u/Wonderland_was_lost

Most of the people meet their long term friends at school or university, but mostly school. I am a very extroverted and expressive person, but I’m 21 yo and I don’t have any friends, and zero close real friends. I don’t have anyone to share my happy news with, or ask anyone for support when I feel bad or smth bad happens. I’m crazy alone.

I was born in a small town, after high school all of my school friends moved to random big cities or other countries for life/study, but me…so I wouldn’t benefit from staying in my birth country much either. I moved abroad for uni, didn’t manage to get any friends, because 99% of people on my studying year were crazy introverted and not into building connections with new people. I managed to find short-term friendships form the Erasmus only among Spanish people ( I live in Poland). Idk if it is our generation that hates warm and expressive people or it’s just smth off about me….but I’m truly tired. I have so much love that I want to share with people, so many ideas on how I could spend with someone time…I’m tired of being alone. I can’t even do some activities that I want to on my own like visiting a night club or bar, because I often end up meeting horrible men who harass me in these places AGH.

I’m sad that I will probably never have a wedding and even if I do, I won’t be able to invite anyone, I won’t have bridesmaids, god mom to my kids if I ever get them, I will never have friends who I could invite over for a bbq as I always dreamt of, I will never go on a girls trip, I will never have any friendly closeness with anyone that I missed so much. It is hard to go from a school extroverted queen to a rejected by the society loner in adulthood. It feels like life is over, for the past 5 years I didn’t manage to find anyone.

I’m a very warm and expressive person, thinking about moving to the northern part of Europe because I love cold climates and quality of life is much better over there than in any other part of Europe. Due to me being a EU citizen and overall loving Europe, I don’t consider moving to any other part of the Europe (but maybe USA???). So I’m very curious if I’m gonna feel isolated if I move to Norway/Sweden, cause I’m introverted and prefer to have many friends. I love to have convos with strangers, I easily can support any convo, I’m a good listener too hahahaha. I love to frequently invite people over, cook for them, I love hugs, don’t mind any friendly physical contact like shaking hands, kissing in cheeks or smth. So I’m curious if I’m gonna get depressed in scandi/Northern Europe, I’m not a fun of overly protective of their personal space people who think that it is rude to suggest them some spontaneous trip or give a hug when we became friends already.

I’m a very warm and expressive person, thinking about moving to the northern part of Europe because I love cold climates and quality of life is much better over there than in any other part of Europe. Due to me being a EU citizen and overall loving Europe, I don’t consider moving to any other part of the Europe (but maybe USA???). So I’m very curious if I’m gonna feel isolated if I move to Norway/Sweden, cause I’m introverted and prefer to have many friends. I love to have convos with strangers, I easily can support any convo, I’m a good listener too hahahaha. I love to frequently invite people over, cook for them, I love hugs, don’t mind any friendly physical contact like shaking hands, kissing in cheeks or smth. So I’m curious if I’m gonna get depressed in scandi/Northern Europe, I’m not a fun of overly protective of their personal space people who think that it is rude to suggest them some spontaneous trip or give a hug when we became friends already.

I’m a very warm and expressive person, thinking about moving to the northern part of Europe because I love cold climates and quality of life is much better over there than in any other part of Europe. Due to me being a EU citizen and overall loving Europe, I don’t consider moving to any other part of the Europe (but maybe USA???). So I’m very curious if I’m gonna feel isolated if I move to Norway/Sweden, cause I’m introverted and prefer to have many friends. I love to have convos with strangers, I easily can support any convo, I’m a good listener too hahahaha. I love to frequently invite people over, cook for them, I love hugs, don’t mind any friendly physical contact like shaking hands, kissing in cheeks or smth. So I’m curious if I’m gonna get depressed in scandi/Northern Europe, I’m not a fun of overly protective of their personal space people who think that it is rude to suggest them some spontaneous trip or give a hug when we became friends already.

I feel like I you aren’t meant to be with someone, no matter how hard you try you won’t be with them. You can live in the same apartment complex or visit the same place every day, you can try hard to get this person, but if it is not meant to be then it won’t happen. And in the same time, u can meet someone briefly on a coffee break and somehow your relationship will develop by itself not even clearly understanding how it’s happening and this person may end up being the love of your life. What do u think guys?

My dad met my mom on the market where he was working and he stayed there longer than supposed to cause of the annoying costumer, my dad was a shy and not really decisive person ,but smth made him ask my moms phone number. It was back in time when phones weren’t very popular, so she gave him a phone number of her workplace and home adres (actually, my grandma did, cause mom was too stunned to speak lol). He called her workplace, but nobody replied, so he went to look for her house, confused the addressed lmao, but he found her. I also have other similar stories with people that used to be in my life, do maybe if it is a fate then it will happen no matter what?

I’m asking that, because I crazy liked one guy who I saw briefly, but unfortunately I can’t approach him, honestly. So maybe if it is meant to be for us together then we will be? Or there will be someone else…I’m 21 and never had a relationship eh. But it’s not even about me never ever being in a relationship, there was just something special about this guy that I randomly felt with my intuition.

I feel like I you aren’t meant to befriend someone, no matter how hard you try you won’t make it. You can live in the same apartment complex or visit the same place every day, you can try hard to get this person, but if it is not meant to be then it won’t happen. And in the same time, u can meet someone briefly on a coffee break and become friends for life. What do u think guys?

I’m thinking about moving to Norway, I think I will move to Asker, I want smth close to Oslo.

I noticed that it’s hard to find bus stops around Norway, in smaller than Oslo type of cities also, because Norway is just mountains and hills mostly (I’m still shocked by that, cause I couldn’t imagine that it is built that way, I spent my whole life living on the flat surfaces lmao). So I’m curious if you can actually live comfortably in Norway without driving a car?

I still don’t have my driver license even tho I’m 21, I’m crazy terrified of the traffic and driving, getting a car is my huge nightmare. I would absolutely love to get a license for the boat and drive on the water, but definitely not on the road.

Hey guys, so I’m thinking about moving to Norway and I have an alt style, when I been to Norway I noticed that people are dressed mostly the same, same "old money" classic style, the makeup, the hair, the clothes etc…just the same classic look. On the net making research about life in Norway I found many videos saying that if you have an alt or related style, then u won’t make friends over there and won’t be accepted by the society. I wouldn’t like to lose myself moving to any country, so I’m just curious if these internet statements are true?

Hey guys, I’m Ukrainian and I been living in Poland since 2021. I want to move to some country, but idk which one. Logically I understand that I better pick Norway because I love cold climates and rain, I been to Norway recently and it turned out to be much better than I expected. Everyone told me that Norwegians are cold and reserved, but irl they turned out to be very nice and talkative , I also enjoyed hearing their superior towards Ukraine, kinda appreciated it:) I loved the food, loved the people, loved their lifestyle that they have sea and forests close, I’m from the southern Ukraine so it is very essential for me to have a beach nearby, in western part of Poland every day I feel like I’m missing the sea, even tho I been living there for the last 5 years, I still didn’t get used to the absence of the sea….so I can’t imagine living any longer far away from the beach, just can’t….. beaches are crazy important to me, I don’t even like mountains much, but beaches are mandatory for me, I don’t see any sense in life if I’m gonna live far away from the beach. I liked the Norwegian food even tho I heard lots of complaints about it, I liked the Norwegian language even tho I heard a lot of people talking shit about it, I loved the amazing nature and saunas in water, and weather - is just a maxing, when the whole Europe was suffering from the 40 degrees, I was chilling on the beach having 26-28 degrees. I really love cold weather, I love to breathe cold air in, I love to come home and try to warm up instead of trying to cool down after walking under the sun, and I just hate sweating. I actually enjoyed white nights, u get so tired during the day, that ur biological clock starts to work just fine, and closer to 11 om u r feeling tired and falling asleep.

Here in Poland I live in a student city where we have lots of Erasmus students from Spain particularly, and I have never ever met better people than them, they are so open, loud and fun! They remind me of souther Ukraine’s a lot (Odesa region), we are also loud and very expressive, joke a lot and are very direct. I really love Spanish people and would love to live among them, I also do really love Spanish food, I love the sea products a lot. I had many Spanish people asking me to move there, I almost got a few boyfriends from Spain, even tho I don’t have much of luck around my own people lamo, but I think that I will feel miserable under a huge heat, in Odesa we have 40-50 degrees in summer ☠️, I remember how I hated it and promised myself that I will move to the cold country in the future.

And I do like how polite and nice people in Norway are, but I so don’t want to become all of that reserved and silent, I’m loud and expressive, and very open, and talkative…I so don’t want to lose it, and I don’t want to scare Norwegian people away lmao, because of my personality. And I feel great being the way I am, I don’t want to change it, honestly. I also heard of crazy Norwegian standards that u need a lot of stuff to fit into the society like hide ur debt, get two cars, a house and some luxury stuff, I feel like it is so stupid even tho I’m a materialistic person, and tbh I don’t really care about being accepted by the society in my mind, but I understand that to gain connections u gotta fit in a bit and I am a crazy sociable person, so I want to have lots of friends too. I’m so confused. I don’t really know how to play my cards right. But Norway does have great free healthcare, working conditions, good quality of life etc….

Also, in thinking about entering another uni cause my first degree is graphic design and the whole IT field seems to do very bad, so idk tbh who I wanna be, I think I would lie, to be some person who designs implants or smth, maybe a doctor but not sure, or psychiatrist, or…. I don’t know yet tbh…. I would love to work in IT, cause I wanna work remote, but this field seems to do rly bad rn and probably in the future, and I’m bad at math so i don’t even know what to do lmao. For the background check: I have a double citizenship - Bulgarian (EU citizenship)and Ukrainian, so I can’t take a refugee status anywhere, but I can easily move anywhere I want, my family is ready to help me with changing my major and moving to another country. I’m turning 22 in November.

I feel very old, very lost, just hhorrible… while my ex classmates are owning cars and starting families, I’m stuck with a useless degree and don’t know what to do. And any country I make a research on moving to, I hear some horrible shit and people begging not to move here and how they want to get out from this country.

Hey guys, I’m Ukrainian and I been living in Poland since 2021. I want to move to some country, but idk which one. Logically I understand that I better pick Norway because I love cold climates and rain, I been to Norway recently and it turned out to be much better than I expected. Everyone told me that Norwegians are cold and reserved, but irl they turned out to be very nice and talkative , I also enjoyed hearing their superior towards Ukraine, kinda appreciated it:) I loved the food, loved the people, loved their lifestyle that they have sea and forests close, I’m from the southern Ukraine so it is very essential for me to have a beach nearby, in western part of Poland every day I feel like I’m missing the sea, even tho I been living there for the last 5 years, I still didn’t get used to the absence of the sea….so I can’t imagine living any longer far away from the beach, just can’t….. beaches are crazy important to me, I don’t even like mountains much, but beaches are mandatory for me, I don’t see any sense in life if I’m gonna live far away from the beach. I liked the Norwegian food even tho I heard lots of complaints about it, I liked the Norwegian language even tho I heard a lot of people talking shit about it, I loved the amazing nature and saunas in water, and weather - is just a maxing, when the whole Europe was suffering from the 40 degrees, I was chilling on the beach having 26-28 degrees. I really love cold weather, I love to breathe cold air in, I love to come home and try to warm up instead of trying to cool down after walking under the sun, and I just hate sweating. I actually enjoyed white nights, u get so tired during the day, that ur biological clock starts to work just fine, and closer to 11 om u r feeling tired and falling asleep.

Here in Poland I live in a student city where we have lots of Erasmus students from Spain particularly, and I have never ever met better people than them, they are so open, loud and fun! They remind me of souther Ukraine’s a lot (Odesa region), we are also loud and very expressive, joke a lot and are very direct. I really love Spanish people and would love to live among them, I also do really love Spanish food, I love the sea products a lot. I had many Spanish people asking me to move there, I almost got a few boyfriends from Spain, even tho I don’t have much of luck around my own people lamo, but I think that I will feel miserable under a huge heat, in Odesa we have 40-50 degrees in summer ☠️, I remember how I hated it and promised myself that I will move to the cold country in the future.

And I do like how polite and nice people in Norway are, but I so don’t want to become all of that reserved and silent, I’m loud and expressive, and very open, and talkative…I so don’t want to lose it, and I don’t want to scare Norwegian people away lmao, because of my personality. And I feel great being the way I am, I don’t want to change it, honestly. I also heard of crazy Norwegian standards that u need a lot of stuff to fit into the society like hide ur debt, get two cars, a house and some luxury stuff, I feel like it is so stupid even tho I’m a materialistic person, and tbh I don’t really care about being accepted by the society in my mind, but I understand that to gain connections u gotta fit in a bit and I am a crazy sociable person, so I want to have lots of friends too. I’m so confused. I don’t really know how to play my cards right. But Norway does have great free healthcare, working conditions, good quality of life etc….

Also, in thinking about entering another uni cause my first degree is graphic design and the whole IT field seems to do very bad, so idk tbh who I wanna be, I think I would lie, to be some person who designs implants or smth, maybe a doctor but not sure, or psychiatrist, or…. I don’t know yet tbh…. I would love to work in IT, cause I wanna work remote, but this field seems to do rly bad rn and probably in the future, and I’m bad at math so i don’t even know what to do lmao. For the background check: I have a double citizenship - Bulgarian (EU citizenship)and Ukrainian, so I can’t take a refugee status anywhere, but I can easily move anywhere I want, my family is ready to help me with changing my major and moving to another country. I’m turning 22 in November.

I feel very old, very lost, just hhorrible… while my ex classmates are owning cars and starting families, I’m stuck with a useless degree and don’t know what to do. And any country I make a research on moving to, I hear some horrible shit and people begging not to move here and how they want to get out from this country.

Hey guys, I’m Ukrainian and I been living in Poland since 2021. I want to move to some country, but idk which one. Logically I understand that I better pick Norway because I love cold climates and rain, I been to Norway recently and it turned out to be much better than I expected. Everyone told me that Norwegians are cold and reserved, but irl they turned out to be very nice and talkative , I also enjoyed hearing their superior towards Ukraine, kinda appreciated it:) I loved the food, loved the people, loved their lifestyle that they have sea and forests close, I’m from the southern Ukraine so it is very essential for me to have a beach nearby, in western part of Poland every day I feel like I’m missing the sea, even tho I been living there for the last 5 years, I still didn’t get used to the absence of the sea….so I can’t imagine living any longer far away from the beach, just can’t….. beaches are crazy important to me, I don’t even like mountains much, but beaches are mandatory for me, I don’t see any sense in life if I’m gonna live far away from the beach. I liked the Norwegian food even tho I heard lots of complaints about it, I liked the Norwegian language even tho I heard a lot of people talking shit about it, I loved the amazing nature and saunas in water, and weather - is just a maxing, when the whole Europe was suffering from the 40 degrees, I was chilling on the beach having 26-28 degrees. I really love cold weather, I love to breathe cold air in, I love to come home and try to warm up instead of trying to cool down after walking under the sun, and I just hate sweating. I actually enjoyed white nights, u get so tired during the day, that ur biological clock starts to work just fine, and closer to 11 om u r feeling tired and falling asleep.

Here in Poland I live in a student city where we have lots of Erasmus students from Spain particularly, and I have never ever met better people than them, they are so open, loud and fun! They remind me of souther Ukraine’s a lot (Odesa region), we are also loud and very expressive, joke a lot and are very direct. I really love Spanish people and would love to live among them, I also do really love Spanish food, I love the sea products a lot. I had many Spanish people asking me to move there, I almost got a few boyfriends from Spain, even tho I don’t have much of luck around my own people lamo, but I think that I will feel miserable under a huge heat, in Odesa we have 40-50 degrees in summer ☠️, I remember how I hated it and promised myself that I will move to the cold country in the future.

And I do like how polite and nice people in Norway are, but I so don’t want to become all of that reserved and silent, I’m loud and expressive, and very open, and talkative…I so don’t want to lose it, and I don’t want to scare Norwegian people away lmao, because of my personality. And I feel great being the way I am, I don’t want to change it, honestly. I also heard of crazy Norwegian standards that u need a lot of stuff to fit into the society like hide ur debt, get two cars, a house and some luxury stuff, I feel like it is so stupid even tho I’m a materialistic person, and tbh I don’t really care about being accepted by the society in my mind, but I understand that to gain connections u gotta fit in a bit and I am a crazy sociable person, so I want to have lots of friends too. I’m so confused. I don’t really know how to play my cards right. But Norway does have great free healthcare, working conditions, good quality of life etc….

Also, in thinking about entering another uni cause my first degree is graphic design and the whole IT field seems to do very bad, so idk tbh who I wanna be, I think I would lie, to be some person who designs implants or smth, maybe a doctor but not sure, or psychiatrist, or…. I don’t know yet tbh…. I would love to work in IT, cause I wanna work remote, but this field seems to do rly bad rn and probably in the future, and I’m bad at math so i don’t even know what to do lmao. For the background check: I have a double citizenship - Bulgarian (EU citizenship)and Ukrainian, so I can’t take a refugee status anywhere, but I can easily move anywhere I want, my family is ready to help me with changing my major and moving to another country. I’m turning 22 in November.

I feel very old, very lost, just hhorrible… while my ex classmates are owning cars and starting families, I’m stuck with a useless degree and don’t know what to do. And any country I make a research on moving to, I hear some horrible shit and people begging not to move here and how they want to get out from this country.

Hey guys, I’m Ukrainian and I been living in Poland since 2021. I want to move to some country, but idk which one. Logically I understand that I better pick Norway because I love cold climates and rain, I been to Norway recently and it turned out to be much better than I expected. Everyone told me that Norwegians are cold and reserved, but irl they turned out to be very nice and talkative , I also enjoyed hearing their superior towards Ukraine, kinda appreciated it:) I loved the food, loved the people, loved their lifestyle that they have sea and forests close, I’m from the southern Ukraine so it is very essential for me to have a beach nearby, in western part of Poland every day I feel like I’m missing the sea, even tho I been living there for the last 5 years, I still didn’t get used to the absence of the sea….so I can’t imagine living any longer far away from the beach, just can’t….. beaches are crazy important to me, I don’t even like mountains much, but beaches are mandatory for me, I don’t see any sense in life if I’m gonna live far away from the beach. I liked the Norwegian food even tho I heard lots of complaints about it, I liked the Norwegian language even tho I heard a lot of people talking shit about it, I loved the amazing nature and saunas in water, and weather - is just a maxing, when the whole Europe was suffering from the 40 degrees, I was chilling on the beach having 26-28 degrees. I really love cold weather, I love to breathe cold air in, I love to come home and try to warm up instead of trying to cool down after walking under the sun, and I just hate sweating. I actually enjoyed white nights, u get so tired during the day, that ur biological clock starts to work just fine, and closer to 11 om u r feeling tired and falling asleep.

Here in Poland I live in a student city where we have lots of Erasmus students from Spain particularly, and I have never ever met better people than them, they are so open, loud and fun! They remind me of souther Ukraine’s a lot (Odesa region), we are also loud and very expressive, joke a lot and are very direct. I really love Spanish people and would love to live among them, I also do really love Spanish food, I love the sea products a lot. I had many Spanish people asking me to move there, I almost got a few boyfriends from Spain, even tho I don’t have much of luck around my own people lamo, but I think that I will feel miserable under a huge heat, in Odesa we have 40-50 degrees in summer ☠️, I remember how I hated it and promised myself that I will move to the cold country in the future.

And I do like how polite and nice people in Norway are, but I so don’t want to become all of that reserved and silent, I’m loud and expressive, and very open, and talkative…I so don’t want to lose it, and I don’t want to scare Norwegian people away lmao, because of my personality. And I feel great being the way I am, I don’t want to change it, honestly. I also heard of crazy Norwegian standards that u need a lot of stuff to fit into the society like hide ur debt, get two cars, a house and some luxury stuff, I feel like it is so stupid even tho I’m a materialistic person, and tbh I don’t really care about being accepted by the society in my mind, but I understand that to gain connections u gotta fit in a bit and I am a crazy sociable person, so I want to have lots of friends too. I’m so confused. I don’t really know how to play my cards right. But Norway does have great free healthcare, working conditions, good quality of life etc….

Also, in thinking about entering another uni cause my first degree is graphic design and the whole IT field seems to do very bad, so idk tbh who I wanna be, I think I would lie, to be some person who designs implants or smth, maybe a doctor but not sure, or psychiatrist, or…. I don’t know yet tbh…. I would love to work in IT, cause I wanna work remote, but this field seems to do rly bad rn and probably in the future, and I’m bad at math so i don’t even know what to do lmao. For the background check: I have a double citizenship - Bulgarian (EU citizenship)and Ukrainian, so I can’t take a refugee status anywhere, but I can easily move anywhere I want, my family is ready to help me with changing my major and moving to another country. I’m turning 22 in November.

I feel very old, very lost, just hhorrible… while my ex classmates are owning cars and starting families, I’m stuck with a useless degree and don’t know what to do. And any country I make a research on moving to, I hear some horrible shit and people begging not to move here and how they want to get out from this country.

Hey guys, I’m Ukrainian and I been living in Poland since 2021. I want to move to some country, but idk which one. Logically I understand that I better pick Norway because I love cold climates and rain, I been to Norway recently and it turned out to be much better than I expected. Everyone told me that Norwegians are cold and reserved, but irl they turned out to be very nice and talkative , I also enjoyed hearing their superior towards Ukraine, kinda appreciated it:) I loved the food, loved the people, loved their lifestyle that they have sea and forests close, I’m from the southern Ukraine so it is very essential for me to have a beach nearby, in western part of Poland every day I feel like I’m missing the sea, even tho I been living there for the last 5 years, I still didn’t get used to the absence of the sea….so I can’t imagine living any longer far away from the beach, just can’t….. beaches are crazy important to me, I don’t even like mountains much, but beaches are mandatory for me, I don’t see any sense in life if I’m gonna live far away from the beach. I liked the Norwegian food even tho I heard lots of complaints about it, I liked the Norwegian language even tho I heard a lot of people talking shit about it, I loved the amazing nature and saunas in water, and weather - is just a maxing, when the whole Europe was suffering from the 40 degrees, I was chilling on the beach having 26-28 degrees. I really love cold weather, I love to breathe cold air in, I love to come home and try to warm up instead of trying to cool down after walking under the sun, and I just hate sweating. I actually enjoyed white nights, u get so tired during the day, that ur biological clock starts to work just fine, and closer to 11 om u r feeling tired and falling asleep.

Here in Poland I live in a student city where we have lots of Erasmus students from Spain particularly, and I have never ever met better people than them, they are so open, loud and fun! They remind me of souther Ukraine’s a lot (Odesa region), we are also loud and very expressive, joke a lot and are very direct. I really love Spanish people and would love to live among them, I also do really love Spanish food, I love the sea products a lot. I had many Spanish people asking me to move there, I almost got a few boyfriends from Spain, even tho I don’t have much of luck around my own people lamo, but I think that I will feel miserable under a huge heat, in Odesa we have 40-50 degrees in summer ☠️, I remember how I hated it and promised myself that I will move to the cold country in the future.

And I do like how polite and nice people in Norway are, but I so don’t want to become all of that reserved and silent, I’m loud and expressive, and very open, and talkative…I so don’t want to lose it, and I don’t want to scare Norwegian people away lmao, because of my personality. And I feel great being the way I am, I don’t want to change it, honestly. I also heard of crazy Norwegian standards that u need a lot of stuff to fit into the society like hide ur debt, get two cars, a house and some luxury stuff, I feel like it is so stupid even tho I’m a materialistic person, and tbh I don’t really care about being accepted by the society in my mind, but I understand that to gain connections u gotta fit in a bit and I am a crazy sociable person, so I want to have lots of friends too. I’m so confused. I don’t really know how to play my cards right. But Norway does have great free healthcare, working conditions, good quality of life etc….

Also, in thinking about entering another uni cause my first degree is graphic design and the whole IT field seems to do very bad, so idk tbh who I wanna be, I think I would lie, to be some person who designs implants or smth, maybe a doctor but not sure, or psychiatrist, or…. I don’t know yet tbh…. I would love to work in IT, cause I wanna work remote, but this field seems to do rly bad rn and probably in the future, and I’m bad at math so i don’t even know what to do lmao. For the background check: I have a double citizenship - Bulgarian (EU citizenship)and Ukrainian, so I can’t take a refugee status anywhere, but I can easily move anywhere I want, my family is ready to help me with changing my major and moving to another country. I’m turning 22 in November.

I feel very old, very lost, just hhorrible… while my ex classmates are owning cars and starting families, I’m stuck with a useless degree and don’t know what to do. And any country I make a research on moving to, I hear some horrible shit and people begging not to move here and how they want to get out from this country.

Hey guys, I’m Ukrainian and I been living in Poland since 2021. I want to move to some country, but idk which one. Logically I understand that I better pick Norway because I love cold climates and rain, I been to Norway recently and it turned out to be much better than I expected. Everyone told me that Norwegians are cold and reserved, but irl they turned out to be very nice and talkative , I also enjoyed hearing their superior towards Ukraine, kinda appreciated it:) I loved the food, loved the people, loved their lifestyle that they have sea and forests close, I’m from the southern Ukraine so it is very essential for me to have a beach nearby, in western part of Poland every day I feel like I’m missing the sea, even tho I been living there for the last 5 years, I still didn’t get used to the absence of the sea….so I can’t imagine living any longer far away from the beach, just can’t….. beaches are crazy important to me, I don’t even like mountains much, but beaches are mandatory for me, I don’t see any sense in life if I’m gonna live far away from the beach. I liked the Norwegian food even tho I heard lots of complaints about it, I liked the Norwegian language even tho I heard a lot of people talking shit about it, I loved the amazing nature and saunas in water, and weather - is just a maxing, when the whole Europe was suffering from the 40 degrees, I was chilling on the beach having 26-28 degrees. I really love cold weather, I love to breathe cold air in, I love to come home and try to warm up instead of trying to cool down after walking under the sun, and I just hate sweating. I actually enjoyed white nights, u get so tired during the day, that ur biological clock starts to work just fine, and closer to 11 om u r feeling tired and falling asleep.

Here in Poland I live in a student city where we have lots of Erasmus students from Spain particularly, and I have never ever met better people than them, they are so open, loud and fun! They remind me of souther Ukraine’s a lot (Odesa region), we are also loud and very expressive, joke a lot and are very direct. I really love Spanish people and would love to live among them, I also do really love Spanish food, I love the sea products a lot. I had many Spanish people asking me to move there, I almost got a few boyfriends from Spain, even tho I don’t have much of luck around my own people lamo, but I think that I will feel miserable under a huge heat, in Odesa we have 40-50 degrees in summer ☠️, I remember how I hated it and promised myself that I will move to the cold country in the future.

And I do like how polite and nice people in Norway are, but I so don’t want to become all of that reserved and silent, I’m loud and expressive, and very open, and talkative…I so don’t want to lose it, and I don’t want to scare Norwegian people away lmao, because of my personality. And I feel great being the way I am, I don’t want to change it, honestly. I also heard of crazy Norwegian standards that u need a lot of stuff to fit into the society like hide ur debt, get two cars, a house and some luxury stuff, I feel like it is so stupid even tho I’m a materialistic person, and tbh I don’t really care about being accepted by the society in my mind, but I understand that to gain connections u gotta fit in a bit and I am a crazy sociable person, so I want to have lots of friends too. I’m so confused. I don’t really know how to play my cards right. But Norway does have great free healthcare, working conditions, good quality of life etc….

Also, in thinking about entering another uni cause my first degree is graphic design and the whole IT field seems to do very bad, so idk tbh who I wanna be, I think I would lie, to be some person who designs implants or smth, maybe a doctor but not sure, or psychiatrist, or…. I don’t know yet tbh…. I would love to work in IT, cause I wanna work remote, but this field seems to do rly bad rn and probably in the future, and I’m bad at math so i don’t even know what to do lmao. For the background check: I have a double citizenship - Bulgarian (EU citizenship)and Ukrainian, so I can’t take a refugee status anywhere, but I can easily move anywhere I want, my family is ready to help me with changing my major and moving to another country. I’m turning 22 in November.

I feel very old, very lost, just hhorrible… while my ex classmates are owning cars and starting families, I’m stuck with a useless degree and don’t know what to do. And any country I make a research on moving to, I hear some horrible shit and people begging not to move here and how they want to get out from this country.

Hey guys, I’m Ukrainian and I been living in Poland since 2021. I want to move to some country, but idk which one. Logically I understand that I better pick Norway because I love cold climates and rain, I been to Norway recently and it turned out to be much better than I expected. Everyone told me that Norwegians are cold and reserved, but irl they turned out to be very nice and talkative , I also enjoyed hearing their superior towards Ukraine, kinda appreciated it:) I loved the food, loved the people, loved their lifestyle that they have sea and forests close, I’m from the southern Ukraine so it is very essential for me to have a beach nearby, in western part of Poland every day I feel like I’m missing the sea, even tho I been living there for the last 5 years, I still didn’t get used to the absence of the sea….so I can’t imagine living any longer far away from the beach, just can’t….. beaches are crazy important to me, I don’t even like mountains much, but beaches are mandatory for me, I don’t see any sense in life if I’m gonna live far away from the beach. I liked the Norwegian food even tho I heard lots of complaints about it, I liked the Norwegian language even tho I heard a lot of people talking shit about it, I loved the amazing nature and saunas in water, and weather - is just a maxing, when the whole Europe was suffering from the 40 degrees, I was chilling on the beach having 26-28 degrees. I really love cold weather, I love to breathe cold air in, I love to come home and try to warm up instead of trying to cool down after walking under the sun, and I just hate sweating. I actually enjoyed white nights, u get so tired during the day, that ur biological clock starts to work just fine, and closer to 11 om u r feeling tired and falling asleep.

Here in Poland I live in a student city where we have lots of Erasmus students from Spain particularly, and I have never ever met better people than them, they are so open, loud and fun! They remind me of souther Ukraine’s a lot (Odesa region), we are also loud and very expressive, joke a lot and are very direct. I really love Spanish people and would love to live among them, I also do really love Spanish food, I love the sea products a lot. I had many Spanish people asking me to move there, I almost got a few boyfriends from Spain, even tho I don’t have much of luck around my own people lamo, but I think that I will feel miserable under a huge heat, in Odesa we have 40-50 degrees in summer ☠️, I remember how I hated it and promised myself that I will move to the cold country in the future.

And I do like how polite and nice people in Norway are, but I so don’t want to become all of that reserved and silent, I’m loud and expressive, and very open, and talkative…I so don’t want to lose it, and I don’t want to scare Norwegian people away lmao, because of my personality. And I feel great being the way I am, I don’t want to change it, honestly. I also heard of crazy Norwegian standards that u need a lot of stuff to fit into the society like hide ur debt, get two cars, a house and some luxury stuff, I feel like it is so stupid even tho I’m a materialistic person, and tbh I don’t really care about being accepted by the society in my mind, but I understand that to gain connections u gotta fit in a bit and I am a crazy sociable person, so I want to have lots of friends too. I’m so confused. I don’t really know how to play my cards right. But Norway does have great free healthcare, working conditions, good quality of life etc….

Also, in thinking about entering another uni cause my first degree is graphic design and the whole IT field seems to do very bad, so idk tbh who I wanna be, I think I would lie, to be some person who designs implants or smth, maybe a doctor but not sure, or psychiatrist, or…. I don’t know yet tbh…. I would love to work in IT, cause I wanna work remote, but this field seems to do rly bad rn and probably in the future, and I’m bad at math so i don’t even know what to do lmao. For the background check: I have a double citizenship - Bulgarian (EU citizenship)and Ukrainian, so I can’t take a refugee status anywhere, but I can easily move anywhere I want, my family is ready to help me with changing my major and moving to another country. I’m turning 22 in November.

I feel very old, very lost, just hhorrible… while my ex classmates are owning cars and starting families, I’m stuck with a useless degree and don’t know what to do. And any country I make a research on moving to, I hear some horrible shit and people begging not to move here and how they want to get out from this country.

Hey guys, I’m Ukrainian and I been living in Poland since 2021. I want to move to some country, but idk which one. Logically I understand that I better pick Norway because I love cold climates and rain, I been to Norway recently and it turned out to be much better than I expected. Everyone told me that Norwegians are cold and reserved, but irl they turned out to be very nice and talkative , I also enjoyed hearing their superior towards Ukraine, kinda appreciated it:) I loved the food, loved the people, loved their lifestyle that they have sea and forests close, I’m from the southern Ukraine so it is very essential for me to have a beach nearby, in western part of Poland every day I feel like I’m missing the sea, even tho I been living there for the last 5 years, I still didn’t get used to the absence of the sea….so I can’t imagine living any longer far away from the beach, just can’t….. beaches are crazy important to me, I don’t even like mountains much, but beaches are mandatory for me, I don’t see any sense in life if I’m gonna live far away from the beach. I liked the Norwegian food even tho I heard lots of complaints about it, I liked the Norwegian language even tho I heard a lot of people talking shit about it, I loved the amazing nature and saunas in water, and weather - is just a maxing, when the whole Europe was suffering from the 40 degrees, I was chilling on the beach having 26-28 degrees. I really love cold weather, I love to breathe cold air in, I love to come home and try to warm up instead of trying to cool down after walking under the sun, and I just hate sweating. I actually enjoyed white nights, u get so tired during the day, that ur biological clock starts to work just fine, and closer to 11 om u r feeling tired and falling asleep.

Here in Poland I live in a student city where we have lots of Erasmus students from Spain particularly, and I have never ever met better people than them, they are so open, loud and fun! They remind me of souther Ukraine’s a lot (Odesa region), we are also loud and very expressive, joke a lot and are very direct. I really love Spanish people and would love to live among them, I also do really love Spanish food, I love the sea products a lot. I had many Spanish people asking me to move there, I almost got a few boyfriends from Spain, even tho I don’t have much of luck around my own people lamo, but I think that I will feel miserable under a huge heat, in Odesa we have 40-50 degrees in summer ☠️, I remember how I hated it and promised myself that I will move to the cold country in the future.

And I do like how polite and nice people in Norway are, but I so don’t want to become all of that reserved and silent, I’m loud and expressive, and very open, and talkative…I so don’t want to lose it, and I don’t want to scare Norwegian people away lmao, because of my personality. And I feel great being the way I am, I don’t want to change it, honestly. I also heard of crazy Norwegian standards that u need a lot of stuff to fit into the society like hide ur debt, get two cars, a house and some luxury stuff, I feel like it is so stupid even tho I’m a materialistic person, and tbh I don’t really care about being accepted by the society in my mind, but I understand that to gain connections u gotta fit in a bit and I am a crazy sociable person, so I want to have lots of friends too. I’m so confused. I don’t really know how to play my cards right. But Norway does have great free healthcare, working conditions, good quality of life etc….

Also, in thinking about entering another uni cause my first degree is graphic design and the whole IT field seems to do very bad, so idk tbh who I wanna be, I think I would lie, to be some person who designs implants or smth, maybe a doctor but not sure, or psychiatrist, or…. I don’t know yet tbh…. I would love to work in IT, cause I wanna work remote, but this field seems to do rly bad rn and probably in the future, and I’m bad at math so i don’t even know what to do lmao. For the background check: I have a double citizenship - Bulgarian (EU citizenship)and Ukrainian, so I can’t take a refugee status anywhere, but I can easily move anywhere I want, my family is ready to help me with changing my major and moving to another country. I’m turning 22 in November.

I feel very old, very lost, just hhorrible… while my ex classmates are owning cars and starting families, I’m stuck with a useless degree and don’t know what to do. And any country I make a research on moving to, I hear some horrible shit and people begging not to move here and how they want to get out from this country.

Hey guys, so I have some relatives who live in Norway and because of that I got a chance to visit a few places: Filtet, Drammen, some random places in Asker, Arendal, and Oslo. It is my first time visiting Norway, and I really loved the nature. I love how clean the air is, I loved the food (a lot of people hate on Norwegian food, but I honestly liked the products and food over there), and I liked that people were very nice to me in all of these places, even though everyone told me that Norwegians are very cold people and that it is better to not even look at them. Mountains and sea in the same place, weather — that’s what I love the most about Norway.

For my background: I'm from Ukraine, and I have been living in Poland since 2021 because I entered university there. I have been looking for a stable job for the past year (I already have 3 years of experience in this field) since graduation (graphic design, UX/UI design) and got NOTHING. The job market is horrendous in the whole world, and Poland especially. And I do love Poland; it is a great and pretty underrated country, but I don't see my future there... I didn't expect Norway to be that good. Yeah, I heard that it is an astonishingly beautiful country, but I didn't expect to like the food over there because of how everyone was complaining about it, and I didn't expect people there to be nice at all. I didn't know that people swim in Norway in summer... so I'm crazy impressed, ngl.

I always wanted to live in a country with the sea and a cold climate; I didn't know that these two things can coexist. My English is C1, and I understand that to live in Norway you must learn Norwegian, and honestly, I do love this language — I think it is great! I also like how LGBT-friendly Norway is, how open-minded people over there are. Idk, I just really love everything for now. The only thing that I'm not very happy about is that you kind of need a car in Norway because of the infrastructure, yeah... and prices are high. But if I manage to get a job in Norway, then why not? I honestly don't like how people are complaining about the prices and recommend living in a cheaper country, because moving to some country isn't just about the money - you honestly gotta love its culture, climate, food, etc. And Norway seems perfect to me for now. We all gonna spend hours at some job, then why not to spend these hours in the country that you actually enjoy living in? I also can’t imagine a better country to start a family in and live.

Unfortunately, I can't move here as a refugee (it would have been much easier; I would come here asap, learn the language, and then go to uni/get a job). I have EU citizenship, so I can move here as an EU citizen only. I am thinking about learning the language, then going to Norwegian healthcare school/nursing, and then working there, because these jobs seem to be in the highest demand in Norway. I wouldn't stay at my relatives' place because we don't have a very good relationship; I would move here alone, rent a room, and visit school/uni. I honestly don't have any place to go, I can't go to Ukraine because of the war and I have no home anymore. I don't know if there is any point in staying in Poland if I don't even want to live there my whole life and can't get a job, so I'm pretty much free in my decisions and my parents would help me with covering rent in Norway + I'm working as a freelance graphic designer, and the money that I make would be enough for groceries and extra expenses. I'm turning 22 this year, I don't have any responsibilities like a kid or anything, I don't have anything holding me in Poland or anywhere lol. I don't know what to do with my life because I was honestly thinking about ending it because it feels like I failed my life and it is over. But I do love that there are a lot of activities in Norway that you can do in your free time, and they are pretty physical activities like swimming, skiing, or walking around forests. I saw how people live there and I loved it. I feel very comfy and good in this country, despite my relatives who I'm visiting being annoying.

So my plan now is to learn Norwegian. I think it would take me a year to hit B2, which is enough to speak and understand the language well (I think knowing some German and my good English skills would help me with learning Norwegian; I'm also great at learning languages overall, it is easy for me). And then I would move to Norway and enter nursing/healthcare assistant school and get a job in this field. I'm also thinking about passing some exams to enter medical uni and become a doctor, so this is lowkey my plan for now. I would move to Norway right now, but I feel like I won't be able to get even a job in a Norwegian supermarket because I don't know the language, and yeah, I wouldn't be able to work in a factory or related job because of my health issues. Maybe anyone could recommend me something about moving? Am I too old to enter school/uni again? I would love to socialise at school/uni and find friends, but if I'm too old for that and people will feel weird around me, then I don't know... what could be other downsides of Norway? Maybe there is a nurse/healthcare assistant who could advise me on something? I would be glad to hear any feedback.

Hey guys, so I have some relatives who live in Norway and because of that I got a chance to visit a few places: Filtet, Drammen, some random places in Asker, Arendal, and Oslo. It is my first time visiting Norway, and I really loved the nature. I love how clean the air is, I loved the food (a lot of people hate on Norwegian food, but I honestly liked the products and food over there), and I liked that people were very nice to me in all of these places, even though everyone told me that Norwegians are very cold people and that it is better to not even look at them. Mountains and sea in the same place, weather — that’s what I love the most about Norway.

For my background: I'm from Ukraine, and I have been living in Poland since 2021 because I entered university there. I have been looking for a stable job for the past year (I already have 3 years of experience in this field) since graduation (graphic design, UX/UI design) and got NOTHING. The job market is horrendous in the whole world, and Poland especially. And I do love Poland; it is a great and pretty underrated country, but I don't see my future there... I didn't expect Norway to be that good. Yeah, I heard that it is an astonishingly beautiful country, but I didn't expect to like the food over there because of how everyone was complaining about it, and I didn't expect people there to be nice at all. I didn't know that people swim in Norway in summer... so I'm crazy impressed, ngl.

I always wanted to live in a country with the sea and a cold climate; I didn't know that these two things can coexist. My English is C1, and I understand that to live in Norway you must learn Norwegian, and honestly, I do love this language — I think it is great! I also like how LGBT-friendly Norway is, how open-minded people over there are. Idk, I just really love everything for now. The only thing that I'm not very happy about is that you kind of need a car in Norway because of the infrastructure, yeah... and prices are high. But if I manage to get a job in Norway, then why not? I honestly don't like how people are complaining about the prices and recommend living in a cheaper country, because moving to some country isn't just about the money - you honestly gotta love its culture, climate, food, etc. And Norway seems perfect to me for now. We all gonna spend hours at some job, then why not to spend these hours in the country that you actually enjoy living in? I also can’t imagine a better country to start a family in and live.

Unfortunately, I can't move here as a refugee (it would have been much easier; I would come here asap, learn the language, and then go to uni/get a job). I have EU citizenship, so I can move here as an EU citizen only. I am thinking about learning the language, then going to Norwegian healthcare school/nursing, and then working there, because these jobs seem to be in the highest demand in Norway. I wouldn't stay at my relatives' place because we don't have a very good relationship; I would move here alone, rent a room, and visit school/uni. I honestly don't have any place to go, I can't go to Ukraine because of the war and I have no home anymore. I don't know if there is any point in staying in Poland if I don't even want to live there my whole life and can't get a job, so I'm pretty much free in my decisions and my parents would help me with covering rent in Norway + I'm working as a freelance graphic designer, and the money that I make would be enough for groceries and extra expenses. I'm turning 22 this year, I don't have any responsibilities like a kid or anything, I don't have anything holding me in Poland or anywhere lol. I don't know what to do with my life because I was honestly thinking about ending it because it feels like I failed my life and it is over. But I do love that there are a lot of activities in Norway that you can do in your free time, and they are pretty physical activities like swimming, skiing, or walking around forests. I saw how people live there and I loved it. I feel very comfy and good in this country, despite my relatives who I'm visiting being annoying.

So my plan now is to learn Norwegian. I think it would take me a year to hit B2, which is enough to speak and understand the language well (I think knowing some German and my good English skills would help me with learning Norwegian; I'm also great at learning languages overall, it is easy for me). And then I would move to Norway and enter nursing/healthcare assistant school and get a job in this field. I'm also thinking about passing some exams to enter medical uni and become a doctor, so this is lowkey my plan for now. I would move to Norway right now, but I feel like I won't be able to get even a job in a Norwegian supermarket because I don't know the language, and yeah, I wouldn't be able to work in a factory or related job because of my health issues. Maybe anyone could recommend me something about moving? Am I too old to enter school/uni again? I would love to socialise at school/uni and find friends, but if I'm too old for that and people will feel weird around me, then I don't know... what could be other downsides of Norway? Maybe there is a nurse/healthcare assistant who could advise me on something? I would be glad to hear any feedback.

Hey guys, so I have some relatives who live in Norway and because of that I got a chance to visit a few places: Filtet, Drammen, some random places in Asker, Arendal, and Oslo. It is my first time visiting Norway, and I really loved the nature. I love how clean the air is, I loved the food (a lot of people hate on Norwegian food, but I honestly liked the products and food over there), and I liked that people were very nice to me in all of these places, even though everyone told me that Norwegians are very cold people and that it is better to not even look at them. Mountains and sea in the same place, weather — that’s what I love the most about Norway.

For my background: I'm from Ukraine, and I have been living in Poland since 2021 because I entered university there. I have been looking for a stable job for the past year (I already have 3 years of experience in this field) since graduation (graphic design, UX/UI design) and got NOTHING. The job market is horrendous in the whole world, and Poland especially. And I do love Poland; it is a great and pretty underrated country, but I don't see my future there... I didn't expect Norway to be that good. Yeah, I heard that it is an astonishingly beautiful country, but I didn't expect to like the food over there because of how everyone was complaining about it, and I didn't expect people there to be nice at all. I didn't know that people swim in Norway in summer... so I'm crazy impressed, ngl.

I always wanted to live in a country with the sea and a cold climate; I didn't know that these two things can coexist. My English is C1, and I understand that to live in Norway you must learn Norwegian, and honestly, I do love this language — I think it is great! I also like how LGBT-friendly Norway is, how open-minded people over there are. Idk, I just really love everything for now. The only thing that I'm not very happy about is that you kind of need a car in Norway because of the infrastructure, yeah... and prices are high. But if I manage to get a job in Norway, then why not? I honestly don't like how people are complaining about the prices and recommend living in a cheaper country, because moving to some country isn't just about the money - you honestly gotta love its culture, climate, food, etc. And Norway seems perfect to me for now. We all gonna spend hours at some job, then why not to spend these hours in the country that you actually enjoy living in? I also can’t imagine a better country to start a family in and live.

Unfortunately, I can't move here as a refugee (it would have been much easier; I would come here asap, learn the language, and then go to uni/get a job). I have EU citizenship, so I can move here as an EU citizen only. I am thinking about learning the language, then going to Norwegian healthcare school/nursing, and then working there, because these jobs seem to be in the highest demand in Norway. I wouldn't stay at my relatives' place because we don't have a very good relationship; I would move here alone, rent a room, and visit school/uni. I honestly don't have any place to go, I can't go to Ukraine because of the war and I have no home anymore. I don't know if there is any point in staying in Poland if I don't even want to live there my whole life and can't get a job, so I'm pretty much free in my decisions and my parents would help me with covering rent in Norway + I'm working as a freelance graphic designer, and the money that I make would be enough for groceries and extra expenses. I'm turning 22 this year, I don't have any responsibilities like a kid or anything, I don't have anything holding me in Poland or anywhere lol. I don't know what to do with my life because I was honestly thinking about ending it because it feels like I failed my life and it is over. But I do love that there are a lot of activities in Norway that you can do in your free time, and they are pretty physical activities like swimming, skiing, or walking around forests. I saw how people live there and I loved it. I feel very comfy and good in this country, despite my relatives who I'm visiting being annoying.

So my plan now is to learn Norwegian. I think it would take me a year to hit B2, which is enough to speak and understand the language well (I think knowing some German and my good English skills would help me with learning Norwegian; I'm also great at learning languages overall, it is easy for me). And then I would move to Norway and enter nursing/healthcare assistant school and get a job in this field. I'm also thinking about passing some exams to enter medical uni and become a doctor, so this is lowkey my plan for now. I would move to Norway right now, but I feel like I won't be able to get even a job in a Norwegian supermarket because I don't know the language, and yeah, I wouldn't be able to work in a factory or related job because of my health issues. Maybe anyone could recommend me something about moving? Am I too old to enter school/uni again? I would love to socialise at school/uni and find friends, but if I'm too old for that and people will feel weird around me, then I don't know... what could be other downsides of Norway? Maybe there is a nurse/healthcare assistant who could advise me on something? I would be glad to hear any feedback.

Hey guys, I hate working. I hate spending minimum 8 hours per day on work, I hate having coworkers that are so annoying most of the times, I hate that managers are always crazy mean or just straight up weirdos with anger issues, I hate working 5 days per week minimum, I hiesntly hate how u miss out on life experiences because of work. Wanna go on vacation? U have work. Wanna go to the festival? Work. Spontaneous trip? Work. Go to club overnight? Work etc….it is always work and work that fcked everything up. Idk I’m turning 22 this year, am I too childish for life or what?