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These are way too small to cover a regular sized human body, so genuinely what’s the point? Is it meant to be a lap blanket? Or for their pets maybe? Or possibly a baby blanket. Idk, the design is nice but them being so small doesn’t make any sense to me. I know a blanket is a lot of work but still. I’m currently making a bouquet blanket for myself and I’m going to make it like the size of my bed

For example you could say “I love pancakes” and they’ll accuse you of hating waffles, and hating anyone that loves waffles. Why do some people do this? Is it low IQ or something else?

This is a personal question sorry in advance. Basically I’ve been on antidepressants since mid 2023, I’ve tried like 5 different ones and all of them have lowered my sex drive. I used to be able to have multiple orgasms in a row, now I can only do one. Has anyone found a solution for this? I feel like it’s kinda self centered for me to feel like this, but I miss being able to have multiple orgasms. TIA

This is just a venting post. I wanted to preface this with the fact that I’m not tired of all men in general. Not all men are incels and annoying. Some just genuinely struggle with loneliness and their mental health, and that doesn’t automatically make them an incel. I’m saying this so that nobody assumes I think otherwise lol. Also I know that the true definition of incel is just “involuntary celibate”, but in this post I’m using the modern definition of it: “an incel, a portmanteau of “involuntary celibate” is a member of an online subculture of mostly male and heterosexual people who define themselves as unable to find a romantic or sexual partner despite desiring one. They often blame, objectify, and denigrate women as a result”

Anyways it’s just as the title says, I’m tired of being pressured to feel sorry for these people. It’s like “oh poor them, they’ve never had a girlfriend and women have rejected them, boo hoo”. I genuinely don’t care. Hating every single woman on the planet just because a few rejected you is stupid and immature. I’ve been rejected many times and I don’t hate all men, I don’t even hate the men who rejected me.

And then you have the whole “male loneliness issue”. Obviously I believe that men’s mental health is important. But then I have these incels telling me that because I’m a woman, I’ll never understand the loneliness that they feel. They don’t know anything about my life, they don’t know I don’t have any close friends, never had a boyfriend, always struggled to make friends, been bullied, etc. incels always see themselves as the victim and it’s annoying. Incels are annoying and pathetic and I don’t feel sorry for them at all. Also yes I do block these people when they interact with me and say rude things.

Just as the title says. I’m tired of being pressured to feel sorry for these people. It’s like “oh poor them, they’ve never had a girlfriend and women have rejected them, boo hoo”. I genuinely don’t care. Hating every single woman on the planet just because a few rejected you is stupid and immature. I’ve been rejected many times and I don’t hate all men, I don’t even hate the men who rejected me.

And then you have the whole “male loneliness issue”. Obviously I believe that men’s mental health is important. But then I have these incels telling me that because I’m a woman, I’ll never understand the loneliness that they feel. They don’t know anything about my life, they don’t know I don’t have any close friends, never had a boyfriend, always struggled to make friends, been bullied, etc. incels always see themselves as the victim and it’s annoying. Incels are stupid and pathetic and I don’t feel sorry for them at all

open to adding other songs too

Whenever I make a comment or post especially in a nsfw subreddit (different account not this one), I get men bombarding me with DMs about how they want to sext with me, how they want to fuck me, etc. my bio will say “not interested in sexting” but I’ll still get these comments. Men don’t have to worry about women being annoying like this which is what pisses me off so much. I hate that some men on here constantly want to push boundaries and they think everything revolves around them. Everything is about what they want, and rather than finding a woman who actually wants to sext, they’ll go for the ones that don’t want to and try to convince them otherwise.

Tbh it’s not just Reddit, it’s all social media in general. I’m tired of it and I’m tired of some men and not being able to interact in subreddits without getting annoying DMs. Whenever I’ve closed my DMs, these men will just go onto my account and comment on my visible posts. It’s very irritating. Yeah I get it, I should get off social media and all that. But why should I have to leave because of other people? Women should be able to use reddit just like these men, without having a ton of annoying people in her dms.

My mental health is already bad, I have major depressive disorder, persistent depressive disorder, social anxiety, general anxiety, OCD, BPD, and I’m also autistic. All diagnosed. But me being and feeling ugly makes it all worse because I can’t even be pretty at the very least. I’ve never been like one of those women who looks pretty when crying. If I want to look somewhat pretty i have to wear a lot of makeup, lash extensions, hair extensions, and use the right angles when taking pictures otherwise I’ll look bad. I hate how this world places so much value on being good looking. I’m so tired of it

I’ve had locs for one year. I get a lot of comments about my hair, like people saying I would look better with longer hair, that short hair doesn’t fit my face shape, etc. idk what I’m supposed to do about that, I can’t grow my hair magically.

I used to wear extensions and braids a lot because I hated my hair, then I started wearing my natural hair because I wanted to appreciate it more; this was like 2 yrs ago. Then I got locs and even a year later I still feel like they’re not good enough. I see other people get locs and they’ll get tons of compliments, but because I have short hair I’ve been told I should add extensions to make my hair look longer. I’m tired of only feeling pretty with long hair

Some movies will include assualt scenes to make the movie more realistic. But why is it so rare to see women in movies with body hair? Why is it normal to see men with body hair but not women? To me, having body hair is realistic, even though women shave we aren’t smooth like 24/7. I’m genuinely asking don’t get mad in the comments pls

Sometimes I feel like the only way to make friends is to do this, but idk how to. Like for example at school, social gatherings, hobby groups, etc. Idk what to even say, and I’m scared they’ll just stare at me and look at me like I’m stupid. I’m 22 and at my big age I still struggle to talk to people, and I feel so pathetic

No weird people please, i mean you can be weird but not like sexual weird yk

We can share our favourite memes with each other, and tell each other how our day went, and then at 2 am rant about how shitty our lives are

Yeah I know not all men don’t come for me. I don’t believe it’s all men but it’s definitely most. Constantly overstepping boundaries, not taking no for an answer, asking for pictures, etc. I was talking to this guy for ONE FUCKING DAY and he asked me for a picture of myself. I said I’d rather not send one. He sent a long paragraph about how he can’t continue a convo with someone who doesn’t wanna open themselves up to him. This is just like example, I could go on and on. I’m so fucking tired of talking to some of the men on this app. The only reason I do it is because I’m lonely and despite what some men believe, women can be JUST as lonely as men. It’s not a fucking “male loneliness epidemic” anyone can be lonely.