▲ 13 r/xxitaly

Makeup

Ciao sono una ragazza di 18 anni che per svariati motivi non ha mai sentito la necessitá di provare il makeup. Diciamo che non sono mai stata molto femminile e ho avuto poche figure femminili nella vita
Vorrei iniziare ma non so proprio niente, non so cosa mi sta bene e non so che prodotti prendere, i colori e le luci o le tecniche sia dal punto di vista teorico che pratico.
So che molte cose sono ovvie per le persone in questo sub. Ma vi chiedo di consigliarmi "risorse" da cui imparare
Comunque sono una ragazza cinese quindi vorrei anche consigli per valorizzarmi. Io ho una carnagione tendente all'olivastro e occhi "monolidi"

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u/namenerding — 12 days ago

Name ideas for everyone! Get your names before they are cold

Long post warning!
TL;DR:
I’m a huge namenerd with 3000+ names from many cultures/languages. I’m childfree, so I’d love to give my unused names to people who need them!
Tell me your gender expression, background, desired meaning, aesthetic, favourite things, initials, etc., and I’ll suggest names + middle names + sibsets. Be as picky as you want!
In exchange, help me choose my name by reading the whole post.

Whole post
Hi! I’m not trans, but I’m queer, I am sorry for using this space but I would like to help ya :)
and I’ve been a massive namenerd since I was about five years old. At this point I’ve hoarded 3000+ names, sibsets, middle-name combinations and completely unnecessary naming spreadsheets.
I’m childfree, so I’ll probably never get to use most of them myself which means I’d much rather give them to people who will use them!
I have masculine, feminine and neutral names from all sorts of cultures and languages, including Chinese, Italian, Turkish, Korean, Arabic, Slavic names, Japanese, Hebrew, Persian, Greek, Latin and various European traditions like German, French, Spanish. I’m multicultural myself, I’ve studied Classics (in my country you can do it at high school), and I’ve spent a frankly ridiculous amount of time researching names and their histories.
So if you’re looking for a name, give me your requirements and I’ll go digging through my hoard.

Tell me anything you want, for example:
your gender / gender expression
your cultural background
meanings you’d like the name to have
a favourite flower, animal, colour, place, etc.
a particular initial or sound
names you already like or dislike
historical periods or aesthetics you love
religious or cultural considerations
whether you want something common, uncommon, extremely rare or completely bizarre

I can also help with middle names, full combinations and sibling sets. Be as picky as you want, meaning, etymology, pronunciation, associations, number of syllables, initials, everything. I genuinely enjoy this. 😭
I have far too many names anyway. Let me put them to good use.

And in exchange… help me choose mine?
I’m currently trying to figure out what name fits me, so if you’re willing, I’d love some suggestions!
1. What is the first FEMININE name you think of when you see me?
It can be anything. Romantic, historical, Victorian, mythological, literary, European, unusual, old-fashioned, even something completely unexpected.
Names like Belphoebe or Apricity are absolutely welcome.
But if you genuinely look at me and immediately think Jessica, Emily, Sarah, etc., please tell me that too! I want your first impression, not necessarily a name you think I’ll like.

2. What Hebrew name do you think fits me best?
I’m in the process of becoming (Reform) Jewish religiously (I am not a Zionist), and I’d particularly love to hear what Hebrew name you think suits me FROM THE LIST I WROTE.
Some names I’m already considering:
Ester · Nava · Liraz · Shoshana · Liora · Hadassah · Romi · Lilach · Margalit · Batsheva · Dafna · Elisheva
And some Yiddish names I love:
Zelda · Golda · Freyde · Perla · Bella / Bayla · Sisel /
Sissel

I will be (femenine name) + (Hebrew name)

Already posted this over at r/JewishNames, but I’d love to hear what everyone else thinks too!
And if you don’t have any suggestions, that’s totally fine I mostly wanted an excuse to give away some of my enormous name hoard

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u/namenerding — 28 days ago

How to celebrate Rosh Hashanah as a Noahide?

Converting to Judaism soon but still a Noahide, I cannot go to a shul rn because I dont know anyone there and also they need to be warned by email before for visits but I have realised my religious identity only very recently.
I am also allergic to apples :(

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u/namenerding — 1 month ago

mystery egg

Hello, I am a mystery box and basic info can be deducted from me thanks to the presence of basic informations in my about me and you can stalk my profile.
I do not communicate with men who have romantic and sexual intents (and with women or nonbinary people who have romantic and sexual intents neither) as I am taken.
I do not offer pictures of myself.
I merely am curious to see what international netizens have to say nowadays.
I am going to randomly talk about random infodumps probably, also I am interested in religions and mermaids right now as a hyperfixation, but my special interests are things like historical fashion, languages and 18-19th century and more.
Do you want to open the mystery box?

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u/namenerding — 1 month ago

Resources in Northern Italy? How open are Jewish communities for conversion here?

I live in Milan, but next year I will move to venice. I heard that communities in Italy and Europe tend to be smaller and closer on this matter than american ones. I would like to consider reform or conservative

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u/namenerding — 1 month ago

A movie with good Jewish representation

I’m looking for recommendations that focus on young women or teenage girls (as member of this demographic) in particular. I know there are many books and films about Jewish experiences during the Holocaust, but I was wondering if there are any that explore more of a coming-of-age story, especially ones set in modern times or in historical periods that aren’t traditionally depicted.
I’d also love to find stories featuring queer Jewish characters and/or non-white Jewish protagonists, since those perspectives seem to be much less represented.
Basically, I’d love recommendations that explore Jewish girlhood and identity beyond the usual narratives. Thank you so much! :)

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u/namenerding — 1 month ago
▲ 24 r/Judaism

Movies with good Jewish representation

I’m looking for recommendations that focus on young women or teenage girls (as member of this demographic) in particular. I know there are many books and films about Jewish experiences during a specific era, but I was wondering if there are any that explore more of a coming-of-age story, especially ones set in modern times or in historical periods that aren’t traditionally depicted.
I’d also love to find stories featuring queer Jewish characters and/or non-white Jewish protagonists, since those perspectives seem to be much less represented.
Basically, I’d love recommendations that explore Jewish girlhood and identity beyond the usual narratives. Thank you so much! :)

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u/namenerding — 1 month ago
▲ 47 r/Jewish

Movies with good Jewish representation, please!

I’m looking for recommendations that focus on young women or teenage girls (as member of this demographic) in particular. I know there are many books and films about Jewish experiences during the Holocaust, but I was wondering if there are any that explore more of a coming-of-age story, especially ones set in modern times or in historical periods that aren’t traditionally depicted.
I’d also love to find stories featuring queer Jewish characters and/or non-white Jewish protagonists, since those perspectives seem to be much less represented.
Basically, I’d love recommendations that explore Jewish girlhood and identity beyond the usual narratives. Thank you so much! :)

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u/namenerding — 1 month ago

I made myself dinner after moving out for the first time

First attempt with a stove (not rice cooker or premade food) after two weeks.

u/namenerding — 2 months ago

Conte di Montecristo

Devo assolutamente consigliarvi Il Conte di Montecristo perché è uno di quei libri che ti fanno dimenticare che stai leggendo un libro di 1000+ pagine, davvero non sto scherzando ho cominciato a leggerlo e non riuscivo a smettere, come quando vuoi continuare il prossimo episodio delle serie io volevo sempre continuare il prossimo capitolo spendevo le notti di agosto a leggere leggere leggere.
Non l’ho letto per scuola, l’ho preso semplicemente perché avevo voglia di leggere qualcosa di Dumas e che dire sono stata completamente conquistata.
C’è tutto tra vendetta, prigionia, tesori nascosti, identità segrete, aristocrazia, intrighi, viaggi, drammi familiari, amore, tradimenti e personaggi interessanti davvero mi piace molto anche molte relazioni dentro eccetera. Misterioso, elegantissimo, quasi irreale. Sembra uscito da una fiaba gotica o da una leggenda romantica.
Mi piace tantissimo anche l’atmosfera: Parigi, Marsiglia, il Mediterraneo, le isole, i salotti aristocratici le Mille e una Notte.
Se volete parlarne scrivetemi pure!

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u/namenerding — 2 months ago

18F Cerco amicizie preferibilmemte femminili e preferibilmente con i miei stessi interessi

Ciao! Sono una ragazza di origine cinese che vuole fare amicizia. Se sei in Svizzera o Italia preferibilmente nord e se sei una ragazza e non hai secondi fini (mi sentirei più al sicuro con una ragazza leggi ilPost per capire di me ) scrivimi (perchè siamo vicini e volendo possiamo anche vederci se ci conoscissimo)

e vorresti una amicizia scrivimi pure!

I miei interessi sono vasti, mi piacciono la moda storica, leggere / la letteratura, scrivere (scrittura creativa), la poesia, cantare, l'opera lirica, il teatro, il musical, il cinema (i film), le lingue / la linguistica, il folkcore, le religioni, la storia, l'arte, la musica (i miei generi preferiti sono goth rock, dark cabaret, horror punk, goth metal ma ascolto anche black metal, rock psichedelico, yeyé anni 60 francese, postpunk russo musica persiana vintage e musica russa vecchia nu metal e.g. Pyotr Leshchenko e qualche canzone emo anni "2000", anche Babymetal HANABIE vocaloid, non sono una purista e non indosso abiti rilevanti a queste subculture, mi piace solo ascoltare la musica), i romanzi / i film storici, la danza storica (e.g. valzer). Ah e vari anime come Lain e Rose of Versailles
Amo l'epoca rococò e vittoriana per aesthetic e moda storica.
Mi piacciono le crinoline yeayyy!!!!
Uhhhh...
poi sono una ragazza autistica / aspergers e recentemente sono stata diagnosticata anche con l'adhd :D

Mi è sempre piaciuto anche avere amici internazionali e coltivo l'hobby dell'avere amici di penna da moltissimi anni.
E il Fantasy mi piace molto, specie queste oscure materie e lotr.
Le mie lingue preferite sono: russo persiano giapponese tedesco.
Il mio film preferito è Kamikaze girls mi riconosco molto nella protagonista Momoko. Mi piacciono anche film come "Marie Antoinette" e "Sissi" ma anche "Amadeus" "Midnight in Paris" "Gone with the Wind" e vari film francesi vecchi come "Peppermint soda", film vecchia Hollywood, e film sovietici / dell'est europa come l'edizione ceca della sirenetta (bellissimo) ma anche film come Donnie darko, the crow ecc e film più particolari come "Caligola"
Mi piace la letteratura Russa Francese Inglese e Giapponese, io amo l'epoca Romantica e Decadente ma anche l'epoca Heian. Il mio libro preferito è Montecristo seguito da Notti Bianche!! Shout out to percy shelley byron oscar wilde!!
amo i preraffaeliti
Un giorno vorrei provare a imparare a cucire e a iniziare a fare rievocazione storica, a entrare in un club del libro / dei film o in una società storica come la Società Napoleonica d'Italia "Club Fiorile" o "Società di Danza Storica".
Mi piace infatti anche l'epoca regency e napoleonica e poi mi interessa l'impero bizantino
Ah sono fidanzata per cui se cerchi una ragazza non ci provare, eh ragazzi lo so che molti usano questo sub per quello ma altri lo usano anche per sole amicizie tipo io perchè non ci sta un sub per SOLE amicizie in italiano qua su reddit e quello in inglese tipo teenfriends o makenewfriends o makefriendsneurodivergency purtroppo non trovo NESSUNO in italia

Penso che mi piacciono molto anche piccole donne e Anna Shirley perchè mi riconosco sia in Anna che in Jo March.

Mi piace anche la politica

E diciamo che io ho speso la mia adolescenza avendo MOLTI amicizie internazionali ma non conosco praticamente nessuno irl

io semplicemente non riesco ad avere amici dato che al liceo non avevo nessuno con i miei interessi simili e ora diciamo che sono una persona che va avanti e indietro tra due città e poi essendo non esattamente frequentante 100% in una università ma avendo una vita diciamo anche abbastanza "isolata" / "remote" e ripeto non essendo una persona da feste; discoteche ecc e dubito di trovare gente del
Mio tipo là ecco .. :') ciaoooo!!

You can write me if u dont talk italian and happen to view my post too!!

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u/namenerding — 2 months ago

18f looking for any family, just moved out of a dysfunctional family alone so I finally have some freedom!! Audhd about me in description. Inappriopiates will be blocked

My family was very controlling and dysfunctional glad i left

Into intellectual bohemian whimsy stuff
Autism + adhd
🇮🇹

★ bands ★
BMTH AiC BabyMetal Evanescence SistersOfMercy Nazgul Kyuryong MCR Misfits Blitzkid Christian Death Type o Negative LinkinPark PanicAtTheDisco PierceTheVeil IFAWartburg BerurierNoir CradleofFilth AcidBath Ghost Rammstein KINO TheRunaways HANABI VagabondOpera Petracorensis and more!!

★ interests ★
music: nu metal, emo, metal, gothic rock, dark cabaret, postpunk, Slavic folk, Yeyé (French), vkei, Japanese kawaii metal, old Soviet jazz and more, horror punk, french/ddr punk (?)

Movies and shows: Old Hollywood, Japanese indie, , Midnight in Paris, Napoleon (1920), Cleopatra (1963), 20th century Italian/French, Kamikaze Girls (I kin Momoko Ryugasaki btw), Serial Experiment Lain, Sissi

books: Frankenstein, Phantom of Opera, the Idiot. Montecristo. the romantic and decadent movement. Wilde and d'Annunzio and Byron

hobbies: HYPERFIXATING, making lists, listening to music, reading, watching movies, art and drawing, finding books and movies, bookclubs, learning abt fashion (historical, whimsical, alternative...), being on internet, learning languages, learning about other people's special interests, obsessing over researching new niches, watching (totally not pirated) stuff, worldbuilding, thrifting, writing poetry, micronations, finding stuff to do from those activity books that were popular for girls or those adventure books for kids they unironically have fun stuff, finding side quests, Penpaling

Other: islamic golden age, republic of venice , SALAH AL DIN, catholic lore, folkcore religious lore, art and culture, (18-19th century) historical / whimsical / particular fashion in general, history, mariology, aesthetics, Persia, Russia, Meiji Taisho Heian era Japan, languages, rare and endangered languages, pirates, FRev, Kaiserin Elisabeth (sisi), Time princess, anything princessy, royalcore, Rococo, theatre, musical, eleonora duse, roaring 20s, belle epoque, Names, Vampires and Fairies, Magical girls, magic, dead poets society, Hellenism! Sailor moon, precure, typology!! Fairytales vampires

Momoko kin

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u/namenerding — 2 months ago

Does anyone want to take my unused name

Does anyone want to adopt my unused name? Hello! I’m not transgender, i am just a namenerd!! but I’ve realized that I don’t really use this name anymore, and I thought some of you might love it. I’d rather see it find a new home than have it sitting unused. ♡

Sofia “Sonya”
From Ancient Greek Σοφία meaning “wisdom.” Historically rich, short and snappy, familiar in all languages, international in all the world, great namesakes! Like Sofia Coppola, I love her movies (check out Marie Antoinette!), Sofia Loren, and the wife of Tolstoy Sofia "Sonya", Sofia Kovalenskaya a pioneering Russian woman in mathematics and science, Sofia Perovskaya a Russian revolutionary, Sofia Gubaidulina a composer and Sofia Giatsintova an actress and theatre director both soviet, also saint Sofia of Rome / Milan, the mother of Faith Hope and Charity, and then it is a very Byzantine name too.
Russian Соня (Sonya) is a diminutive of София (Sofia). So Sonya isn’t merely an invented nickname, it is a genuine traditional Russian pet form. It is a nickname I used, but you can also go by Sisi / Sissi like the empress, Fia, Essie, Fifi, Sofi and more!!
And Sonechka (Сонечка) is an especially tender form. And then comes Dostoevsky…
Sofia/Sonya Marmeladova is one of the principal characters in Fyodor Dostoevsky’s Crime and Punishment
It can be romantic, intellectual or modern

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u/namenerding — 2 months ago

Alone easy meals?

So folks I listened to your advice and learned how to do eggs and I improved a lot with rice cookers electric stoves etc and manage to feed myself in decently healthy ways.

Anyways any ideas for easy meals? Also on a budget... 18.5 years old who just moved out. I prefer eating chicken duck and fish meat compared to other meats. No need to be healthy I can indulge myself time to time but healthy also required since I need to think to not always eat junk

Thanks!

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u/namenerding — 2 months ago

Sono uscita di casa e ora vivo da sola !!

18F, non vivo più con i genitori da quattro giorni ma in un appartamento con una camera e una cucina e un bagno piccolo. (*sono diplomata) Sono felice che ho potuto farlo :)
Yeayyy

Io sono cinese di origine , nella mia cultura è normale

Genitori disfunzionali ci ho vissuto per circa 3 anni dai 15 a 18 quando hanno avuto una situazione migliore. Prima vivevo con zii / cugini, nonni e altri parenti da quando i miei mi hanno "buttata" dai miei parenti a 10 mesi perche non riuscivano a prendersi cura di me. Diciamo che ho avuto una situazione strana ma bizzarra e positiva fino a 15 anni...

Comunque attualmente ho soldi regolari (lavoro da remoto) e ho deciso che studio da non frequentante quest'anno. Ho lavorato in presenza prima, ho un conto e soldi salvati, non pago l'appartamento perché lasciato da parentic vedi i commenti. I miei genitori sono contro ma sono andata via lo stesso

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u/namenerding — 2 months ago

How to celebrate moving out on your own from a dysfunctional and ableist family?

I am so fucking happy, didn't think I could do it. Please offer me the best ideas!! 18F here, received an apartment and money from relatives, the apartment is very old and unused so I had to clean it and fix it but it is good now, and managed to get in today!!!!!!! I finally moved out!!! I am very happy.

I missed a lot of experiences because I was either too numb or I wasn't allowed to like go to the next town and stuff and they even tried to not let me go to college because according to them I didn't have the capacibities and always blamed me and said I had a crazy mind or it was because I followed my mother (who on the contrary always blamed my father) they hated each other and constantly also put verbal abuse on me (while I was neglected as a child) and I managed even to learn how to do stuff for me the past years because I was sure one day I would leave but I didn't know when, I just need to get a driving license, I live in Europe.

I would like unconventional ideas, too!!

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u/namenerding — 2 months ago

Bring close girl friendship back!!

how do you girls nowadays find girls to be besties with , I am from Italy. Everyone has their clicks before but I really just want an international female friend (sorry i feel safer) to yap with I don't know. I used to have many penpals as a kid and I miss that. :D

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u/namenerding — 2 months ago