a middle name.

  19. You can create how many sibsets you want.

Girl names
Eugénie
Haydée
Héloïse
Hermine
Julie
Louise
Madeleine
Mercedes
Renée
Valentine
Teresa

Boy names
Albert
Ali
Baptistin
Benedetto
Edmond
Édouard
Emmanuel
Fernand
Franz
Gaspard
Gérald
Giovanni
Jacopo
Louis
Lucien
Luigi
Maximilien
Peppino
Pierre
Raoul
And please tell me your favourite names from the list!

Q&A — How does it work?

Q: Can I use two names from the list in the same sibset?
A: ❌ No. Each sibset can contain only one name from the character list.
Eugénie Marie & Edmond Martin → ❌ NO
Both Eugénie and Edmond are characters from the book.
Eugénie Marie & Charles Theodore → ✅ YES
Only Eugénie is from the character list.
Q: Can a character name be used as a middle name?
A: ❌ No. This applies even if the name isn’t the first name.
Eugénie Marie & Charles Edmond → ❌ NO
Edmond is still a character name, even though it is Charles’s middle name.
Q: Can I use a character name in a completely different full name?
A: ❌ No. The rule applies to both first and middle names.
Q: Does every child in the sibset need a name from the list?
A: ❌ No! In fact, only one child per sibset should have a name from the list. The other names should be original choices.
Q: Can I use a name from the list as a middle name if another sibling doesn’t have a character name?
A: ❌ Still no. No character name from the list may appear anywhere else in the same sibset.
Q: So what is allowed?
A: You can pair one character name with completely original names.
Eugénie Constance & Charles Theodore → ✅
Haydée Marguerite & Victor Auguste → ✅
Louise Céleste & Théodore Alexandre → ✅

In short:
♡ 1 character name maximum per sibset
♡ Character names cannot be used as middle names either
♡ All other names are free to be original choices

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u/namenerding — 7 days ago

I would like to get into Mozart and Salieri

I finished watching Amadeus and I loved it, I know nothing of classical music so recommend me the must hear in order? Thanks

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u/namenerding — 11 days ago

I draw like a kid what do I do?

I haven't really drawn ever and I started recently by copying references or drawing randomly. 😭😭 i have aphantasia so I can't Draw from imagination

u/namenerding — 12 days ago

audhd

I was diagnosed with autism at age 5 but I always suspected I had ADHD since when I read its description when I got older. I am a girl and I felt like they didn't do the completely good diagnosis for me. Anyways I am 18 now and I did a very long screening and apparently I am auDHD

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u/namenerding — 15 days ago

18 F Let's practice the Laws of Zeus!

Yes, some friendship and hospitality!
I really disliked the movie Odyssey (( But I am very interested in Hellenic Polytheist rites and lore and practices and in Ancient Greek history and poetry. I actually have previously been in the religion and it is still
One of my interests. I have other interests )
I also enjoy Literature, Languges, Historical fashion, music and more
If you talked to me but I am not anymore, I think this is an opportunity to write me again (I am sorry if I did not see your message, my chat is lagging constantly. Also, I prefer Discord)

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u/namenerding — 19 days ago

Metal education 101

Haiii! Where can I learn about metal history and metal genres? What are the must listen of the main metal genres I should listen to? I started to get into metal but I don't know anything about metal, I don't really know stuff like singers or bands or the charateristics yet I just liked the songs of how they sound like :c here are the ones I enjoyed

nazgul ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
kuryong (구룡) ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
bring me the horizon ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
babymetal ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
black sabbath ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Linkin park ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Danzig⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

Please help me out <3

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u/namenerding — 21 days ago

Ancient Greek woman fashion?

Anything that is not haute couture and cheap as well? Even something from Etsy I just like the aesthetic, inspired or original.

u/namenerding — 22 days ago