u/TheShadowSong

Razmišljam, če bi šel pogledat. Nisem pa prepričan, če se sploh splača it. Je kaj zanimivega?

My friend who is 22 and was raped by 3 teenagers and judge pardoned them because they were intoxicated and too young to know any better. Judge also wanted to sentence her for "leading minors on".

I spoke about this on another server and everyone was fine with teenagers raping and cheating because they're too young to know any better and that those teenage sexual experiences are normal and not a big deal but if you say N word at 25, you should be arrested because 25 "has fully developed prefrontal cortex. That's false. This is pop myth that was debunked by neurologists. You can have 18yo who is more responsible and mature than 42yo.

If you can't tell that cheating and rape are wrong and cause harm at 15, you're a really bad person. I knew to never cheat at 13 and I definitely won't accept anyone's apology who thinks that they are free to escape accountability for cheating or raping at 13 but 25 years old isn't even allowed to get a parking ticket.

My friend's dad told his son at 14 that he should get things like rape, sex and violence out of his system by age of 18 because he can still get away with it.

I can't believe that people really lack this much of critical thinking.

I was looking at dating posts and I've seen how many people support teenage cheating because they treat it as people who don't have "conscious" nor "seriousness" developed yet.

A girl who cheated on me, lied to me, disrespected me to my face and blew 2 college guys in the bathroom when we were still in high school, contacted me and apologized for her bad behavior.

I wasn't sure on how to respect and I just deleted her message and blocked her.

Some of my friends and family are saying that who cares about teenage past and that I should accept apology and date her now that she's more mature but others say that she hasn't changed and that I should date her and cheat on her to get back at her.

I definitely don't think that I could ever forgive her, I would prefer to just ignore it and move on but I will never accept the fact that "she was too young to know better" because I was a bit younger than her and I definitely rejected 2 other girls who asked me out because I knew that it's disrespectful and immoral.

She constantly says that she's a realist and that she doesn't care nor think about emotions. She only cares about immediate environment and what's in front of her. She says that she doesn't have internal imagination nor world and only cares what is real and she can touch.

She hates to talk about hypothetical scenarios, logical consistency and emotions. She tends to just talk about what she will do or someone else should do in order to improve their life or fix their environment. She constantly wants to work in the yard or fix things around the house or even just clean.

She is quite tempered and loses patience real fast and only wants results now, she goes head through the wall and refuses to learn but just wants things done here and now.

She has low emotional intelligence and refuses to talk about her emotions and emotions of other people.

She likes to talk about facts that she read and how world works and is but refuses to discuss logical procedure or truth of something. She reads it and claims it in very dry and matter of fact way.

She's very assertive when it comes to cashiers and waiters. She has no problem asserting her needs and complain nor blame other people.

She seems to value Se and Te but she seems to have absolutely no Ti, Ne and Ni but relatively decent Si.

She's hardworking and will always show sign of love through action or and doing things for someone or gifts but never use words of affirmation.

She focuses a lot of guilt, shame and image but doesn't care for status.

She cares a lot about aesthetics but is very hypochondriac despite pushing through hard work.

She often talks about equality and socialism which she is in favor of because she values hard work and being humble.

She constantly criticizes people for being immoral or corrupted.

I'm among LSE, SEE and ESI for her.

What do you guys think?

I've seen many posts make excuses and the behavior of teenagers cheating and committing minor sexual assaults because they're allegedly too young to know any better.

I definitely knew not to cheat and hurt other people, this is why I didn't even want to participate in hookup culture but it seems that many people condone this behavior to try and escape accountability.

I definitely knew not to cheat at 14, hurt people and I will definitely never forget nor forgive any ex that did that.

Society seems to take so much burden of accountability off of backs of teenagers but extensively punishes anyone above age of 20 and 30 for even smallest mistakes.

Teenagers have less experience and are less developed but are definitely conscious and rational humans, 30 years old will still not be as mature as 50 years old but it also depends from person to person.

Has a confident ability to construct hypothetical and relative frameworks. Cares a lot about logical consistency. Enjoys being challenged and enjoy engaging in process type of logic with other people. Isn't very ideological in terms of social norms but cares a lot about accuracy and precision of the truth that goes on behind the scenes. Dislikes social hierarchies and other made up categories that aren't automatically found in nature.

Can be good with optimization of its own environment and its own protocols but doesn't value nor care about things like productivity and application. Is more confident in conceptual and hypothetical thinking than using external systems that require a lot of memorization and translated thinking. Understands systems but struggles with taking initiative and making leverage towards external environment. Very slow to take action.

Is very confident and self aware about what they dislike and like. They consider this to be a completely subjective thing and are pro live and let live while being against objective morality. They are quite individualistic, don't believe in group identity but value that everyone should be validated and feel included for who they are instead of trying to fit in. They understand people really well but struggle to maintain, initiate and pursue relationships. They try to understand everyone but can become black and white when they feel betrayed which is quite often. Is usually very sympathetic but can easily turn self righteous. Idealizes relationships and ideas of people but struggle with real life relationships. They crave 1 on 1 relationships with pure and deep connection but most of real life relationships are completely meaningless to them since they lack this "one" connection.

Is good at perceiving their own emotions in the moment and justify them as "they are what they are". They are weak at self expression and directly showing emotions to other people like playing with kids which they find as cringe and too expressive but value subtle and emotional validation. They are perceptive to small changes in someone's tone and smile but struggle with initiating and doing that themselves. Cares about standing out and being unique and expression through art. Sees people as individual archetypes like comic book characters.

Has a strong inner world that's very visual and kind of like a mental palace. Focuses a lot on personal timeline and cause and effect of events and milestones in their life. They want to do everything at the right time and create perfect timeline for its own identity as if they're Tolkien writing Aragorn but still hate progression of time since they want to preserve ideal state in frozen form. Can be prone to constantly idealization and planning instead of taking initiative. Can be very indecisive because they want to pick perfect option but struggle with finding the one. Perceives and reconstructs world into more ideal world introspectively. Is often disappointed because external world isn't the way they envisioned it. Constantly sees strings of action in everything like moving with strings behind them and action affecting another action leaves invisible string of its effect on the object. Is very focused on how events unfold behind the scenes.

Is very natural at constantly producing alternative ways of seeing things, how things could be which makes them very indecisive. They constantly second guess themselves because they see too many valid possibilities and options which makes them fearful of making a wrong commitment because they don't want to limit or lock themselves out of potentially better one. This makes them very idealistic but also very indecisive in life. They want to constantly stimulate their mind by new possibilities but they seem to value finding and optimizing or refining the best one. They fear pursuing negative possibilities but don't struggle with seeing them nor expressing them to other people.

Person cares a lot about comfort, aesthetics and pleasant sensations. They're very picky about about food aesthetics because they know in great detail what they like and what they don't like. They usually ignore pain and health because they're too lazy for it. They're better with routines than scary novelty although they still crave novelty within routine. They enjoy being in very comfortable state which is very cozy and safe but sometimes crave more intense stimulation. They hate loud concerts due to sweaty people, unpredictable scenarios and people being overly dirty and assertive but they enjoy fast driving, listening to music while drinking soda or coffee. They enjoy traveling but hate to travel without their own car which feels safe and under control. They can't sleep in a different bed than their own. They spend a lot of time decorating their room and perfecting their aesthetics. Hates to deal with chores and feeling vulnerable. They have incredible sense of spatial awareness and they can memorize every place to great detail in colors and signs. They can't get lost even when blindfolded which makes them very good at traveling and organization.

They're very visually perceptive and focused on aesthetics but struggle with initiative and taking action in the moment. They're very insecure about what kind of force to use in the moment which makes them use too much or too little force which makes them overly passive or very reactive. They hate any kind of third party force towards them. They hate concept of leverage but they do enjoy perceiving violence despite hating it.

Struggling to exert your will against people and the environment. Constantly second guessing yourself and not knowing what you actually desire and just not feeling strong will towards something. Dislike competition but desiring control and perfection. Prone to avoidance. Dislike towards social hierarchies. Seeing all people as equals but wanting everyone to be different yet unique. Gaining strong confidence when feeling betrayed or getting angry. Enjoying to be laid back and gaining reassurance from others but refusal to be a follower. Very individualistic. Disliking confidence and assertion in others but personally needing and lacking it. Preferring if others deal with will instead of you.

Being disgusted and alienated from the real physical world because it seems underwhelming and inferior to your internal imagination. Caring a lot about aesthetics, decorating, food, comfort and other sensory pleasant stuff. Being very picky about food because you know in great detail what you like and why. Considering the aesthetics part of your identity. Hate using energy in the external world and maintenance but enjoying a low effort routine and safety.

Being confident on your own ability to make sense out of things. Caring a lot about logical consistency through hypothetical and relative frameworks. Enjoying debating and involving other people into logical discussions. Enjoying to explore perspectives and play devil's advocate but still preferring to find the truth that makes sense to you and you can verify it. You make protocols and rules in order to solve indecision. You dislike social structure and discussions about productivity.

Being confident and perceptive to what you feel and why. You have a strong and emotional inner world but you're very detached from other people and the environment. You can also be sensitive to toxicity in the environment and can easily take offense. You are scared of how people will react towards you emotionally. Feeling uncomfortable to express yourself but enjoying talking about it through logic. You care about emotional validation and people who aren't too expressive but very polite and nurturing.

What would these descriptions rule out and why?

I played original Mafia game back in early 00s and I remember the racing game but racing game in remake is way worse.

Spent 2 weeks trying to beat it and I'm always 14 out of 16.

Took me less time to beat Elden Ring and Dark Souls trilogy than this.

I want to buy a guitar to play on my couch and travel with. what would be comfortable for someone with small hands and won't sound high pitched like a banjo? I'm considering fame a-11 mini. I tested Harley Benton GS Travel but I hated v shaped neck. dreadnought and concert are too big for me.

I see a lot of people say that men struggle because they just open up.

I see man men who tried opening up but people in their environment just refuse to acknowledge and validate them.

I tried opening up to friends and they called me gay and weak.

If I try to express my struggles to my family, they throw a shoe at me and tell me to shut up because men shouldn't talk about feelings and that I bring shame to the family.

I had 2 therapists who had dropped me. One said that she doesn't have time for my nonsense and another said that she's not qualified enough for my case.

I just go through spirals and ruminate for at least 12 hours a day.

I'm trying cardio and gym on daily but it doesn't work.

I just feel like vomiting and passing out from anxiety at all times.

I feel lazy and incompetent but I wish that I could feel normal and have a job and normal relationships but it seems impossible.

I was diagnosed with OCD and cptsd.

If anyone else is going through it, you're not alone. I feel your struggles and I believe in you.

I remember playing an old game back in 2004 on my cousin's old IBM PC in Eastern Europe which was full of old Dos games.

There was this one game in which you played as a farmer or a hunter. You had a gun, you had to do platforming and shoot people and animals.

It looked like Dangerous Dave but you started on a farm and had background music.

It was very old game that was on the quality of Duke Nukem or Jazz Jackrabbit.

I know that background was very blue and there was some cozy music and it looked like you were in Russia or Montana.

We currently have 111 members and it's been active since december. Server focuses on typology. Primarily on Socionics and Psychosophy. We also have multiple typists if you need help.

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I made server back in december and we currently have 111 Discord users. You're welcome to join. Everyone is welcome. We also have multiple typists if you need help.

https://discord.gg/CsBZrccw2

Ti:

Has a confident ability to construct hypothetical and relative frameworks. Cares a lot about logical consistency. Enjoys being challenged and enjoy engaging in process type of logic with other people. Isn't very ideological in terms of social norms but cares a lot about accuracy and precision of the truth that goes on behind the scenes. Dislikes social hierarchies and other made up categories that aren't automatically found in nature.

Te:

Can be good with optimization of its own environment and its own protocols but doesn't value nor care about things like productivity and application. Is more confident in conceptual and hypothetical thinking than using external systems that require a lot of memorization and translated thinking. Understands systems but struggles with taking initiative and making leverage towards external environment. Very slow to take action.

Fi:

Is very confident and self aware about what they dislike and like. They consider this to be a completely subjective thing and are pro live and let live while being against objective morality. They are quite individualistic, don't believe in group identity but value that everyone should be validated and feel included for who they are instead of trying to fit in. They understand people really well but struggle to maintain, initiate and pursue relationships. They try to understand everyone but can become black and white when they feel betrayed which is quite often. Is usually very sympathetic but can easily turn self righteous. Idealizes relationships and ideas of people but struggle with real life relationships. They crave 1 on 1 relationships with pure and deep connection but most of real life relationships are completely meaningless to them since they lack this "one" connection.

Fe:

Is good at perceiving their own emotions in the moment and justify them as "they are what they are". They are weak at self expression and directly showing emotions to other people like playing with kids which they find as cringe and too expressive but value subtle and emotional validation. They are perceptive to small changes in someone's tone and smile but struggle with initiating and doing that themselves. Cares about standing out and being unique and expression through art. Sees people as individual archetypes like comic book characters.

Ni:

Has a strong inner world that's very visual and kind of like a mental palace. Focuses a lot on personal timeline and cause and effect of events and milestones in their life. They want to do everything at the right time and create perfect timeline for its own identity as if they're Tolkien writing Aragorn but still hate progression of time since they want to preserve ideal state in frozen form. Can be prone to constantly idealization and planning instead of taking initiative. Can be very indecisive because they want to pick perfect option but struggle with finding the one. Perceives and reconstructs world into more ideal world introspectively. Is often disappointed because external world isn't the way they envisioned it. Constantly sees strings of action in everything like moving with strings behind them and action affecting another action leaves invisible string of its effect on the object. Is very focused on how events unfold behind the scenes.

Ne:

Is very natural at constantly producing alternative ways of seeing things, how things could be which makes them very indecisive. They constantly second guess themselves because they see too many valid possibilities and options which makes them fearful of making a wrong commitment because they don't want to limit or lock themselves out of potentially better one. This makes them very idealistic but also very indecisive in life. They want to constantly stimulate their mind by new possibilities but they seem to value finding and optimizing or refining the best one. They fear pursuing negative possibilities but don't struggle with seeing them nor expressing them to other people.

Si:

Person cares a lot about comfort, aesthetics and pleasant sensations. They're very picky about about food aesthetics because they know in great detail what they like and what they don't like. They usually ignore pain and health because they're too lazy for it. They're better with routines than scary novelty although they still crave novelty within routine. They enjoy being in very comfortable state which is very cozy and safe but sometimes crave more intense stimulation. They hate loud concerts due to sweaty people, unpredictable scenarios and people being overly dirty and assertive but they enjoy fast driving, listening to music while drinking soda or coffee. They enjoy traveling but hate to travel without their own car which feels safe and under control. They can't sleep in a different bed than their own. They spend a lot of time decorating their room and perfecting their aesthetics. Hates to deal with chores and feeling vulnerable. They have incredible sense of spatial awareness and they can memorize every place to great detail in colors and signs. They can't get lost even when blindfolded which makes them very good at traveling and organization.

Se:

They're very visually perceptive and focused on aesthetics but struggle with initiative and taking action in the moment. They're very insecure about what kind of force to use in the moment which makes them use too much or too little force which makes them overly passive or very reactive. They hate any kind of third party force towards them. They hate concept of leverage but they do enjoy perceiving violence despite hating it.

What would these descriptions rule out and why?