I've been trying to lose weight but it's so difficult since majority of daily foods is mostly carbs from roti and rice. How are you supposed to lose weight? Most of the carbs foods are mostly filled with palm oil, sugar and high in salts.
I've been trying to find some formal wear shops that the prices are mid range. Looking for good quality and new varieties. If anyone could recommend shops would be great.
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Does anyone have a hard time understanding themselves. Like I'm 30 now and for such a long time now I've been feeling overwhelmed and this feeling of missing something. It's like I'm not understanding this feeling..
Sorry I'm not sure where to post this question but I'm just trying to get some advice about my younger brother who is in special ed class and he is finished with high school. We don't know like what is the next path. The school said he is able to attend school until age 21 and later transit to a vocational school. Or he may get the high school diploma and attend community college. But umm I feel like my brother isn't ready for college. Sorry I don't know how to explain further.
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How can kids continue learning in summer vacation instead of being in their phones or electronics all day. How can they stay engaged and learn new stuff. Are there specific websites where they improve skills for reading and writing and stuff like math and learning adulting skills. I heard library sometimes offers free programs and activities.
How can kids continue learning in summer vacation instead of being in their phones or electronics all day. How can they stay engaged and learn new stuff. Are there specific websites where they improve skills for reading and writing and stuff like math and learning adulting skills. I heard library sometimes offers free programs and activities.
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I bought frozen chicken fajitas from Aldi and I don't know how to make a meal out of it. I have some onions tomatoes and bell peppers also I have black beans and rice too. But I just don't know how to make a meal out of it..
I bought frozen chicken fajitas from Aldi and I don't know how to make a meal out of it. I have some onions tomatoes and bell peppers also I have black beans and rice too. But I just don't know how to make a meal out of it..
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I feel like I'm the only one who is 30 and doesn't have life figured out and secured. I'm literally depending on someone else income to live life and feeling like an incapable adult child. I don't have any goals created. I feel like I'm the weak, slow, lazy one. I let ego and pride get to me. Even though I keep saying I carry shame and anxiety. I resist to seek help and advice because I know deep down I'll get made fun of or might get viewed differently. And I don't really know how to figure out life despite watching multiple self improvement videos. Like I'm 30 but I still have no job. Still no college degree and skills. Still no friends and not driving. I feel ashamed I don't have money in my pocket nor self esteem. Even lately ive been avoiding phone calls and social gatherings because I just feel shame honestly. I don't like the fact I have to lie towards others because ultimately it makes me feel small.
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I’ve never understood why people created these toxic labels that society forces onto everyone.
So what if you don't pass a class, or if you struggle to overcome a difficult obstacle? Society immediately labels you as either a "winner" or a "loser." They judge people entirely on their looks, throwing around labels like "ugly" or "good-looking." They judge your worth based on whether you are "poor" or "rich."
It feels like there is no room for nuance or empathy. These toxic labels ignore the fact that we are all human beings going through different struggles. Instead, they just create total havoc in people's lives and ruin their self-esteem. I’m just so tired of everyone being reduced to a simple, superficial category.
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I’ve never understood why people created these toxic labels that society forces onto everyone.
So what if you don't pass a class, or if you struggle to overcome a difficult obstacle? Society immediately labels you as either a "winner" or a "loser." They judge people entirely on their looks, throwing around labels like "ugly" or "good-looking." They judge your worth based on whether you are "poor" or "rich."
It feels like there is no room for nuance or empathy. These toxic labels ignore the fact that we are all human beings going through different struggles. Instead, they just create total havoc in people's lives and ruin their self-esteem. I’m just so tired of everyone being reduced to a simple, superficial category.
Lot of people keep saying I'm very weak and slow and dumb.. because I guess I'm overthinking a lot and barley seem to be putting any effort in my life. It's like I'm letting everyone run over me. I don't know how to do simple things like accept myself or love myself or taking care such as building life goals and stuff.
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I felt so bad my family member wanted some help moving some items and they were so heavy furniture. I just couldn't lift nor push anything. And I felt more bad when they pointed my weakness ohh he can't lift. It's challenging for him. Bro like that shit made me feel weak. Like I don't lift weights but I'm doing like low impact cardio everyday. Like I don't much about fitness and stuff. But I definitely realized damn I gotta work on building strength and getting stronger.
I felt so bad my family member wanted some help moving some items and they were so heavy furniture. I just couldn't lift nor push anything. And I felt more bad when they pointed my weakness ohh he can't lift. It's challenging for him. Bro like that shit made me feel weak. Like I don't lift weights but I'm doing like low impact cardio everyday. Like I don't much about fitness and stuff. But I definitely realized damn I gotta work on building strength and getting stronger.
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I don't know how I feel and what I should do. It's like everything just happened yesterday. Time has gone by so much and already one year has completed. But I still feel like it just happened few days ago. Sometimes I miss her. Sometimes I feel guilt because I don't miss her. But I guess reason I'm trying not miss her is because I don't want to like become soft and quiet.
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I don't know how I feel and what I should do. It's like everything just happened yesterday. Time has gone by so much and already one year has completed. But I still feel like it just happened few days ago. Sometimes I miss her. Sometimes I feel guilt because I don't miss her. But I guess reason I'm trying not miss her is because I don't want to like become soft and quiet.
I don't know how I feel and what I should do. It's like everything just happened yesterday. Time has gone by so much and already one year has completed. But I still feel like it just happened few days ago. Sometimes I miss her. Sometimes I feel guilt because I don't miss her. But I guess reason I'm trying not miss her is because I don't want to like become soft and quiet.
I went to my friend auto mechanic guy. This guy is actually a aeroplane mechanic but on free time he likes to work on cars. He basically fixes them and also does reselling. He says I make more money doing this than my actual job. Because he's been aeroplane mechanic for 19 years and says I only work 2 days there. And so for rest of the days I just work on cars. Like he says I buy cars on Facebook marketplace or auctions for under $10k and fixes them then sells it. And he likes the fact that he is only dealing with cash not having to worry about taxes. It almost feels like a side hustle/hobby turned into a profitable business or full time job replacement. He said I still have few years left for retirement and doesn't want to lose flight benefits and pension.
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My friend took me to his friend's house where that guy is actually a aeroplane mechanic but on the side he just fixes cars. He says I only work at the airport for 2 days and rest of the days just work on cars. His house is pretty big and has almost 20 cars on his lot. Some in the backyard. Like is mechanic a profitable business. He says I like the fact I'm only dealing with selling and buying with cash so I don't have to worry about taxes. He says I basically buy cheap cars under $10k from Facebook marketplace or auctions and fixes it then resells it. And also fixes cars for many people. It was pretty amazing how much knowledge a person has about cars and its mechanism. I wish I can learn basic auto skills in my free time. I don't think I can become a mechanic but I guess it's very important to understand the basics of car maintenance..
My friend took me to his friend's house where that guy is actually a aeroplane mechanic but on the side he just fixes cars. He says I only work at the airport for 2 days and rest of the days just work on cars. His house is pretty big and has almost 20 cars on his lot. Some in the backyard. Like is mechanic a profitable business. He says I like the fact I'm only dealing with selling and buying with cash so I don't have to worry about taxes. He says I basically buy cheap cars under $10k from Facebook marketplace or auctions and fixes it then resells it. And also fixes cars for many people. It was pretty amazing how much knowledge a person has about cars and its mechanism. I wish I can learn basic auto skills in my free time. I don't think I can become a mechanic but I guess it's very important to understand the basics of car maintenance..