u/GiveMeSomeSunshine3

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Suppose you're manifesting an SP and there's a 3P involvement. You try to avoid knowing anything about the 3P or even thinking about them.

But occasionally by coincidence or when curiosity gets better of you, you check your social media.

And if you have not blocked your SP, the social media shows their posts, their likes and reposts which directly or indirectly suggest that they are moving closer towards the 3P.

Like for e.g. it shows them people calling them a couple, them planning a wedding, your SP liking wedding reels and wedding dress/rings suggestions.

How do you ignore such overwhelming evidences which seem to go against your manifestation?

Those saying to delete the social media, what if social media is the only remaining connection between you and your SP? Like they are your crush whom you met through that social media app.

How do you just break the last remaining connection between you and your SP?

Experts and those who have been through similar situations kindly chip in with suggestions.

Suppose you're manifesting an SP and there's a 3P involvement. You try to avoid knowing anything about the 3P or even thinking about them.

But occasionally by coincidence or when curiosity gets better of you, you check your social media.

And if you have not blocked your SP, the social media shows their posts, their likes and reposts which directly or indirectly suggest that they are moving closer towards the 3P.

Like for e.g. it shows them people calling them a couple, them planning a wedding, your SP liking wedding reels and wedding dress/rings suggestions.

How do you ignore such overwhelming evidences which seem to go against your manifestation?

Those saying to delete the social media, what if social media is the only remaining connection between you and your SP? Like they are your crush whom you met through that social media app.

How do you just break the last remaining connection between you and your SP?

Experts and those who have been through similar situations kindly chip in with suggestions.

Would you advise to people going into AM setup or otherwise to avoid making it official before engagement or roka happens? R

Sorry if it happened and sorry for making you relive it. But can you answer a few questions:

1. How old were you two when it happened and how long were you dating each other?
2. What was the reason behind the relationship ending?
3. Were there any red flag signs in the initial stages of your relationship which you had ignored?
4. Were other people aware of your relationship (like you had announced it on your whatsapp or Instagram)? How did you deal with them and their unnecessary questions after the relationship ended?
5. How long did it take for you to finally move on from all this?

I know this is a very specific question but still. A friend of mine belonging to a lower caste from a rural area in Maharashtra is dating another friend of mine who's a Bihari Bhumihar Brahmin girl but born and brought up in Mumbai, for 2 years now. Today I got to know that the girl hasn't told his parents about this coz she thinks that they might not agree to this relationship. Obviously she should've been clear about this from the start but that cannot be changed now and the only solution is to try and convince her family. If they say yes then great but if they say no, then idk what will the two do.

What led you to this moment and how long did it take you to recover from this incident?

We all know prep phase, waiting for results, counselling is one of the most awful phases of your med-career. You want to do a lot of things but prep and then anxiety stops you from doing those things. You think once I enter a PG course, I will do this, I will do that, sort of make a bucket list.

So those who were in this phase last year or few years before, how has your life changed since then? Did you guys able to do anything or everything you had planned to do while you were in this phase?

Everyone rn is so tensed about the recalls, cut-offs and all, so figured let's see how people who went through the same couple of years ago are doing today.