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people who have discovered a dead body of someone what was your reaction?
reddit.comGreat frontend, then the backend work starts. Is that just how AI app builders go?
Okay so I keep trying AI app builders and I keep running into the same shape of problem. In a weekend I can get a gorgeous frontend. Nice dashboard, clean forms, smooth transitions. I show it to friends and they are impressed.
Then the backend wall.
Oh you want users to sign up? Now you need auth. Auth needs a database. Users need different permissions so theres access control. Oh you want to charge money? Now there is paid-access state, billing config, and some server-side place that decides who gets what. Want people to actually keep access after they pay and lose it when they should? Now you need backend logic you can inspect before serving content.
The UI takes days. The backend takes longer. Sometimes the tool helps, sometimes I end up wiring a separate backend, and sometimes I just realize I do not understand the permission model well enough yet.
I've now tried this cycle with three different builders and hit the same handoff question each time. Am I just expecting too much? Or is there a workflow where the backend parts are first-class without making me feel trapped?
Waking up with a heavy head from bedroom CO2. Looking for a renter friendly fresh air system no drilling.
My bedroom gets super stale overnight and I wake up with a heavy head. I run a air purifer all night but it just recirculates the same indoor air. grabbed a CO2 monitor and it was in the red by morning.
I rent so drilling holes for an ERV or HRV is completely out of the question. street noise is too bad outside to leave the window open either. I've been looking for a renter friendly fresh air system no drilling and cozeware freshflow was one of the pre-launch window-mounted options I found. it's window-mounted but I don't know if something like this can actually bring in real fresh air or if it's just a louder air purifier.
How do you bridge to Base?
Hi everyone, I'm looking to bridge some ETH to Base chain, how do you do that easily?
what’s the most straightforward and safest option for someone who doesn’t want to get too deep into the complexities?
Tested a bunch of AI video tools for keeping ONE character consistent across scenes. Here's how they held
Character consistency across a multi-scene video is where most AI video tools fall apart, so I ran the ones I had on the same 8-shot sequence and rated how well the same character survived.
Kling: strongest raw character coherence shot to shot of the pure generators; still drifts a little across a long sequence.
Runway: good control and reference support, but across many shots the face still wanders.
Pika: fine for a single shot, weak across a batch.
ComfyUI (node workflow): different approach. You lock the character as one node feeding every shot, so consistency is a property of the workflow, not luck. Best result for me across a whole video, but you build and maintain the graph.
OpenCreator: the hosted version of that node approach. Lock the character once, regenerate a single shot, and it holds across the rest without running anything locally. Less low-level control than ComfyUI.
Takeaway: pure generators are getting better at in-shot consistency, but for a whole video the node/workflow approach (lock the character, don't re-roll it) is what actually held. Tradeoff is setup vs just prompting.
For people doing series or multi-scene work, what have you found keeps a character stable across an entire video?
Still pissed about this.
Running a small kitchen products business for 3 years now. Yesterday morning I get an email from a potential client. Bulk order for custom organizers. $4000. She needs pricing by end of day.I KNOW I got a killer price on these exact ones back in August or September. I remember forwarding it to my business partner saying "this is the supplier we should use."Spent the entire day looking for it.Emails. Three different email conversations because one guy changed his number. My phone camera roll because I screenshot stuff and forget about it. WeChat. One supplier sends quotes as handwritten notes so that was fun, scrolling through hundreds of images trying to find the right one.and the worst part is every place has one small piece. one chat has moq, one email has price, one screenshot has sample note, and i cant tell which one is the latest quote.Never found it.Wait, did I delete it when I was cleaning my inbox last month? I might have actually deleted the fucking thing. By 6pm I gave up. Emailed all my suppliers asking them to quote again. Told the client I'd have pricing tomorrow. She went with someone else this morning. Found a vendor who responded same day.that was the moment i realized my real problem was not pricing, it was supplier information being everywhere. quotes, moq, sample notes, contact names, old screenshots, all scattered in different places.this is why accio sourcing toolkit started to make sense to me. i dont just need another chat tool. i need one place to keep supplier name, old quote, moq, sample note, contact person, reply status and what product they quoted before.I lost four thousand dollars because I cant organize my own business.i’m thinking about using accio sourcing toolkit to keep quotes,I know this is on me but I'm exhausted from spending more time hunting for information than actually running my business.
has any of you encountered something you thought was outta this world?
reddit.comThree Herbal Delay Products I’ve Used Over the Past Year
On a good day, I can usually last around 2–3 minutes. On a bad day, especially if I’m stressed or really excited, I can finish in 15–30 seconds.
I tried lidocaine sprays, benzocaine sprays, and even a few supplements. They definitely worked to some extent, but I kept running into the same problem: they made me too numb. Lasting longer didn’t really matter if I wasn’t enjoying sex anymore.
Because of that, I’ve spent most of the past year using herbal products instead. Here’s how they’ve been for me.
P.Y.T
It was the first herbal product I ever tried. The packaging is tiny and pretty discreet, making it easy to keep in a drawer or throw into a bag without attracting attention.
Using it is simple enough. I usually apply it about 20 minutes beforehand and wash it off before sex.
For me, it usually turns a session that would’ve lasted less than a minute into around 8–10 minutes.
One thing I noticed after using it for a while is that there seems to be a ceiling to the effect. Applying a little more never really gave me noticeably longer results.
The biggest downside is that the balm feels sticky and needs to be washed off.
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EjaGuard
It has probably become the one I reach for most often.
The bottle is just a plain green spray without labels.
My usual routine is 3 sprays and about a 20-minute wait.
The experience feels natural. I still feel everything, but I’m not overwhelmed by stimulation as quickly.
The biggest downside is the price.
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Alpha Herb
It comes as a liquid dropper.
The packaging isn’t as discreet because the label is obvious.
For me, 2 drops and about 15 minutes works well. At 3 drops, I start feeling noticeably numb.
Performance is similar to EjaGuard and usually lets me last well over 15 minutes.
The biggest downside is that it must stay refrigerated.
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Quick Comparison
| Category | P.Y.T. | EjaGuard | Alpha Herb |
|---|---|---|---|
| Appearance | Small & discreet | Discreet | Branding is obvious |
| My Dose | Small amount | 3 sprays | 2 drops |
| Wait Time | 20 min | 20 min | 15 min |
| Easy to Adjust | Medium | Excellent | Good |
| Natural Feeling | Very good | Excellent | Excellent |
| Delay (for me) | ~10 min | 15–20 min | 15+ min |
| Privacy | Good | Excellent | Average |
| Travel Friendly | Good | Excellent | Poor |
Final Thoughts
After trying quite a few products, I realized I personally don’t enjoy feeling numb. I’d rather have a product that gives me enough extra control while still letting sex feel natural.
Procurement is not the budget owner, end user or decision maker for the product/services.
his is exactly the kind of daily procurement pain people don’t talk about enough. suppliers don’t read the website, they message the wrong person, and then procurement still has to clean up the mess.we get emails about things we don’t even buy, or salespeople send the same intro again and again without following the supplier signup process. it wastes time, and useful supplier info can also get lost when we just forward emails around.this is the part that gets messy fast. one person forward to legal, one person forward to finance, and nobody know if this supplier is actually useful or just another random pitch.this is why i started looking at accio sourcing toolkit. not to replace procurement, but to help organize supplier requests, filter basic info, and send the right supplier details to the right team faster. i would use it like a first filter. tag the supplier by category, collect company name, contact, product type, location, price info, doc status, and then mark who should review it next.procurement should not be the inbox trash bin for every random sales pitch.
H-1B to green card: how do you choose between company counsel, big firms, and smaller immigration firms?
How do people usually choose immigration counsel once an H-1B case turns into green-card planning?
The part that confuses me is that different firms seem to be good for different situations. If the company is doing PERM,EB-2/EB-3, the employer and HR seem to control a lot. If the case is more NIW / EB-1A, then people keep mentioning firms like Chen, Ellis Porter, Dunn, etc. For big employers, Fragomen or BAL come up a lot too.
For someone who needs to think through H-1B timing, PERM, EB-2/EB-3, NIW/EB-1A, I-485, maybe H-4 family timing, and job-change risk, how did you decide whether to just use company counsel, go with a big firm, or talk to a smaller/bilingual immigration firm?
I’m also wondering whether it’s worth doing one consult with a smaller/bilingual immigration firm like NYIS law firm, mainly to understand the full H-1B-to-green-card timeline and compare routes before committing to one strategy. I’m trying to understand how people would compare that type of firm with bigger corporate immigration counsel or NIW-focused shops.
What actually mattered in your case: attorney access, HR coordination, response time, route strategy, cost, or something else? Also curious what red flags you wish you had noticed earlier.
I think I've been taking notes the wrong way for years
I've always been the person typing nonstop during meetings. At some point I convinced myself that if I missed one sentence, something would go horribly wrong later.Turns out... that habit wasn't helping much.Last week I went back to find a decision from an old client call. I had six pages of notes. Six. And somehow the one thing I needed wasn't there.That's when I realized I wasn't really listening during meetings. I was mostly just trying to keep up. A coworker suggested I stop treating note-taking like a race. He also mentioned he'd switched to a dedicated recorder instead of his phone.I eventually picked up a recpoint device. Setup was easy enough, although I do wish the case didn't pick up little scratches so quickly. Doesn't affect anything, just annoys me a bit.The app gives you 3000 minutes of transcription after signing in, soo I figured I'd use those before deciding whether this workflow was actually worth sticking with.Funny enough, I don't think the transcripts are the biggest benefit. It just nice leaving a meeting without feeling like I was multitasking the entire time. Anyone else gone through something similar?Or am I just embarrassingly late to figuring this out?
Comparing bitgo vs fireblocks on regulatory structure and what it means for institutional custody decisions
Been trying to work through the regulatory structure difference between Fireblocks and BitGo and keep landing on the same point: these are structurally different things even though both get called "institutional custody."
Fireblocks is a key management and transaction infrastructure company. What they call custody is primarily secure key management, not qualified custodianship in the legal sense. Worth noting: most institutions using Fireblocks for key management pair it with a separate regulated custodian anyway, so the two aren't always in direct competition. The structural question is whether having key management and qualified custody under the same chartered entity changes the risk profile versus splitting them across a tech provider and a regulated bank.
That matters a lot for regulated fund structures that require a named qualified custodian on record. "We use Fireblocks for key security" and "we have a qualified custodian" are different compliance statements with different implications.
BitGo is now operating as an OCC-chartered federal trust bank, publicly listed on the NYSE. Anchorage Digital has the same federal OCC charter. As counterparties, a technology company and a federally chartered bank sit in different legal categories. The difference isn't in the marketing materials; it's in the charter documentation and regulatory filings.
Has anyone built a more structured framework for evaluating the qualified custodian distinction, particularly for regulated fund structures that need a named custodian on record?
mosnter man from 2003 a sorta jeepers creepers horror raunchy comedy with sex jokes and some good gore
really loved it . horror and comedy is handled well and buddy comedys betweens two mcs is great along with main mcs characters development . brother fred is my favourite character . and the monster truck looks awesome and cool . main monster man is named brother bob and he looks terrifying he does get flatlined by the end literally . and god damn did this movie make me laugh my ass of sometimes
whats the weirdest shit you ever saw that u find to explain?
like in forest or like on side of road or just at night .
I keep losing room fights even when I have the better gun
Not sure if it’s just me, but I feel like I can control long sprays better than close range fights.
If I have an UMP, Uzi or shotgun I still sometimes lose the second I push a room. I either rush the door too fast, reload at the worst time, or swing and get knocked before my teammate can trade.
For people who are actually good at apartments / stair fights, what helped you the most?
Is it mainly crosshair placement, using throwables first, better sensitivity, or just grinding TDM until it feels normal?
anyone selling nerf or airsoft or airguns or even hotwheels
reddit.comare there any summoner games like v from dmc v
are there any summoner games like v from dmc v