How to celebrate moving out on your own from a dysfunctional and ableist family?
I am so fucking happy, didn't think I could do it. Please offer me the best ideas!! 18F here, received an apartment and money from relatives, the apartment is very old and unused so I had to clean it and fix it but it is good now, and managed to get in today!!!!!!! I finally moved out!!! I am very happy.
I missed a lot of experiences because I was either too numb or I wasn't allowed to like go to the next town and stuff and they even tried to not let me go to college because according to them I didn't have the capacibities and always blamed me and said I had a crazy mind or it was because I followed my mother (who on the contrary always blamed my father) they hated each other and constantly also put verbal abuse on me (while I was neglected as a child) and I managed even to learn how to do stuff for me the past years because I was sure one day I would leave but I didn't know when, I just need to get a driving license, I live in Europe.
I would like unconventional ideas, too!!